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Man shares why his friend blocked him on social media following discussion about why he divorced his wife.

I noticed someone blocked me everywhere. Still not sure if what I said was wrong so pls be the judge.. I hadn’t seen him with his wife for a while and saw they deleted each other’s pics on Instagram, so I asked what was up.
He said they’re divorced.
I asked what happened.

He said she’s not homely, can’t cook, doesn’t clean — and the final straw was when he asked her to wash his expensive Dior sneakers before a trip. Instead of scrubbing them, she threw them in the washing machine and they got ruined.

So I asked:
Did she cook when you were dating?

He said no.
Did she clean or wash?
He said no.

I said, so she’s never been doing those things, and you expected her to suddenly change cos you’re married?
He got angry.

They were married for just 18 months 💔

A lot of people are getting married without understanding what marriage really is.
The red flags you ignore while dating won’t disappear — they’ll only grow.
You can’t change your partner. Heck, you can’t even change yourself.
Know what you’re g up for and ask yourself if you can truly live with it — for life.

https://x.com/Chrisllionaire/status/1929912597148525003?t=D-zPbhzPI06X5WHxvc3kTQ&s=19

Person no need that kain person on his list, abeg! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

His home, his choices

Despite religious teachings, courtship usually is how to know if partners are compatible. He learnt the hard way. 18 months is kinda short for a marriage though, hopefully they didn't bring a kid into a now broken home during that period.

Better luck to them in their future relationship/marriage.

Who washes a sneaker in a washing machine...

It takes days to dry that way

A dumbo

So if we are not having sex before marriage... I am not supposed to expect sex in marriage??

there some basics that should be in marriage without g an affidavit and police report about it during courtship...... I mean..... why would someone not cook and clean in their own home...?? Y'all just like making marriage look harder than it is

iamnotillicit:
Who washes a sneaker in a washing machine... A dumbo

Yes, you can wash many types of sneakers in the washing machine, but it's important to take certain precautions to avoid damage. Generally, sneakers made of canvas, nylon, cotton, and polyester are safe to machine wash. And you can dry it afterwards in your dryer on low heat or fluff . There is nothing dumb about that move.

advanceDNA:
➜So if we are not having sex before marriage... I am not supposed to expect sex in marriage??
there some basics that should be in marriage without g an affidavit and police report about it during courtship...... I mean..... why would someone not cook and clean in their own home...?? Y'all just like making marriage look harder than it is

Wrong! These so-called basics differ from relationship to relationship, hence can't be classified as basics. That is what that post is attempting to highlight for those of you who are still unaware.

Wahala 🤣.

The truth is like cryptonite for some people!

This is like a woman whose boyfriend cheated on her and now she expects him not to cheat again because he's now married to her. Some people might change because they're married but majority of people don't. You get what you had before the "I dos"

I wondered what they were doing while courting not to have discussed roles and expectations in the home. Should he choose to remarry, he should what courtship is for.

Some Men often forget the part where nurturing each other in a relationship despite each other’s setbacks is a never ending cycle

Twitter people farming engagement.

No friend blocks him, those instances he stated as the basis for their imaginary 'divorce' are too over exaggerated to be true.

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! These so-called basics differ from relationship to relationship, hence can't be classified as basics. That is what that post is attempting to highlight for those of you who are still unaware.

junkie

Why divorce when he could've taken it upon himself to perform those responsiblities since he met her like that?

Beyonce can't cook, but it's her husband Jay Z who does the cooking whenever he's around and their marriage will be 17 years old this year... Communication is the greatest factor in a relationship.

You call yourself his best friend; where are you when they're dating?

Baba marry blonde

ruggedtimi:
Baba marry blonde

The Blonde, baba's choice, is not the problem. The problem is that Baba does not know what it is he truly wants in a partner. He wanted Blonde since he chose and then went on to marry Blonde. Only in his delusion, he also expected Blonde to transform from being Blonde into not Blonde after marriage. Na craze dem dey call that one.

He was having sex and forget to check.

Court for 3months,Married for 18months😂..

Their choice nau. Wedding money don waste, don't be surprised that the wedding was extravagant.

They were ready for wedding and not for marriage!
Na him money waste, they both should get lost.

iamnotillicit:
Who washes a sneaker in a washing machine...

It takes days to dry that way

A dumbo

every sneaker head knows to wash their sneakers themselves though I doubt if this story actually happened

What that gender cannot do doesn't exist

Bro you didn't do anything wrong.....

That friend of yours na werey........ How can he expect her to change in marriage and start doing the things she didn't do during courtship?

Some people just hate the truth............

Chilipepper:
So I asked:
Did she cook when you were dating?

He said no.
Did she clean or wash?
He said no.

I said, so she’s never been doing those things, and you expected her to suddenly change cos you’re married?
He got angry.
https://x.com/Chrisllionaire/status/1929912597148525003?t=D-zPbhzPI06X5WHxvc3kTQ&s=19

My own opinion is that a guy should never marry any woman who doesn't put enough effort into the relationship or show enough potential to be a good wife, same way a lady shouldn't marry a man who doesn't show enough potential to be a good husband.

The entire essence of dating is to truly know your partner, so if a girl lacks home training or isn't domesticated enough, jejely leave her, otherwise you go regret later.

People don't change they only adjust, ultimately with the right mix they will go back to their real self.There is no perfect man or woman everyone has their flaws.The only questions is to what extent?

Story story from Twitter boys

Them say truth is bitter

Samantha125:
Why divorce when he could've taken it upon himself to perform those responsiblities since he met her like that?

Beyonce can't cook, but it's her husband Jay Z who does the cooking whenever he's around and their marriage will be 17 years old this year... Communication is the greatest factor in a relationship.

African marriages traditionally requires a wife to cook,wash and take care of domestic front.


We are not Beyonce and Jay z