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Mother:—

1. Loves and s you unconditionally
2. Never takes revenge even if you ill-treat her
3. Doesn't love you based on your economic conditions
4. Be with you in difficult times

Wife:—

1. Loves you conditionally
2. Takes revenge when you ill-treat her
3. Loves you based on your economic conditions
4. Insults and abandons you in difficult times

Who would you choose between you wife and mother?

You only ended up describing a bad wife.

I have seen good wives that have the qualities of the mother you stated above.

So, when next you are praying, pray for a good wife.

Well, your mother can't be your wife.

And the first poster has said it all, no need repeating the same thing.

Anyone who puts mom first needs to see a therapist.

Safe to say you should just marry your mother and leave the daughter of another man alone.

No one will also marry your sisters since their mums are better.

What rubbish how will you compare mother love to wife love, your wife too will hv her children direct the question to the children and understand what you are talking or your mom fit give birth to your kids? Stop senseless comparison wife and mom are two diff people..if one lost wife he can get another but mother man no fit get again....so wht u talking

I don't Bleep my mom

This sort of comparison is childish and stale.

Na like 25 years ago dem dey bring this kain topic up for radio stations like Radio Lagos, Eko Fm, etc. It used to reign and it was fun back then.

@OP: This is 2022

Most women are guilty of numbers 1 and 4 on wife side.

Only 2 and 3 are strictly for bad wives.

The truth of the matter is mother's love is the surest and most unconditional love a man can get.

Having said that, a mother has her place and a wife has own place.

If you as a man is looking for a wife that will love you like your mother, you can NEVER see such wife.

finishmatter:
Mother:—

1. Loves and s you unconditionally
2. Never takes revenge even if you ill-treat her
3. Doesn't love you based on your economic conditions
4. Be with you in difficult times

Wife:—

1. Loves you conditionally
2. Takes revenge when you ill-treat her
3. Loves you based on your economic conditions
4. Insults and abandons you in difficult times

Who would you choose between you wife and mother?

So infantile or do you intend marrying your mother?

... and yet another one

......of their endless bias on wives

None of my business.

I'll give an answer when you tell me about "father's love" ...

You should add, you didn't choose your mother.

But you chose your wife. If she no treat you well, na you find her, toast her, marry her.

If you choose bad wife, it means you have bad taste.

If she's a bad wife, and your goodness cannot change her, you are not good enough.

Anywhich way, a man can always set direction for the family, you are sha the bad person.

Make I add, there is nothing good mother can do for you that good wife cannot do.

But there is something good wife can do for you, but good mother cannot do for you.

James289:
Anyone who puts mom first needs to see a therapist.

You must be crazy! My mom comes first even before my children

Anyone that put wife before mum must be a crazy person....
Except if it's a bad mum

zainabicy:
Make I add, there is nothing good mother can do flor you that good wife cannot do.

But there is something good wife can do for you, but good mother cannot do for you.

You are simply an idiot....
Bye

When ever question like this come up its always a tug of war. At my end its always my mum.

Barims:


You must be crazy! My mom comes first even before my children

Why have the children in the first place?

Mindlog:


Why have the children in the first place?

Take or leave it,
My mom come first, followed by my kids then wife

Barims:


Take or leave it,
My mom come first, followed by my kids then wife

Eyah.......momma's boy.

Mindlog:


Eyah.......momma's boy.

Thank you

Barims:


Thank you

You are welcome.

James289:
Anyone who puts mom first needs to see a therapist.

It's actually anyone who puts wife first that needs to see a therapist.

Moms (and by extension, dads and siblings) are the only ones that genuinely loves a man.

Many guys of marriageable age are finding it hard getting married because no lady would accept them in that state. But their moms still love and care for them regardless of their present financial state. Then when the guy eventually makes it, one lady from somewhere would just come in and start expecting the man to put them above his mom.

A wife can leave a man when things get rough for him, but his mom sticks to him through thick and thin. I've seen countless examples!

So, only a very foolish man would place his wife above his mom. Are we not talking about the same wives that many men are only pretending to be happy with because of societal expectations

As a lady, you just have to make peace with the fact that a reasonable man would not put you above his mom. I know you ladies don't like to hear the truth, but I must always tell y'all the truth.

Barims:


Thank you

Don't mind her jare


"Mama's boy" is one of the phrases they use when they want to emotionally blackmail a guy.

Jman06:
It's actually anyone who puts wife first that needs to see a therapist.

Moms (and by extension, dads and siblings) are the only ones that genuinely loves a man.

Many guys of marriageable age are finding it hard getting married because no lady would accept them in that state. But their moms still love and care for them regardless of their present financial state. Then when the guy eventually makes it, one lady from somewhere would just come in and start expecting the man to put them above his mom.

A wife can leave a man when things get rough for him, but his mom sticks to him through thick and thin. I've seen countless examples!

So, only a very foolish man would place his wife above his mom. Are we not talking about the same wives that many men are only pretending to be happy with because of societal expectations

As a lady, you just have to make peace with the fact that a reasonable man would not put you above his wife. I know you ladies don't like to hear the truth, but I must always tell y'all the truth.

[quote author=finishmatter post=117926566][/quote] Corrected bro

As a husband, when you put your mother before your wife, she in turn puts your child(ren) before you.
Any good mother would advise her son to put his good wife first before her (the mother), for him to be happy in his marriage.
Only a selfish and possessive mother would let her married son put her first before his wife.
No woman who loves her husband puts her father first.

Reinamaria:
As a husband, when you put your mother before your wife, she in turn puts your child(ren) before you.
Any good mother would advise her son to put his good wife first before her (the mother), for him to be happy in his marriage.
Only a selfish and possessive mother would let her married son put her first before his wife.
No woman who loves her husband puts her father first.

See you in 25 years,when your son gets married.
You'll look back on this your comment and laugh