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Hmmm
And news don dey fly.
Lalasticlala, push to village square make we settle the matter

Oshiomole o, Ize Iyamu and Obaseki.....all of them are...

Duru9:


But Ngige was a governor in 2005
Same time Tinubu was a governor too

What people don't understand is that APC did more harm than good to Ngige. After his fall out with PDP, Ngige was greatly loved by Anambra people, that was why he won the senatorial seat with ACN. He lost the governorship tussle to Obi because of Obi's incumbency power and working style too. If Ngige had been in KOWA party to contest against Obiano at the expiration of Obi's tenure, he would have won. Anambra hates APC, Ngige can get FG's attention but not Anambra's attention.... Maybe until he quits the APC.

mezarddinny:
bro, don't stop her from aborting the baby. don't tell her family or anyone, she is the one that knows what's best for her, it is easy to say you can hustle even though you are a new graduate, what if she gives birth and you can't afford to take care of the baby? you think everything goes to plan? like someone said up there, child birth is also risky, let her abort, that talk of abortion is risky is just to scare people. let her abort it, it is her body.


she is even in school, haba, so you want her to be going to school in final year with belle, don't be selfish bro, let her abort it and don't tell her parents because you don't even know what their decision will be.

She's almost a graduate... Just to clear a course she had issues with. Thanks for your advice, I'm learning

paulolee:
this wan hard o...Maybe she gat a more serious guy dt av promised her Marriage also na..

Maybe, just maybe....

Ningen:


She wouldn't suffer as in how??

If you are in control of anything at all, then in the first place, we wouldn't be here discussing this.

Bro, your assurance means nothing.

I understand your strong moral standing against abortion; it's even illegal in Nigeria but so long it is her body, it's her choice.

Not only that, from your post you made it clear you're not ready to keep a child or buoyant for marriage and setting down; how will you cope?

As broke as I am, I can do some things to stay afloat, it's just the lockdown. I can place her on a monthly stipend. We can be broke but still covered...grab?

JeffreyD1:


Have you checked the date and all that

The baby is mine, I'm sure about that.

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I've explained this to her, never told her about briefing her family tho, she can take some hasty actions, cry blackmail and never forgive me.
Lol, I had a nightmare some days ago and told her how I was shot in the dream, she told me not to fear, that my only fear should be about her. She told me she'll shoot me if I mess her life up. That was before the pregnancy ish, got confirmed as it is now. She has the heart, she can do it

Ningen:
You lots that talk about risk whenever abortion is an option seem to forget child—birth is riskier.

Anyway OP, you are being selfish.

You wanting to be a father shouldn't over—ride her unwillingness to become a mother. It's not your life that's getting torpedoed by pregnancy.

Unless you somehow can carry this pregnancy and birth the baby yourself then it won’t happen.

And she'll HATE you if you her folks.
Make a baby with someone who's ready.

You have your point, that's why I want us to agree on the better. I've told her she won't suffer, I've given her the assurances. I just don't want to be a partner to bloodshed, that's my main concern. I told her my conscience won't ever forgive me, not knowing would have even been better.

callmeRichie:
The deed is done o

Abortion is risky bro...

congratulations on being a father


You'll have to talk to her still, let her know you are not in and you don't wanna lose her yet and it's highly risky.

If you know 1 or 2 family of hers you can tell to talk to her, it's better.

Though the choice is still hers as she wasn't bethroted to you yet.

Just show her you are ready to take every responsibilities and ready to man up.


Notwithstanding please find a way to confirm the pregnancy yourself oo! Things can be funny sha. Better you see with your eyes.

She is really pregnant, she sent me the test result. The option of letting the family know is what I'm looking at, she'll never forgive me for that I think. I've thought of buying a new line and sending the mum a text about it. But she herself will know, it's been between us only. Not like the mum will know the normal way mums do, she isn't staying with her.

Mods help me move to FP.
I need advice, I know what it means here on nairaland...the bashings and all that, I just want to see the better ones. Please, help a brother.
Cc farano, rocktation

Amongst the phone conversations we had, she regretted sending me the result, I guess because I am against her option of aborting the baby. Now, I really don't want her to, she can't avail me the opportunity of even seeing her. I've thought of defying her stance and coming to see her, I've also imagined calling her mum to inform her. I speak with few of her family on the phone but I guess she would never forgive me if I reach her family first. She told me her father would die of heart attack having lost his job as his boss lost his senatorial post. I'm really confused on the option to exploit. The baby is mine, she is 24, in her finals. I have finished serving since last year and could be working but for my decision to travel out. I wish I know her fears....it'll help

