NewStats: 3,264,171 , 8,182,850 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 01:16 AM 2q682s

Mekuseh11:


That is life... it aint fair and perfect

Its left for people to learn and adapt.

Women relationship shelf life is perishable in fulfilling their reproductive proclivity that is hard wired in every human being, that is reality.

From 35y/o above they become susceptible of geratic pregnancy, so their best fertile years is in their 20s.

The woke virus mindset has told people espercially women to not see marriage as an achievement to live their life and chase career over being a loyal wife and mother.

But in the west women who are above 35y/o, unmarried and childless are the highest consumption of SSRIs/antidepressant medication, from tracking their purchase.

This trend is creeping gradually into our African society.

My stand is our boilogical hard wiring by God aligns with the standards traditional societies of every civilization since time immemorial has created.

Yes, its not a straight line, life wont be fair to everybody but these are the foundational standards rooted in our natural boilogical proclivities.

dederocs:

Jesus Christ who they worship didn't marry...some humans have low IQ and most are bitter from their unhappy miserable lives, ignore and avoid them.

You are actually the one with Low IQ for using "Jesus Christ" to make your point about men who didn't marry in history.

"Important" or REVOLUTIONARY men who did not their gene to the next generation are outliers...

and even men who are revolutionaries are exceptional humans the 0.000000000001% of Humans

Mekuseh11:


Are you due for marriage because you are 40 Or because you genuinely want a companion and life around you?
Sometimes we allow societal standards determine our course of action. Don't be pressured into anything.
Your priority now should be getting a stable source of income and then you can find a partner to build with ( there is someone out there for you).
Afterwards you can get married and still enjoy your life.

The goto phrase for people who are either ignorant or not in touch with reality, stuckup in their LaLaLand - "Societal Standards"

To be honest for the average man, from 45years & above if you are not married it will become kind of shameful.

Its biology, not societal standards...anytime i see my colleagues post their kid(s) pix on their status, i know how i feel.

I am a man in my early 30s

Assuming all things goes well, the benefits of marrying early trumps late marriage.

As a man you, if you work on yourself, stay in shape, financially stable, and most espercially God bless you with good looks, at 50 he can still marry a lady half his age.

But these are exceptional men not the normies or the regular joe who are majority.

So a man should use his 20s in developing himself, learning intergender dynamics, stay fit, form connections with other men and build his career or craft.

franchasng:



Despite having the exercise equipments, no zeal to use them and going to gym is not an easy routine

It takes a Killer mindset to stay consistent to a workout program espercially from late 30s

There's this saying some online youtube fitness coach quotes "Motivation breeds inconsistency"

One has to be Disciplined to follow through, and it starts from the kitchen...

Boss Just incase you want to declutter your gears, i dey Abuja

betabread:


Its a waste of money building walls or fence to secure a farm...... Security on large farms should be around low bulk high value goods such as diesel, fuels and machine parts..... It's better to use natural geographical features like streams or virgin forest to show demacation

I went to a huge farm at Jege Kogi state with a drone pilot sometime last year, to do a farm mapping Job with a DJI Mavic 2 drone.

The entrance is fenced with a gate, although the fence is just shoulder high.

Hills at the back provide the demarcation, they still had theft challenges.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:


the redpill happened

Deal with it babygyal

More like the redpill went mainstream

The knowledge of redpill was default in most men raised and living in traditional societies, then HollyWood started the mass brainwashing of people with mushy romantic soul-mate love script...

pansophist:
The final stage is invincibility lol

Firstly women enjoy waves of attention from their late teens to like 24. At that age, she is celebrity, every man wants her number, and will be spoilt by rich men who will increase her taste, which she will confuse as standards.

Then from 25 above, men will still be coming, but she notice that the intensity men are coming with have reduced, and at this point, most men wont put pressure if you decline the first time.

From 30's, she realise that men actually have standards for the women they take serious. All her life, men ignore their standard just to fork, but now she wants to marry, she realise for the first time that she is broker than the men she calls broke, and men will hold it against her.

From 35 upwards, she will begin to feel the invincibility men generally feel. Men at 35 years of age will go for girl even 10 years younger. Just like she went for men over 10 years older than her.

If she enter 40, then if it is not over, it is a miracle to bag a quality man. Then the real pain, loneliness, and sadness becomes a norm. Whats more painful is that she has gotten used to la vida loca since her teens, then now will be like grace to grass.

Better use your time wisely as a woman.

Men are not the problem, it is just nature and the laws of seasons. Most men suffers theirs from birth till even 40's, and women that are still single at that age will through it.

And the more beautiful and spoilt she is, the harder she falls.

Large scale farming requires huge investment in security... especially when there is no formidable fence/barrier for encroachment control.

A well secured & strategically placed sentry tower(s) with a 360 pan camera is a good start in securing the farm.

I pray all farmers have a productive farming season, e no easy at all.

Agba Baller🙌

More records to be broken by the young man

So these people will hang a framed picture of this outfit in the house for all and sundry to see?

What about their future kids?

They dont plan to show them their wedding ceremony video?

Do people think long term at all?

The audacity these days to expose boobs & cleavage by attension seeking who*res...

Its disgusting, they leave nothing for the imagination

Weak men who reward and enable bad behaviours like this, are to be blamed for the prevalence of indecency.

As a Wife this is HARAM!!!

DeeScan:
Try alcohol..

Be a quarter tipsy .. you won't give a shiit and be active as hell ..

You are wrong!


Stay away from Alcohol and Marijuana/weed

The long term harm it will do to the brain is not worth it.

Alcohol and drugs shrink the brain.

Knowing what i know now about biological proclivities and hard wiring for male and female...

