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Nigeria banny anthem....

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

So, why shen no follow them naa?

Garri used to signify poverty. Means she stayed with and tolerated his worse state. She saw hope in the future.

HawkTuahGirl:
Most Nigeria women struggle with you because they don't have better options.

👍

The rich also soak garri, jokes aside babes go collect even the small thing that you're managing and say that they were "loyal". No investment in my hustle o.

Women are wired to collect money after sex, even married women (from their husbands, of course). When a lady is with you when you have nothing and having sex without you giving her money, she feels she’s doing you a great favour.

Women have no free thing to offer men apart from sex. If you think that lady or that your wife helping you financially is doing it selflessly, you’ve got another think coming.

My babe encouraged me to drink the garri , the thought of drinking it almost weighed me down.

When you are drinking garri and have no future potentials no Nigerian girl will near u

It's just high time we talk about it

I always wonder why most of Nigerian girls are not looking for richness instead they r looking for a rich man
Is it impossible for a woman to get rich in Nigeria or the women in Nigeria are just lazy?

Helpout12345:
That was how one was telling me she was with me when I was living in a self contained apartment. The way I washed her d0wn eh, she never tried that rubbish with me again.

This was a lady that was homeless, pulling up with friends, was working a 10k naira monthly salary job, dating a market errand boy when I met her.

Me on the other hand had finished all my suffering. I had been working with number 1 oil company in the world for 6 months earning more than a university professor then, have travelled 2 times to Europe, I bought my first car same month I met her. The so called self contained was a first class apartment.

I'm speechless, just imagine the audacity.

Sonnobax15:

Erigga the nightmare of an average Nigerian banny

Opueh is what they bring to the table yet they too dey enjoy am.

Once it appears that you aren't making progress, they take the opueh to other men. But if peradventure you blow while they still with you, what you will be hearing is "I was there when e dey drink garri without sugar, not even kulikuli or groundnut"

chat GPT is doing great o

If you gerrit....

Blitzking:

To some women dey think all men flashing things are willing to go all out lifetime commitment dey very different from 1month to 4yrs love bombing with goodies..d day the goodies stop your skin go tell sharp ppl go ask you aunty shey u sick?

Oga don't quote a whole thread or you make it boring for others. Always omit some paragraphs.

illicit:
My babe doesn't buy Garri but she is my sugar, I am her water...

😯

FINISHED man

Real talk

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

She would leave your ass if she had options

Dpsychologist:
I saw this tweet by Erigga and it hit deep.

“I was with him when he was drinking garri.”
But na you buy the garri? 🤨

Let’s unpack this mindset that’s becoming very common in our generation.


🧠 The “Loyalty” Women Talk About Today is Not Real

Many women love to say they were there when you had nothing.
But truth is, a lot of them were just witnesses, not builders.

They didn’t help.
They didn’t invest.
They didn’t even believe in you—they were just hoping for a return on their emotional “time.”

It’s all about positioning themselves for the future harvest without ever planting seeds.


📌 Presence ≠ Participation

There’s a clear difference between being present and being useful.

Ask yourself:

Did she contribute to your hustle?

Did she with money, ideas, motivation?

Or did she just sit there… waiting?


Too many women want to claim royalty status for just hanging around during your broke phase.


💭 Real Loyalty is Silent

The girl who actually bought the garri isn’t the one tweeting.
She’s the one you when you finally blow—because she didn’t make noise, she made impact.

Loyalty is:

Showing up consistently.

Investing (not just emotionally, but tangibly).

Praying, planning, building with you.


But most of what you see now is emotional blackmail masked as .


⚠️ Men, Stop Rewarding ive Loyalty

Your success is not community property.
If she didn’t grind with you, she shouldn’t reap with you.

Let’s break it down clearly:

If What She Did is to make you feel Encouraged, ed, sacrificed then sje deserves Respect & loyalty
If What She Did is Invested in your dream then What She Deserves is Return on value
But if she Complained, watched, tolerated you then she deserves Nothing but silence 😐


💬 Final Thoughts

Let this sink in:

🧾 Presence without contribution is just observation.
And observers don’t get trophies.

So next time a woman says, “I was with you when you were drinking garri”, calmly ask:

“Did you buy am for me?”

Because sitting on the sideline doesn't make you a teammate.

What do y’all think?
Have you experienced this?
Drop your thoughts and share with someone who needs this reminder. 🧠🔥

haha. Possibly even cheating and keeping a side nigga in the name of " i was with him"

No, I didn't buy the Garri

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

You have spoken well, don't mind them

HawkTuahGirl:
Most Nigeria women struggle with you because they don't have better options.

That isn't always the case.

U loud...

nairalanda1:


That isn't always the case.

I said most... If you are married you will understand...

tunnyl:
What she meant was, “When so many peoples left you when you were drinking Garri i was there with you”

“When you were drinking Garri I could have gone to date other men and left you but i stayed, not to buy the Garri o but to watch you drink the garri and maybe drink out of it too.”

Women too get sense!

Bro most times, that guy drinking garri at that time is their level and all they can pool in the dating street. 90% of women have left those guys at their garri-drinking stage to marry or date better-standing men. 8 out of 10 girls that stayed with those guys drinking garri genuinely don't have better choice. The guys were their top choice at that point in time which is why they stayed. The would leave without thought once they see a bigger fish. Simple law of hypergamy

HawkTuahGirl:


I said most... If you are married you will understand...

You should stop hating women, young padwan.

Formularcr7:
My babe encouraged me to drink the garri , the thought of drinking it almost weighed me down.

NA DEM...

HawkTuahGirl:
Most Nigeria women struggle with you because they don't have better options.

Or better options are willing to make any serious commitment. Better options are only there to nack.

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

Don’t mind the African man who like many other African men is looking for a superwoman to save him - while other races are supermen, saving their women.

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

Wetin be the sacrifice?

StUriah:


Or better options are willing to make any serious commitment. Better options are only there to nack.

I wanted to add this your statement but don't know how to word it. You said my mind.

They find out they are only side chick to their better option. They will stick with any available guy around while with experimenting with other better options

chinchum:
haha. Possibly even cheating and keeping a side nigga in the name of " i was with him"

Ah tell you. They can be cunning, showing fake loyalty.