So I've been with her for long and running things cool. We've been lashing and handling things as mature adults until this last time, I traveled down her side last month beating all interstate ban for her birthday celebration. The mistake was we got drunk and lashed without protection. We were together two days before I took my leave.
She was weak when I was leaving but I encouraged her to come see me off and use that opportunity to get some pills based on the risk taken. She accented and did so but being a Sunday morning, she couldn't find an open pharmacy outlet that morning. I encouraged her to go home, take some nap and get it in the evening as it won't click 72 hours with the time.
She got home but fell sick immediately, she couldn't go out till 2 days again, by that time I guess it had happened. We let things lie until the following week when she started complaining of some signs. I tried telling her it was too early to count.
Fast forward to her missing her period, I encouraged her and sent her money for test, the test was positive and she has been down since then.I encouraged her and told her I'd be taking the responsibility. The funny thing is she had her reservations, she knew I wanted to travel and would have been on my way had it not been for the COVID-19 outbreak. She knew I virtually invested much already on the travel arrangement and isn't currently buoyant to handle marriage and settling down wahala.
She told me we aren't ready to keep the child now, as true as it seems, I've told her abortion is bloodshed of which I can't be a partner to. I told her the risks she'd be exposing herself to and all that but the shame from family and even difficult times had been her consideration. I've given her options of relocating her to a different state before it becomes outblown. She wasn't buying any of the ideas and told me point blank she would abort the baby. I even told her I'd be traveling down to her side on Sunday to talk things over with her but she told me not to.

King Rudy....
Musically Rudical

UrbanExotica:
when others are having 245,891,314

Which Nigerian artiste abeg?
And again, within two weeks of release date.

Paul Okoye the other half of the psquare duo, has hit a YouTube view of 2 million in two weeks of release date to his latest hit single "Reality". This is coming shortly after the same music video got a million views after one week of release. This puts the music video to getting a million views each week.
Lalasticlala

Foolish epistle.. ... Uzodimma and Uwajumogu from Anambra?
Where's that, "is your head paining you meme?"

Historians and political analysts will tell you this is a good development. This is good, only that it is supposed to have happened some centuries ago.

Boy, don't let partisanship land you in jail oooo!
By the time you'll be called upon to prove this your story, nobody will come your way. Don't be used as a scape goat especially now that the campaign against false news is on.

In the context of "Nigerians" as used by Onochie, we very well comprehend. Or are the likes of Yusuf Buhari, Zahra and Co not Nigerians? Every other Nigerian, comes after these ones that collect the allowances....copy that; those that get the allowances and not those that pay the taxes.

From an acclaimed Nigerian senator?

Why would the so called IPOB always cast vituperations on the affairs of the Nigerian state... They should find relevance with what concerns them. The people they're calling for their release has in no way sympathized with them.
If anyone therefore want to answer Akpa, let him, if any wish to answer Koro, let him also. It's utterly not our tradition for one to answer Akpakoro.

Waste management and environmental/impact assessment is one key area we need to dip the light on....
Africa in general need key into this turn, the very many wastes (industrial and agricultural) apart from being unsightly constitute hazards to us. In fact, the only reason that holds sway as to why almost all African countries are still tagged developing/underdeveloped is due to their inability to dispose their wastes (environmental wastes) properly.
There is a very big prospect in waste management and energy conversion that in time to come everybody will beg to learn. We shouldn't learn and get everything from the whites. Our research institutions should brace up and see that we are not left out.

Nice piece... . Very objective

Mr., you have a very big opponent to contend with. Alex Otti is recontesting with greater reinforcement.
And the part you played to the proscription of IPOB may be brought to bare when the campaign starts proper.

Please, Rohr can you come close, there's this sweet word I want to whisper into your ears.
Ehhhh, don't fear, I won't beat you

Dr. Ngige, you wouldn't want to know that the so called Comrade has in wait another person to put up for that your ministerial portfolio.... APC from top to bottom is filled with betrayers, the game is on who betrays who first.

Sarkin:
Chest beater!

Just because Rochas doesn't want to drown in hate and bigotry like the likes of the jobless aggressive pigs of Biafra they keep taunting him.

In all sincerity, would you in your right senses not describe Okorocha in the same light, is that not the most befitting description consequent to his acts.

You've always been this ready since 2011 elections. It's not by your being ready but on Nigerians making their choice. Don't you think they've long concluded on that?

Relevance is far from this try...

The season is here

post=69539920:
Beg?
What a SHAME!
Why not use the opportunity to beg for Evans also.
Pathetic.

You keep making your pay as a BMC too obvious, please defend honorably, and sensibly too.