NewStats: 3,265,183 , 8,185,935 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 07:10 PM 1or1j

I don't think i have much regrets in my life but challenges make me a great man of today i just keep my head up moving and look up to the glory of God almighty , and my only regret is that i follow the advice and opinion of those that senior me by age but i progress more than them in life which is bad advice then anly person that i can take is advices is my father and my belove wifes because they understand my focus in life they know that i don't want distractions at all and i don't overdo anything in my life i do everything minima

Sirchiboy:

So 1m cannot start something

With one million, you could be running one bigger than most you know.

I started mine with less than 50k of my own, although I already had a coloured printer, deposited my degree cert and nysc discharge cert +20k for a photocopying machine that was sold for 45k at that point.

Bought a used gen of 27k, 200k can't buy it now sha.

If space is guaranteed, 400k can buy a DI machine which most people don't have, a black and white printer of 90k and other etc and you're good to start, but not in the level the oga is operating

This is so me, but I'm making serious plans to go out steadily in 2025 💪

SouthSouth1914:


You don’t need to step out to succeed. Tech guys are examples! But you need to go out to feel humanity.

Sirchiboy:

Learn cyber security but not making money.
Spend 300k to learn it in ph.
Not useful in Nigeria

Exactly my thoughts.
I think all these online skills are overrated.
Some people into it are still poor.

Bro same here thanks to sporty r=Risingblue008 post=133448623]To me
Let me truthful,
I regret goin to university,studied economics with 2nd class lower.EKOPMA,graduated 2009,
Brothers
I for now whr i for dey by now.
School na scam
We have millions of graduates sunce 2003 and yet no work
I thank God for bet9ja oo

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Sirchiboy:

42 last month

And you still dey answer boy?
Sirchiman
Sirchibro
Sirchibra
Sirchipapa

Pick one now!

wiseone28:
My only regret is i don't have regrets

You're indirectly saying you never lived

There's no man who has ever ed through life without having some regrets

Failure to invest in Bitcoin when I had the opportunity to buy 1Bitcoin at 350k then. Looking at the value of 1Bitcoin now....

Not seeking God

uuzba:

The feeling of being 40.
You can't run fast again.
In your mind, you're still thinking you are Ronaldo or Usain Bolt. But in real life,
You can't run. Even if you try it,
back pain, waist pain will follow, Daily.
Even without doing anything, body pains

That is not true. I am a living example. I still lift weights that younger dudes dread. I do my cardios. I still do my sprints well. Infact I still have my early morning erections. It depends on how you live life in your 20s and 30s. Clean diet and active lifestyle is key.

motionarena:
Going to school in naija to waste time and money

Parents please do not allow your children pursue a career in Nigeria. There is no professional career now in Nigeria that will guarantee you financial freedom. You will just suffer and pay bills.

Sad thing it was never always like this APC is a real curse to humanity

Send dem to study abroad or push dem towards a business oriented line

People can still have their undergraduate studies in Nigeria and travel thereafter for their PGs, and it's far cheaper that way.

You guys should stop these yeye pieces of advice

SeaTrade:
Find someone you love while you're young and build with her,it's very difficult to love someone after building alone for a long time.The scars and lessons you got on your way up will make you very weary of your feelings ,too mechanical.

When you start changing status,pull your woman up with you.You don't wanna be up there and she's still almost where you met her,all attraction you had for her will fade.

You don't need friends,you need brothers.That loyal motherfucker that'd fight first and ask questions later.Even if it's just one person.

Avoid showoff or largesse of any kind cos the people untop will get scared you're growing to fast and will wanna stiffle this growth if they can.
Be modest and calculative.

Trust no one with your innate issues or successes,this is meant for your partner alone.
That so called mentor might be jealous of you so shut it and tell this to either parents or wife cos they've got a lot to lose if they Bleep up with information that'd get you down or killed.

your family if you've got bank,especially your aging parents.
It's a great feeling to see the day you give back to the people who sacrificed a lot to form you into a refined human,
Definitely better than giving those who don't rate you cos you're trying yo impress.

Take good care of yourself and always look good and clean,it helps your confidence.

Avoid loud and gutter women,especially if you've built something too good to lose!!!
It's usually better to mingle with your social class at all times,so y'all can always meet halfway.
All that "person na person" talk na pure cap.

So much wisdom. Thanks so much.

