NewStats: 3,263,798 , 8,181,436 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 11:54 PM 1e691p

SBanky:
Unfortunately, our society looks away when a married man cheats, however it becomes taboo when a woman does.

That is the society we found ourselves

SmartyPants:


I want to know why you tell lies everyday. Take it that my interested is based on personal amusement. Of course you can always ignore but I would be very happy to know what you gain from this.

Is this you? https://nairaland.sitesunblocked.org/4162308/what-nigerian-girls-really-want I will only tell u one thing. It is a thief that can recognize another in the same biz.
Now i know where you are coming from.
Rest bro.

You mean sticking with a woman sexually for 10 years is not enough for the man to know himself?
See, a man that will cheat will cheat. It is in the blood. It is in their eyes. It is not a function of number of years

Godfullsam:
Once you don't cheat on your wife, people (especially those who cheat) will see you as a week man.

Besides, 10 yrs in marriage is still short for you to conclude that you don't cheat on your wife.

DaSailor:
Na who get money dey cheat? Told my friends same and they looked at me like I was a alien.
Cheating in my opinion is an individual choice.

Thank you my brother

Saao:
So many reasons why men cheat, one of the main reason sex starvation.

You see what I am saying?

kebliss:
Pastor

SmartyPants:


I just find it curious what you gain from this. Yesterday it was another lie about almost making out with your ex. Is this a paid job?

What has that got to do with you? Does it reduced your self esteem or something? Guy, relax!

lexander:
actually even broke guys cheat it has absolutely nothing to do with money it's about self control

Thank you my brother. That is what i have been talking about , Self control!

SmartyPants:


What do you gain from all these fictional stories?

So, I am now the king fictional story teller. Abi? Kwantinue!

hhmmmm

Ishilove:
They say men are polygamous by nature

Fadeleke1038:
U will still cheat...unless say u no get money

Make we dey see na

Nice one. And thanks

post=101823165:
@OP, most Naija men don’t have that type of good attitude you've got..
So when they are confronted with cheating,
they minimize, rationalize, and justify their behavior with statements like:

Every guy wants to have sex with other women. And when the opportunity arises, he takes it.

It’s a man’s biological imperative to have sex with as many women as he can. Why should I be any different?

If I got enough (or better) sex at home, I wouldn’t need to cheat.

I’m not doing anything that most of my friends don’t do. If you don’t believe me, ask them.

If my wife hadn’t gained so much weight—or if she was nicer to me, or more attentive—I wouldn’t have even thought about going elsewhere.

Why who would call getting a lap dance in a strip club infidelity? It’s just what guys do for fun.

And as we see on this forum on a daily basis,
If the police had been out chasing actual bad guys, I wouldn’t have gotten caught in that brothel, Why don’t they go after some real criminals?

I’m only sexting and flirting. Where’s the harm in that? I don’t meet up with any of these women in person. It’s just a game.

When some of us @MANNA were in the therapy business, we have a name for this type of reasoning, it is called : Denial.

From a psychotherapy perspective, denial is a series of internal lies and deceits people tell themselves to make their questionable behaviors seem OKAY (at least in their own minds).
Typically, each self-deception is ed by one or more rationalizations, with each one bolstered by still more falsehoods.

Keep it up OP.
It will always fall flat on their faces.

SAY NO TO CHEATING.

Na wah o

Enudapan:
Nah eh! No qualms
Ogbeni
Men especially odogwus like me are polygamous in nature,
We can Bleep without emotional attachment
While Ladies can't,
So it's kinda normal to bang the leaving hell
Out of any f gender
That comes your way asking for the ice cream and high scream

Kingcalls:
U will still cheat...unless say u no get money

that is not true but lets hope and see. Just that I won't come back to kiss and tell

MissSweet:
I haven't seen such men. Three common men; those that are promiscuous, the drunkered and the smokers.

I guess, you have limited ladies or you don't have boldness/confidence and resources that's why you haven't cheated.

Men are human that cannot be trusted; even bf he shouldn't just rub it off on my face.

