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These are narrative from friends all around me since I declare my intention that guy it's time I settle down for marriage,but I keep hearing this same words from friends and even my guys abroad. That guy I re very lucky . forget that move and look for a baby mama.

The options are open.

But in all,chose wisely.

accused:
These are narrative from friends all around me since I declare my intention that guy it's time I settle down for marriage,but I keep hearing this same words from friends and even my guys abroad. That guy I re very lucky . forget that move and look for a baby mama.

Nor marry for love ...na wetin dey kill guys be that...marry strategically, ....see beyond the superficial....I know its not easy because most men are carnally driven and will first see brezz and shédí bàlà bàlà before they to look out for traits like kindness, empathy, team player, humility..etc

At the end of the day....nor overthink am...if u end marrying wèrèy...no let anybody blackmail u with marriage is not for kids so u should remain frustrated, putting up with you wife's crazy behavior.....lè wèrèy sî gbó.....if she nor gree comot....leave am for house...

Person living with his wife is telling you to stay single that it's the best thing after salvation but they are still with their wives. It's not like divorce is forbidden or something.

Choose your poison wisely, baby mama not very good neither is marriage better but be wise and also avoid court marriage like shii

Well, I would never advise you to make such a major life decision based on what someone said. Just because they are in a horrible marriage which they might have possibly contributed to does not me you will end up the same.
Finally, it is better to have experienced something and regretted it than to just sit on the fence and wonder ( though not in all cases)

Make una two define una role.....

accused:
These are narrative from friends all around me since I declare my intention that guy it's time I settle down for marriage,but I keep hearing this same words from friends and even my guys abroad. That guy I re very lucky . forget that move and look for a baby mama.

they are telling u the bad side but won't tell u d good side

Just like people will tell u make u no come abroad but once they themselves come naija na to come erect mad mansion

U better use your head n look for a good girl to marry

Factcheck0001:
they are telling u the bad side but won't tell u d good side

Just like people will tell u make u no come abroad but once they themselves come naija na to come erect mad mansion

U better use your head n look for a good girl to marry

Bro to bro: you sharp !

That is just the naked truth from the friends that like you.

accused:
These are narrative from friends all around me since I declare my intention that guy it's time I settle down for marriage,but I keep hearing this same words from friends and even my guys abroad. That guy I re very lucky . forget that move and look for a baby mama.

I'm getting married on the 19th October and I'm f**king excited.

No room for doom and gloom. I love what I'm entering into. Look forward to a lifetime of bliss ready to settle whatever little roughies that might appear on the way.

I will have it all

Good luck

Samakus:
I'm getting married on the 19th October and I'm f**king excited.

No room for doom and gloom. I love what I'm entering into. Look forward to a lifetime of bliss ready to settle whatever little roughies that might appear on the way.

I will have it all

In addy man.

Ibechris2:
The options are open.

But in all,chose wisely.

Word 🔥💯

Factcheck0001:
they are telling u the bad side but won't tell u d good side

Just like people will tell u make u no come abroad but once they themselves come naija na to come erect mad mansion

U better use your head n look for a good girl to marry

Tell him the good side naaaa..

accused:
These are narrative from friends all around me since I declare my intention that guy it's time I settle down for marriage,but I keep hearing this same words from friends and even my guys abroad. That guy I re very lucky . forget that move and look for a baby mama.

Are you ready for your kid(s) to live in a different place than you do?

Are you ready to not be part of their daily life?

Are you ready to accept that your baby mama will move in with her new partner and your kids will live with another man?

Are you sure your baby mama will be peaceful and not bring drama into your life?

Samakus:
I'm getting married on the 19th October and I'm f**king excited.

No room for doom and gloom. I love what I'm entering into. Look forward to a lifetime of bliss ready to settle whatever little roughies that might appear on the way.

I will have it all

Others said more than this. Today they are singing another song.

