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I got married while living in a similar apartment located in a remote part of Abuja.Today we live in our 4bedroom duplex in a major part of Abuja

Not everyone is praying to marry an already made man. I am not praying to marry an already made man. I just want a good man that's all

MrBrownJay1:
whats wrong with the above place?! i dont understand... especially if A) you love the man and B) you dont have a better place of your own.

Good point. I know a colleague from Sri Lanka but born and raised in the UK whose parents told her not to date an Oyinbo boy and she and her then Oyinbo boyfriend both ran away from home and slept in the guys car for months and she said most days they had only £1 to spend on food for both of them - thats when £1 could still buy a meal.

Best flat in this regime

PARADIZEPRIEST:
Best flat in this regime

That’s not even a flat, it is just a room 😭

I dey a bigger apartment now and I get 3 kids.

Mariangeles:


How many children you get now wey dey cramp up your space? 😀

BaddieFreak:


That’s not even a flat, it is just a room 😭

A FLAT HAS ITS CONVENIENCES WHETHER ONE OR TWO ROOMS it I'd no shared apartment but a room flat

she you dey whine me nii

MrBrownJay1:


the reality is that, if you have a woman that loves you unconditionally and vice versa, then you will be comfortable together in such a place, and will make it work regardless of how uncomfortable you guys are. life is not about dreaming of yeye nonsense, but about being grateful for what you got/deserve... what else can these two people do but accept the cards they have been dealt in life? should they go steal/kidnap to make more money? should she go wh0re herself to get more money? this is who they are and what their life is... accept it and be done with the misery, rather than daydream about yeye nonsense.

so many people out there waste so much of their lives seeking for BS while their blessings are right in front of their own eyes. you have a loving partner, you are in good health, you have a small love nest and you can pay your bills and put food on your small table etc...then call that a fucking blessing.

... and you don't have to, but if that's the best that you and your man can afford then what else can you guys do? steal/kidnap or wh0re yourselves or what?!

If only people thought like you, Nigeria would have been great.