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hamid6249:
I can allow my children to marry from any tribe or community as long as it not from IBADAN

I have my reasons ,my eyes don see wem for thier hands ..useless bunch of people

please sir , what your reasons

seangy4konji:
Who are mbaise people?

IMO?

North Koreans

Because you are poor and not independent, if not, nobody has right on your choice of spouse. If marriage didn't work, you can separate peacefully.

who read that story about a similar suitor issue on www.dnbstories.com?

Run away my sister IMO state men are wicked one marry my sis for one year now and even with a child he refuse to take her from uyo to his village, IMO state men in fact most Igbo guy are use to the game
Run for ur life
Ur parents are not fools to take that decision

slimanyd:


North Koreans

com on.. I don't know. The state but think IMO..

An old saying goes thus; if a snake crawls into your house and an mbaise indigene comes in too,first kill mbaise before snake.


Don't know if it's just a myth or a Caricature

O don't know these people o. Tell me more about them. Enlighten me

I heard so much about mbaise dat they are corny and sometimes dey apply too much sense in handling issues

MedicH:
Lol my dad can follow u ur introduction as long as it's not Mbaisem we're four boys and he sings it like a song everyday. Old man has terrible experience with them.

Why why

AfroKnight:
Options for you:

1: Elope and do court wedding

2: Breakup and move on

3: Let him visit so you both can try to win your parents over.

Of all the advice in the world, this is the worst

johnaruson:
Because you are poor and not independent, if not nobody has right on your choice of spouse. If marriage didn't work, you can separate peacefully.

may DAT happen to ur sister in jesus name Amen

ursullalinda:
Don't know much abt dem but the only one I encountered is a wonderful soul. But there is a general misconception about them and I don't know the history

He/she must have studied in the school if ‘perfect pretense’

Carry belle

Same way o can never marry any ijebu or ondo,ilesha,ijesha lady

My father married a second wife whose mother was from oguachi or something.. The mother was loyal for ever and so was the wife my father married from that side.. If I we as woman from that side.. Oguachi.. Till death to us part.

Lol. it seems you havent heard...

But they cant stop you, if you trust yourself, go ahead. At least for the Mbaise people to exist until now, somebody must have married them and bore their children

So they cant all be 100% bad

But on second thought i find it hard to believe that you can be surprised at your parents reaction. I think my parents would sound like that too. maybe you grew up in a detribalised environment where you wont be hearing these stereotypes

Well to answer your question, in my mothers words

"Mbaise people are over-wise in marriage"

I think it better to ask your parent the reason.. Than coming here to ask, your parent must have had a reason for saying so.. I believe you should only come here when you've known the reason for rejecting people from that side



Do well to check my profile to learn importation from Turkey, USA, UK Malaysia and china

There's a saying " when an imbaise man and snake invades your house, chase the man away before the snake" .. but no be me talk am oh

jimmyolasun:
Ibadan people with their serpent tongue.... Tufia .... Anyway, I can shaa manage your females because una dey get yansh for that region

Yansh keeeee you there

Well as the saying goes... If u happen to see an mbaise man and a snake. Kill the mbaise man before u kill the snake.
On a personal level I have not heard any good thing about them.

Please be warned there is no smoke without fire

I know you can discuss anything with your mom, ask her and she will tell you everything, our parent always want the best for us

Bofoy4:
Run away my sister IMO state men are wicked one marry my sis till to he refuse to take her from uyo to his village, IMO state men in fact most Igbo guy are use to the game
Run for ur life
Ur parents are not fools to take that decision

Who presided over the this concoted lie you just called marriage .

DON'T WORRY, YOUR PARENT WILL MARRY YOU, AT YOUR AGE YOU WANT TO REMAIN OTONAKA NNA RIGHT?

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

Mbaise is my maternal home....they are great people. They hate injustice...they are very caring people. No society is perfect enough....the most important thing is the character of the man you wanna marry. The only area I disagree with mbaise people is on their requirement for marriage...when someone is marrying their daughter's....but I have been told that they have reduced their requirement now....but it doesn't apply to you cos you are not the one buying your bride price.. Again they are predominantly Catholic ...so visit one rev father in your community to help convince your father. In General igbo men are the best in of taking care of their wife and children

It's an old belief among the Igbo that "If you see a snake and you see an Mbaise man, you'd better kill the man and leave the snake". They were notoriously crafty and unreliable but that is a generalization and doesn't necessarily mean your husband or his family are like that.

I would suggest you engage your parents' priest or pastor to intervene in the matter.

Sister I would advice u to heed to ur parents advice


You are definitely entering a one chance marriage


Mbaise men are wayward...u dated him for three years..u still don't know much about him


u will regret ever marrying a guy from there...my word of advice

3 yrs are enough to make findings abt your guy

Love conquers many things

And the will of God for you is all that matters.

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

Age is no longer on your side.

please go where your heart lies

wisdom042:
I heard so much about mbaise dat they are corny and sometimes dey apply too much sense in handling issues

during my youth service, the one I met was so kind and generous, but womanize a lot and very good looking too.
my neigbours husband is from thesame ahiazu mbaise, have refused to go and pay his wife dowry only did introduction and has impregnated her with 3 kids , the wife is from Enugu state, she still worried till today.
I also know a wicked mbaise man that I needed an assistance from, the conditions he gave me was just terrible, I had to back off.
they are nice people, I think, but the majority are just mean hearted..

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

never you marry any man from Mbaise coz most if not all of them are impotent