I have been married for 9yrs now and never for once regretted my actions. I sometimes feel pity for men above 35yrs and still single . I for nor forgive myself if I was still single at this age

advanceDNA:



At the end of the day....nor overthink am...if u end marrying wèrèy...no let anybody blackmail u with marriage is not for kids so u should remain frustrated, putting up with you wife's crazy behavior.....lè wèrèy sî gbó.....if she nor gree comot....leave am for house...

God bless you boss. "No time" is my motto.

If I see say you Wan kill me for house, hotel straight.

Jestin:
I have been married for 9yrs now and never for once regretted my actions. I sometimes feel pity for men above 35yrs and still single . I for nor forgive myself if I was still single at this age

different strokes for different folks enjoy your marriage as long as you are happy

Modecaih:
different strokes for different folks enjoy your marriage as long as you are happy

I am more than happy my brother. Getting married to the right woman is just the koko. Take time to court her and understand each other . I will say it loud again , I have never regretted my actions one day . Sometimes when I go out to chill with my single friends, I kinda feel sorry for some seeing that they re still living the life we lived 12 to 15 ago. Relationship stress, still spending on olosho to cure Konji, still drinking heavily and keeping late nights.

Nicepoker:
Others said more than this. Today they are singing another song.

Yeah I get it. Sounds like you experienced it firsthand in your family


Newsflash! I always win

Bye brah

JOACHINpedro:

In addy man.

Thanks bro

Samakus:


Yeah I get it. Sounds like you experienced it firsthand in your family


Newsflash! I always win

Bye brah

Woman wey you go file for divorce after 2 months.

Nicepoker:
Woman wey you go file for divorce after 2 months.

Ehyaa..

I understand that life has been hard for you

Pele o

Samakus:


Ehyaa..

I understand that life has been hard for ME

accused:
These are narrative from friends all around me since I declare my intention that guy it's time I settle down for marriage,but I keep hearing this same words from friends and even my guys abroad. That guy I re very lucky . forget that move and look for a baby mama.

It's funny how those who are married are advising you not to tow that path. Why are they not considering divorce?

Marriage is just like a Mango fruit. If you choose the right/ripe one, you would enjoy every bit of it. Thus my advise for yo is to marry right. that love is not enough. As a matter of fact, love is the least important ingredient. Look out for compatibility, value, friendship, synergy and do not sweep under the carpet what you consider key.

Need I also say that with the economic reality, ensure that you are financially stable and your partner is financially independent before considering marriage. Investment must greatly supercede liabilities.


All the best!

Samakus:
I'm getting married on the 19th October and I'm f**king excited.

No room for doom and gloom. I love what I'm entering into. Look forward to a lifetime of bliss ready to settle whatever little roughies that might appear on the way.

I will have it all

Good but d excitement might be temporary either like someone said up there that divorce too is an option even when it get worst 😊

Speaking from experience

Jestin:
I have been married for 9yrs now and never for once regretted my actions. I sometimes feel pity for men above 35yrs and still single . I for nor forgive myself if I was still single at this age

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If it happens to you there is nothing u can do bro.

We all have perfect calculation or plans for ourselves but the reality of life couldn't make many achieve it as they have planned .
So just count yourself lucky for doing it right or marrying the right person.

Life don't have a perfect formula it all depends on what works for you .

Peace

Maeve7:


Are you ready for your kid(s) to live in a different place than you do?

Are you ready to not be part of their daily life?

Are you ready to accept that your baby mama will move in with her new partner and your kids will live with another man?

Are you sure your baby mama will be peaceful and not bring drama into your life?

Let me also build on the last one:
Is he ready to suffer severe hate from his kids due to the baby mama saying bad things about him?

Is he ready to assume a new middle name,"deadbeat"?

Digressing from that...
Is he ready to suffer severe loneliness and sadness at old age without a partner, children or grandchildren to warm his heart?


Assuming he d*es in his sleep, is his cadaver ready to be found days after?