I'd say for women 24y/o is perfect, having a present and strong father in her life is a net positive.

For men 35y/o is the sweet spot, thats if he has done the hard work of developing himself in his 20s.

For men who achieved financial stability mid to late 20s or people grew up in wealth and developed themselves further from that solid foundation can marry earlier than 35.

He should be living in his own rented apartment and have a sustainable source of income.

emmanuelewumi:
Presco, you will still buy Presco for N2000 per share

Pinned 📌

Always grateful for this community

Gerrard59:

Please break it down, they are aware that sub-Saharan Africa contains more poor people than elsewhere? If yes, what are their reactions and responses in realising that the dominant Black environment is notorious for multidimensional poverty? Or is it that they know they are poor as well, but not as poor as we are in sub-Saharan Africa?

What i am pointing out is that the black race as a whole have lots of work to do in challenging the derogatory stereotypes, whether Sub-Saharan Africans or blacks in the Caribbean.

Listening to those podcast, i got to know the profiling statistics of Black Americans...

1. Highest number of single parent household
2. Highest number of women giving birth unmarried
3. Highest number of men incarcerated (either lawfully or unjustly)
4. Black women are the bottom of the dating totem-pole in the US

Then our Haitian black brothers are majorly known for scamming in the US espercially in the state of Florida, synonymous to our "Nigerian Prince" tag .

The bahamas, Jamaicans knows for their pleasure centered activities "hor*y dog Islands"

For those yet to marry and bear children in the current Tinubunomics (I can only write about Nigeria), the surest solution is to have fewer children.

Only people with the gluttony for suffering will give birth to kids they can't train adequately with the current economic realities.

Quality over Quantity

We cant drum it enough for couples to plan and factor in mistakes when it comes to the number of kids their income and future projected earnings can comfortably carter for without working their hands to the bone.

The era of depending on one rich Uncle or relative is gradually coming to an end, everybody get their own financial burden

Gerrard59:
Apparently, as I have feared over the past year, sub-Saharan Africa is synonymous with perverse poverty. AKA this means the region which is home to more Black people than elsewhere is home to the majority of the world's poorest. Thus, the Black race equates poverty.

Well done to those involved. Una try well well.

From watching dating podcasts on youtube and getting reading some research statistics about the BLACK RACE, i got to know even with most Black Americans the stereotype holds water or even Black Island countries close to the USA.

Its crazy

With this awareness, hopefully people get angry enough to not be a part of the statistics, even though currently it seems all odds are against anyone who wants to breakfree from the shackles of generational poverty both mentally and financially.

folake4u:


What an interesting take.

This is hypocritical too. If broke men should stick to one pusśy, the rich men should also do same.

Hypocritical? 😅

Start a pusśy police force (PPF), be the IG and recruit your fellow egalitarian-woke thinking females to enforce it with an iron fist.

Yea, whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

Go girl!!!

Walai:
Can someone give me at least one convincing reason to get married apart from children (I can get any number of children without getting married) and sex (the cheapest commodity right now) ?

For the children's sound mental health into adulthood.

It has been shown by research it is better to raise Children in a Two parent household, than a single parent household.

Also most single fathers make the best parent than single mothers.

So except you'll be more present in your kids lives other than just paying their bills, you are good to go.

Her tonality and hand gestures all reeks of VDM

This has to be a comedy skit 😅

If its the funeral of a loved one, then its understandable, but not in front of a camera

A man should keep his emotions at check most often than not

Good day boss Emma

I sent you a message on telegram

A man Blessed by God 🙌

More of God’s Grace to Pastor Nath

Marc3500:
2006 not 2016

Thanks

I can still recall that unforgettable night

The Last time Arsenal was at the final of UCL they beat Madrid on the way...

Its looking like an alligned constellation of 2006🤔

Arsenal train wella😅

Agbegbaorogboye:
You will not hear pim from the President, VP, SP, Speaker and even the useless governor now since it is Christians that are on the receiving end

The NEF will not give ultimatum for the killers to be produced neither will there be any visit to any of the families involved

It will just be another business day a la Hell Ruffian

Nigeria is not even a zoo. Animals are not killed indiscriminately in a zoo and animals are equal and get equal treatment in a zoo

Nigeria is a jungle

The double standard in this country is crazy

So Fulanis lives are worth more than non-fulanis??

We can guess what the end game will be like if this continues unaddressed

When does fulani people become hunters?


Leah Shaibu was held back because of her faith in Christ Jesus and you bunch of buffoons didn't apply enough pressure on the government.


The people and Christians killed in enugu recently and other parts of Nigeria by fulanis who will agitate for their arrest and being brought to justice.

CaveAdullam:

So, marriage is not as useless as you think.

You went the whole nine yards on this Cave

The rage phase of being redpill aware takes time, I believe with time the poster of the question will get over it.

As africans our laws doesn't take average men to the cleaners after a divorce.

This is where I see reasons with western men who says "the Juice ain't worth the Squeeze"

11. There's this hypocrisy men are now carrying around based on the revelation of female nature and psychology as if men themselves are innocents and saints. Meanwhile, we are all sides of the same coin; dress from the same material.

I'd argue you are referring to the MEN, most women find attractive and are viscerally aroused by...
- Bad boys
- High status men
- player

They are the ones most delusional women refer to with their "Men are Scum" slur

Not the nice low-income earner average joe when it comes to intersexual dynamics.

Eternal rest to the deceased

Late Ajimobi was blessed with beautiful daughters...

Sit this one out Sir

You have lost your voice, it was bought 2015

THEY USE KID GLOVES FOR TERRORIST

But know how to do snatch and grab far far away for just one person

So painful its clueless pawns who will die in the polithiefcians dirty game of power