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hey,

My friends do tell me that i need to adjust but i insist no.

i am this principle guy, i hate to cheat nd be cheated.

my principle is,any girl i date,i can marry and for this reason i look out for some basic requirement in girls b4 i can date her.

when i toast a girl and she acceptd me,if i discover she doesn't have this quality, i drop her immediately without had feelings.

but many of my friends argue that i should keep her.

my concern is, if i keep her knowing i cant stay long with her, it make me feel guilty.
i am not saying i will marry any girl i date,but can marry them if all went well.

Stick with your principles. You will get farther in life being true to yourself. I don't think it is unreasonable at all.

ynt check ur self
u seems 2 want a perfect babe
wen even u is nt.

bilms:

hey,

My friends do tell me that i need to adjust but i insist no.

i am this principle guy, i hate to cheat nd be cheated.

my principle is,any girl i date,i can marry and for this reason i look out for some basic requirement in girls b4 i can date her.

when i toast a girl and she acceptd me,if i discover she doesn't have this quality, i drop her immediately without had feelings.

but many of my friends argue that i should keep her.

my concern is, if i keep her knowing i cant stay long with her, it make me feel guilty.
i am not saying i will marry any girl i date,but can marry them if all went well.

Nice principle, all human should have atleast a minimum requirement but , YOU ARE NOT PERFECT AND IF A LADY CAN ACCEPT YOU DESPITE BEEN PERFECT, U SHOULD BE ABLE TO WORK SOMETHING OUT AS WELL!!!! MY BABY IS NOT PERFECT BUT I AM STILL THERE, SHAPING HIM THE WAY I WANT IN ADDITION TO PRAYER!

Also, U GET WAT U SEE, U CANT ALWAYS CHANGE PEOPLE, IF THEY LOVE U ENUFF, THEY WILL CHANGE FOR U,
LET LOVE REIGN!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes, u can stick with ur principle and if u dnt get a gurl after age 30, then u gotta check yah-self, something got to be wrong with yah principle,

principles are good but better when you know the time to bend them

@ poster
It's a nice principles.I actually have a similar principles like yours.

A man who stands for nothing will fall for everything! Stick to your principles but be a bit flexible. I have similar principles about relantionships too and my friends have concluded that i have 'no game' simple because they haven't seen me identify someone as my girlfriend. I consider it a waste of time dating someone i know i can't marry from the onset

kanmi22:

Nice principle, all human should have atleast a minimum requirement but , YOU ARE NOT PERFECT AND IF A LADY CAN ACCEPT YOU DESPITE BEEN PERFECT, U SHOULD BE ABLE TO WORK SOMETHING OUT AS WELL!!!! MY BABY IS NOT PERFECT BUT I AM STILL THERE, SHAPING HIM THE WAY I WANT IN ADDITION TO PRAYER!

Also, U GET WAT U SEE, U CANT ALWAYS CHANGE PEOPLE, IF THEY LOVE U ENUFF, THEY WILL CHANGE FOR U,
LET LOVE REIGN!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes, u can stick with your principle and if u dnt get a gurl after age 30, then u gotta check yah-self, something got to be wrong with yah principle,

As u can see, the poster never claimed to be perfect. he only as principles,

but @poster,may i ask, what are those requirement of urs?

may be they too much i guess?

@poster, to make things easier for u, don't ask the gals out immediately. get to know them as friends first, from there you'll get to know those things u can't tolerate. That saves u d hassle of breaking up, and there'll be no broken hearts involved

aww!!! may be u want a Virgin as your wife
huh

Guy stick with your principle but don't expect others to have the same principles as you

Mynd_44:

Guy stick with your principle but don't expect others to have the same principles as you

Simple!!


@OPFair enough, but you can have fun sumtimes and when i say fun not 'sex-making' i mean exploration and nothing all that serious live a little

jnr prof:

@poster, to make things easier for u, don't ask the gals out immediately. get to know them as friends first, from there you'll get to know those things u can't tolerate. That saves u d hassle of breaking up, and there'll be no broken hearts involved

Good advice

biola44:

principles are good but better when you know the time to bend them

Seconded!!! A wise man is someone with principles, but the wisest of men are those who know when to "bend" those principles to achieve a common goal.

Hmmm

thread.

@OP - Stick 2 your principles especially the one on cheating,atleast u deserve a faithful patner since u are not a cheater.If u are a virgin,i think u deserve a virgin too.Although they are scarce nowadays.But always stick 2 wat mks u happy!!

Depends on what you can work with, @ poster.

But dont rush to date people until you really know them, or at least have an idea of their character.

@ksid,
The world does not work like that. Just cos he is a virgin does not mean he will get one.

cheers

poster

lucky for you that you are a man and there are lots of women in the world to listen to you even when you are 70. Your principle b.s is b!tch like who walks around with a list of what they expect and then dump that person soon as you think she can't fulfill your list? In this life, the only perfection is GOD if you believe beyond that people have imperfections and being able to work with and deal with those imperfections is the ultimate sign of maturity.

i bet if you actually took the time to look at the faults you chose in dumping these women you will find that those things are actually trivial so i say to you if you really want to settle down, you are going to have to relax some rules you have and at least tell the woman or women you are "toasting" from the get go so they can either decide to ride with you because maybe they are willing to adjust or they can leave without getting emotionally attached to you and being suddenly dumped because you saw something that violates your rules and you couldn't tell em.

no offense

OP live you life however it pleases you ok. its your life afterall

lol..thanks anyway.

Brb

Dyt: ynt check ur self
u seems 2 want a perfect babe
wen even u is nt.

abeg leave him o dyt.

he has that right to drop them as he likes when they mess up just like you do

OP, you remind me of me, except that I seem to be more extreme. I do a quick mental analysis and drop them before hi is even said. If you see me really getting involved with a lady, it will be because my principles are not likely to be compromised by getting involved with her.

@Poster

NOPE! ! ! Your principles don't count for nothing but your bank does.

Good to know some people still have principles.

lol