Risingblue008:
To me
Let me truthful,
I regret goin to university,studied economics with 2nd class lower.EKOPMA,graduated 2009,
Brothers
I for now whr i for dey by now.
School na scam
We have millions of graduates sunce 2003 and yet no work
I thank God for bet9ja oo

You don't go to school to get a job.

uuzba:

The feeling of being 40.
You can't run fast again.
In your mind, you're still thinking you are Ronaldo or Usain Bolt. But in real life,
You can't run. Even if you try it,
back pain, waist pain will follow, Daily.
Even without doing anything, body pains

No be small thing
@42, i leave my seat almost every 30mins because of back pain, unlike in those days when men were men

gigabyte13:
No give person wey you no go marry belle
Na there person life take dey spoil small small
But initially, you go think say
Na enjoyment.........................

Na better word be this.

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

Cutting people off easily. Now I know the importance of building relationships and I intentionally make effort and sacrifice to keep good relationships.
Hoping to improve on this even more in 2025 by Gods grace.

Sirchiboy:

Learn cyber security but not making money.
Spend 300k to learn it in ph.
Not useful in Nigeria

Is there no remote job opportunities for it

Have you changed it? What were the benefits?

SouthSouth1914:


You don’t need to step out to succeed. Tech guys are examples! But you need to go out to feel humanity.

That's it.

sslcrypt:
Lots of confessions, well the only opportunity I had to travel to the UK I used it collect port via serving in the British army.

So young folks schooling in the UK you can give it shot, I don't know if it's still on tho. Nigeria is a common wealth country and your visa enabled you meet other requirements.

Especially those studying engineering or in the medical field, it's an avenue to get the UK residence. I got mine years ago, so I can go and come niaja as I want. Currently in Nigeria tho because running business here is lot easier.

Interesting is this opportunity available for a 35 years old person?

dhope:
My biggest regret is that I failed to realize how spiritual controls the physical on time.

You still haven't realized anything

There's no spiritual controls the physical bullshit anywhere

It's all in the heads of the superstitious and archaic Nigerians and Africans

Sonofgod1990:
I regretted not starting Yahoo on time. And I also regretted not knowing about sportybet on-time.

Pablo yahoo stil de pay u de regret so

I got married when I would have used the little money I had then to develop myself and invest in business.The worst of it all was using my subsequent income to sponsor the mad woman to school,I regret till now.

Theevilone:

Interesting is this opportunity available for a 35 years old person?

Don't know now but then I was 25

LIVINGICONREBOR:


That is not true. I am a living example. I still lift weights that younger dudes dread. I do my cardios. I still do my sprints well. Infact I still have my early morning erections. It depends on how you live life in your 20s and 30s. Clean diet and active lifestyle is key.

With all the clean diet and exercise
I still got arthritis on my left hip and left shoulder.
Doctor was just staring at me.
I was asking for explanation what did I do wrong?. Doctor no get explanation.
Can you cure it?
Doctor no get explanation.
Will it go by itself?
Doctor no get explanation.
So i just have to manage my pains like that.
Just thank God for your health, because when it goes, no force in heaven or earth will bring it back.

Japa @ 26 2017 but I've made up my mind and will be 35 next year. I pray for grace and good health.

Elzazzi:


Having too much friends isn't good.

I know but meeting the right friends can really help you in life

If I may ask what is your motive of asking this question?

Free2Fly:


You still haven't realized anything

There's no spiritual controls the physical bullshit anywhere

It's all in the heads of the superstitious and archaic Nigerians and Africans

Lols, you must be joking when I and my friend went to bid for project worth billions. It was then we knew there's more to life than brain work.

So much to be said, but I rest here.

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

it didn't work for You doesn't mean it won't work for others. Being an extrovert too is draining cos of the amount of Relationships You have to maintain

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

You can be indoor and succeed. This is internet age

No regret...I ve always known that human needs are insatiable

Yusufisraelj:


Lols, you must be joking when I and my friend went to bid for project worth billions. It was then we knew there's more to life than brain work.

So much to be said, but I rest here.

U can't tell someone that His eyes are shut what U see, their third eye has to be opened first. The Spiritual Realm controls the Physical 100%.. Just a thought from You enters into the Spiritual Realm and that's how strong what U think of can be.. Please don't argue with the Blind, it's not worth it