Wow, It is not about the boldness or confidence but because i told myself that I wont and I have not seen a reason to.

Emmy3:
So many men out there don't cheat on their wives, this not because they want to keep to theirs marital vows or exhibit morality; but these reasons include:
* they don't have the financial pilot to fly the cheaters jet
* they don't have the time/opportunity (always busy)
* they hold a special office in Simps Association of Nigeria
* they have low self esteem or doesn't know how to woe a lady
* they haven't seen their specs that they can trust.

I think your first point is true

FOREX4free:
Wow

e choke u?

adonnaiii:
Because the some men indiscipline are beginning to think marriage is over rated

isn't it? Tell me, what is so special about marriage?

Funny u

Lollittaa:

you're not a femail but I won't tell anyone

Lollittaa:

Bobrisky

True talk sis

folabayo:
Variety is the spice of life
Some of them are following their forefathers legacy ( i mean those categories of men that use king Solomon and king David to cover up),
While some can never b satisfied even if they hv 50 wives...

As a man so far you hv money and you are influential even if you don't want to cheat,some set of ladies won't just let you be.

It is not about the IQ my brother

NamelessOGBENI:

Technically, men with low IQ cheats and the ones with high IQ are faithful?

Nairaland Sha...

skedy1:

Oya divorce your wife na

I think that's what you want to hear

ok

skedy1:

No be u again

Rest I beg. E don do.

Fiscus105:





understand ur predicament oga, naija economy has re-changed ur destiny and making you to reason awkwardly.

anyway I sympathize with whoever will sacrifice to be your wife.


...... popular nairaland slogan, marriage is not for everybody.

Na wah for u

NamelessOGBENI:



No worry, I go dey express myself in simple lingua....

Laila2laila2:
...hs

NamelessOGBENI:

If you read in between the lines you'd know that the comments was made from one of the honorable knight in shining armour. They don't need objectivity, they need to wallow in the sea of Eves validation..

hhmmmm. wallow in the sea of Eves validation. thats new for me.

hhmmmmm

Mikester:
There are a lot of reasons for that but the most common one is low IQ and sexual perversion

Fiscus105:



for you to sit down and be controlling grown up adult like you, I think it must come with a price sir, not only in marriage in every human endeavors.

for you to completely remove someone patriarch name and put ur own there for life, there must be pain you too must go through.

for some to go through pains of labour severally and in which the products of such pains will bear your name for life, I think you must take some responsibilities bigger than ur partner.


you guy should endeavors to balance ur opinions before you release stupidity to the public forum. what you uttered can be used to conclude the type of person you are.


meanwhile in European nations, who told you men are not taking huge responsibilities far more than wife?

haven't you heard of man who was ejected from his own house for woman and children to leave comfortably even after divorce?

Go and study (not just read o) the meaning of alimony.

Sincerely, I don't know who made you like this. I won't say any thing to you but to leave you to your folly if you thing forcing someone out of his house is regarded as sacrifice. I come in peace.

I don't know why some people can not be objective for once in their lifetime.
Mtcheew!

Baybiibee:


This one is all on you brother... For you to want to imbibe a foreign culture, you must make research, study and maybe likely u will understand it better...
Maybe with your personal research, you'll understand the true gravity of a man and his responsibilities to his home and society instead of making people think you are a lazy, incompetent and irresponsible man who wants shortcuts in his life...
Abi no be you go carry woman tell her family say u fit take care of her, your pikin and yoursef.... Now u want her to split bills with you and tomorrow beat your chest to your family and friends that you do everything at home... Pls don't be unfortunate...
That is why they tell men to get their priorities and beliefs straight before marriage but you lots never listen... A woman is a helper and can you as she deems fit... Well maybe she's the one that married you.. What do I know...

You missed the point completely if you are talking based on this ideology. From what you wrote above, ... don't be unfortunate... Can't you guys be objective for once instead of using derogatory sentence or cussing people out? You have made your point know. Speaking like that is life given someone a blow below the belt.
ANyway, thanks for your contribution on this matter.

NamelessOGBENI:

I dey return the favor sharpally...