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I am in relationship with a lady over two years now. we been having sex together overtime. recently she decided not have it with me again, saying she don't want to do it again. she is 27yrs while and 32yrs planning to settle down soon. she said she want to satisfy God. And she suggested that l can be having it with other ladies even if she knows them. But l don't want break my covenant l made for her. what can l do?

ademate:
I am in relationship with a lady over two years now. we been having sex together overtime. recently she decided not have it with me again, saying she don't want to do it again. she is 27yrs while and 32yrs planning to settle down soon. she said she want to satisfy God. And she suggested that l can be having it with other ladies even if she knows them. But l don't want break my covenant l made for her. what can l do?

Control yourself and marry her ASAP if she is willing and you are up to the task.

what covenant if i may ask

not cheat on her

But l don't want break my covenant l made for her.
@op that's ur line right ? Do u no u have answered ursef by ursef ? Since u don't want to break the covenant then don't ...just hurry up and hustle to settle down with her as hubby n wife then u can fucck as u like....if u truly love her then don't break the covenant ...pay all due n have her as ur wife ...infact u can start the bleeping same night if u re not stressed.

If am d 1 ehn, I wil b very happy..... Na to rush go play away match sharperly wit no guilty conscience

heatmeup:
what covenant if i may ask

don't ask

Op she's 27 and u are. 32 wat are u wasting her time for, dats wat she meant, if u lik her, go marry her and stop fuckin her while still planning or promising her marriage. I bet u if u let her go serve God witout u, u will soon receive her wedding card

Op....u see free net u cant score...chai if i were u.....
I reserve my comment

Then put a ring on it!!!

ademate:
I am in relationship with a lady over two years now. we been having sex together overtime. recently she decided not have it with me again, saying she don't want to do it again. she is 27yrs while and 32yrs planning to settle down soon. she said she want to satisfy God. And she suggested that l can be having it with other ladies even if she knows them. But l don't want break my covenant l made for her. what can l do?

@ d emboldened, speechless.

Say NO to premarital Sex.

That's a trap. Don't fall for it. She told you you can sleep with other ladies as a test. Deep down, she doesn't want you to. If you love her as you claim, you'll wait for her, after all, she'll also be keeping off sex with another person until you both get married.

Don't fall for it. Don't give her a reason to dump you.

Can't we keep a rlatnship free of sex? Is sex a criteria of having a blissful rlatnship?

pretydiva:
Can't we keep a rlatnship free of sex? Is sex a criteria of having a blissful rlatnship?

I tire o!

iKillzz:
That's a trap. Don't fall for it. She told you you can sleep with other ladies as a test. Deep down, she doesn't want you to. If you love her as you claim, you'll wait for her, after all, she'll also be keeping off sex with another person until you both get married.
Don't fall for it. Don't give her a reason to dump you.

Se un come oh! I Don catch big fish.

Lolz. Lemme advice you from the mind of an experienced woman.

She wants you to marry her, but she doesn't want to pressure you into committing. Hence, the celibacy talk - "I made a covenant with God bla bla bla". Basically, you're placed on a sex probation pending either a more serious commitment from you or another eligible guy.
I could swear that if another guy comes into the picture, she'll dump your a$$.

Think deeply if you really want to marry her. If not, let her go.

For a girl to say you can cheat on her? She don dey free you small small be that,dont be surprised when you see her IV with another man o,its better you put the ring on it right now before she gets another suitor that's ready for marriage,she obviously doesn't give a damn about love anymore,she just wants to get married

Wife that babe sharply or u gonna loose her..,She's 27 meanin her time is tickin nd pressure frm around for her too so hurry up nd wife her or move on..,The sex isn't d ish

pretydiva:
Can't we keep a rlatnship free of sex? Is sex a criteria of having a blissful rlatnship?

Ah,iya,it is o

ademate:
I am in relationship with a lady over two years now. we been having sex together overtime. recently she decided not have it with me again, saying she don't want to do it again. she is 27yrs while and 32yrs planning to settle down soon. she said she want to satisfy God. And she suggested that l can be having it with other ladies even if she knows them. But l don't want break my covenant l made for her. what can l do?

if your story is true, you too give your life to Jesus, you may hit the bad one soon. I doubt any girl will say that

Covenant ko,oat ni.

She's lost interest in you,shikena!

No sane woman would want that,except she no longer cares about the relationship.

Just have it with other ladies. Simple. Sex is good oh. Why wanna be holy now? Sex is too good to save for holy things! Never mind ur gf op

Grabs a seat and settle at d right hand corner of the hall with my , this is getting interesting. Op, put ur ring on it coz she's tired of U putting ur dicck in it .

Hmmm such ladies and their ways,just make a wise decision in the long run.

Don't fall for that... It's an indirect speech.
All she wants is a security with a RING.

In beyonce's voice

*** oh oh oh oh oh oh oh, oh oh oh oh***

eh? me have never heard dis one bfor o ummm u sure she's not a lesbo??

luvly101:
Don't fall for that... It's an indirect speech.
All she wants is a security with a RING.

The gods have spoken.

She wants marriage sharperly.

EyeKandy:
Lolz. I've done the same thing too. Lemme advice you from the mind of an experienced woman.

She wants you to marry her, but she doesn't want to pressure you into committing. Hence, the celibacy talk - "I made a covenant with God bla bla bla". Basically, you're placed on a sex probation pending either a more serious commitment from you or another eligible guy.
I could swear that if another guy comes into the picture, she'll dumb your a$$.

Think deeply if you really want to marry her. If not, let her go.

Well said.

What can you do?Mr man you are 32 like you said..and she's 27 how long you wanna keep her..she's indirectly telling you she wants to get married...please oblige or let her be...shikena..

Lol @ covenant.