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Sonnobax15:
. Nah bruh......In most cases,I ask especially if I have a "thingy" for you....At least,so that I won't end up wasting my time on another man's serious GF

but another msn fit know say your babe get man and still chop am ..

Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

Be good so you can attract good things

They're all whores. Just 3.6% are left as sane entity. All they're after is money, money, and more money. And nothing is left in the brain. I think an average girl in Nigeria gets attention from approximately 6 to 8 guys at a time. That's part of the problem. Too much customers. This makes their heads swell alot!

Nazgul:

Bro. Unless you're dating a girl within the age bracket of 16-23. Those are the ones that can waste your time and resources.

But any girl you meet who's above 25 in today's Nigeria, she visits you, sees your place, knows you have a sustainable job...etc.. My brother, you won't spend a dime on her, she's the one who would start planning to build a future with you.

Girls aren't stupid o.

Any? Lol. Like do you understand the meaning of the word "any"?

Most oloshos in Nigeria are in that age bracket and they're not building nothing with you.

The few responsible ones will. But "Any above 25" is a stretch and exaggerated statement.

Nazgul:

No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.

Lol. This is the second time I'm hearing this type of advice and I'm beginning to see the wisdom in it.

But there are some ladies who will intentionally let you lavish your money on them and then when you finally make your move, they tell you they have a boyfriend. I've been a victim of this which is why I now ask them their status before anything.

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BigDawsNet:


Whats your financial status?

When a lady you met said shes into relationship.. most times she thinks you aint capable financially s they tell you that so you ca backoff

But when u loaded u... even if they are really in a relationship... they will still give you some attention

So you mean one need to be loaded before approaching a girl?

Men have options is what they made us believe hahahaah

Change your location or change the location you mostly hangouts...you know what you want right ? Have you try somewhere like ShopRite(busy mall), church or even your work environment?.. women plenty na marriageable ones no plenty!

Mrwhite09:
80% probability that u broke or struggling guy. if you are financially okay 80% of Nigerian girls are single

TRUE.

The last time I checked, there are more ladies than finically stable men.

Sonnobax15:
. You're so damn right bro........A rich guy will definitely meet single bannies are definitely in serious relationships

Rich guys can carry a new girl a day everyday.
He don't even need to spend on them, just look very comfortable.

Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

Just wait for the one that will chop heartbreak....this is heartbreak season, if you no see this season, you go see for February pre-season

In the same way women kiss many frogs before they find Prince Charming, you will kiss many bitches until you find your Cinderella. If dating tire you, take a short or long break to reset your mind.

Your area can determine the kind of lady u will meet

Nazgul:

No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.

Words on marble

Sonnobax15:

Don't be too desperate bro.....

For sure there are still good bannies out there... Just that it's very unfortunate and saddening that the wayward ones exceed the good ones...And that's just the sad reality about relationship of nowadays....

Na why I still dey manage my own be that,cuz leaving her,and thinking I'd find someone better than her is a riisk I don't wanna take....

Dumb shit. Women yakpa if you know your way.


Na your type dey endure toxic relationship because of puna. Puna wey full everywhere.

I totally agree with you sir...

Raxxye:
E go hard o. There's no wife material among Gen Z's!
Try single mothers!

The right question should be ..why can't I get a virgin girl friend to date..if she is not a virgin why are u wasting ur time on a hole...pls pls if u can't find a virgin to date stop disturbing us..all non virgin Nigeria girls are useless especially the Yoruba dirty ones

Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

You should be scared, when you meet lady that is above 20, and single..Something is wrong.

No good lady is single..You vibe and collect her from whoever is with her if she likes you.

If a woman likes you, she is single..But abeg, stay away from a lady married or about to..

Explore your facebook search as well..good women women full everywhere.

josephevergreen:


So you mean one need to be loaded before approaching a girl?

Anyone can approach a lady

But any lady you approach will access you to be sure you finiciallly stable...

If op was rich those non virgins saying they are in a relationship will deny it flat

Nazgul:

Bro. Unless you're dating a girl within the age bracket of 16-23. Those are the ones that can waste your time and resources.

But any girl you meet who's above 25 in today's Nigeria, she visits you, sees your place, knows you have a sustainable job...etc.. My brother, you won't spend a dime on her, she's the one who would start planning to build a future with you.

Girls aren't stupid o.

You're right brother
You know how the dice roll 🥐

Zonefree:

I want to believe your last line is a joke, right?
Planning to build a future with someone because he has a nice house and sustainable job is the highest form of stupidity.

How do you mean?
Every Girl, turning into a lady will access your claim of a good man on:
- the Work you do- genuine confirmation!
- the house you leave, or measurable assessment on physical sight,e g your house .
- your generosity,e.g do you even care to get something along the roads you ed through when coming to her,for a visit?
Girls are the wisest being on earth, and God has created them so!
Or don't you think it is Unwise to plan your Future,but unfortunately,men do fall to the new comers,may be because of fine-face( beauty) but not because of Characters - which should have been the first thing a man ought to Study in a Lady to be!
No wander Shakespeare said 'beauty is in the eyes of a beholder'

1Sharon:
Check your character.

Madam not by character, na by pocket.

Sonnobax15:
. Nah bruh......In most cases,I ask especially if I have a "thingy" for you....At least,so that I won't end up wasting my time on another man's serious GF

You are yet to understand that it’s either you snatch or you share…

1Sharon:
Check your character.

You mean character of his pocket

Maybe you are not a good person.
I wonder if you men ever access your characters like you advise women to. Or you assume you are eligible for every "good woman".

Mrwhite09:
80% probability that u broke or struggling guy. if you are financially okay 80% of Nigerian girls are single

olukaygold:
Keep calm bro! Work on yourself,Your self esteem, work on your finances, try to be financially Okay, and the right one will locate You, just don't be in a rush.

..
How can I be financially ok

Rearealki:


Take time out and build yourself.
Don't try to date for 6 months and during this period hit the gym( to tone your muscle not necessarily to build muscle), Get new haircut (new style). Change your wardrobe(your style not by buying new clothes, mix match your wardrobe), polish your skin, work on your finances,and dream of meeting the right girl then slowly watch how things will turn around. Luv yourself first bro.


I wish you well.

I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

NA YOU NO WAN FVCK THE ONES IN A RELATIONSHIP AND THE MARRIED WOMEN

And me dey here dey avoid those girls cos most of them are brainless some people dey find self God help us oo

How would ladies be single why single guys has nothing less than 5 to 8 girl friends and married men has nothing less than 6 side chick??