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Is This Why Married Men Have Side Chics? Will I End Up Like Them? - Romance (2) - Nairaland bv13
Is This Why Married Men Have Side Chics? Will I End Up Like Them? (3372 Views)
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Kriss216: 4:27pm On May 19 |
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almarthins(m): 4:44pm On May 19 |
tunnyl:
You never imagined you'd be asking yourself this question right?, but here you are. Marriage was supposed to bring stability, love, and lifelong companionship, yet the one thing you never saw coming is the slow withdrawal of intimacy.
At first, you make excuses for her. She is tired, stressed, adjusting. But as time stretches on, you start wondering. Is this what happened to my dad and other married men before they gave up and got side chics? Am I heading down the same path?
You try to fix things the right way. You plan romantic gestures, have deep conversations, and remind her how important intimacy is in marriage. But despite your efforts, nothing changes. Frustration sets in, and you start withdrawing emotionally. The thoughts get darker. Is this how it happens? Do men stray because they feel abandoned? Should I just accept that marriage means suffering in silence?
If you truly want to fight for your marriage without cheating, the solution is not temptation but effort. Cheating leads to guilt, broken trust, and deeper problems. Instead, focus on reconnecting.
Here are some ways to reconnect with your wife and strengthen your marriage:
1. Have open conversations without pressure or blame.
2. Show small daily affection like compliments and thoughtful gestures.
3. Help ease stress by sharing responsibilities and offering .
4. Spend quality time together through dates, shared hobbies, and bonding moments.
5. Be patient and consistent instead of pressuring for immediate change.
Marriage is more than physical closeness. The key is understanding, connection, and rebuilding the trust that keeps love strong.
Well, I can tell you that all you enumerated will not be enough for a woman that is already gone. Perhaps, looking for another thrill else where.
We(men) try as much as we can to make our houses homely. we sacrifices, we beg, and even worship them for a piece of night cookies. As for me o! I no dey come down for any eve again. If u wan go dey go.
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hakeemhakeem(m): 9:35pm On May 19 |
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