NewStats: 3,265,268 , 8,186,181 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 07:32 AM d2e4z

Hey pple, a while ago, i was really down 4 this chic friend of mine and I thot we would make a gr8 couple, Well, that wasnt 2 be as she summarily turned me down (not cos we were already friends or anything, bt according 2 her she just found it impossible 2 like me, How downright cold!!! Infact, while I was on her case, she actually started dating some dude old enough to be her dads brother about a week after they met, Fine, I cut my losses and withdrew, Even the best of us lose at times,
Now here is the Prob: Some stuff I was workin on clicked and trust me Ive upgraded myself, new car,(brand new corolla;As a 23yr old, this aint bad at all!!!) and other stuff, Can u imagin, the chic to whom I was so unlikable now wants in!!! She broke up wit her man friend a while b4 this and , well we still talk quite a lot.She is showin all the signs I wanted her 2 show bak then, My first intention was jst to tell her to Get the f*** out bt somehow I couldnt, As a matter of fact, 2 days ago, we were talkin outside her crib and she spontaneously kissed me, I dont know if she charmed her lips or sth bt MEN!!!! It was prob the best kiss I ever had, I shamelessly kissed her bak 4 like 5mins!!! right there, Prob was that, it wasnt just physical, There was this connection between both of us that TRUST ME, i havent felt with any other chic b4, Deep down inside me, I know I still hav feelings 4 this chic that so cruelly turned me down earlier, and even worse I think she is truly in luv, How do I do the rightful thing and jst tell her to FREE ME!!!!! rather than fall headlong into this shit,,As much as I want to like her, I live by principles, One of those principles is REVENGE, Bt its more complex than I thot it would be: I seem to be fallin, HOW NOW DO I FOLLOW MY PRINCIPLES AND NOT MY WEAK HEART

lust, worldliness and emptiness.

did you know God doesn't answer prayers from people who can't forgive.

why revenge on her? let it go. she obviously likes u now b/c u upgraded yourself, so either, remain, or let it loose. but revenge will get you nowhere.

@ Goldman: Let her go. She doesn't care for you, not in the conventional sense anyway.

She does however, care for what she[i] feels [/i] you can offer her, and that's financial security. Not a good basis for a lasting relationship though.