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To All Men Between 30-40, Name One Mistake You Have Made In Your Life . - Nairaland / General (3) - Nairaland 6o2x2q

To All Men Between 30-40, Name One Mistake You Have Made In Your Life . (24017 Views)

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Olarewaju89: 10:33am On Dec 26, 2024
Marrying a wrong woman cry

Still hunting me till now cry

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emoboy4u: 10:34am On Dec 26, 2024
Risingblue008:
To me
Let me truthful,
I regret goin to university,studied economics with 2nd class lower.EKOPMA,graduated 2009,
Brothers
I for now whr i for dey by now.
School na scam
We have millions of graduates sunce 2003 and yet no work
I thank God for bet9ja oo

No, your biggest regret is not finishing with 2:1 bro. School no b scam.

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motionarena: 10:35am On Dec 26, 2024
Going to school in naija to waste time and money

Parents please do not allow your children pursue a career in Nigeria. There is no professional career now in Nigeria that will guarantee you financial freedom. You will just suffer and pay bills.

Sad thing it was never always like this APC is a real curse to humanity

Send dem to study abroad or push dem towards a business oriented line

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TONYE001(m): 10:35am On Dec 26, 2024
Risingblue008:
To me
Let me truthful,
I regret goin to university,studied economics with 2nd class lower.EKOPMA,graduated 2009,
Brothers
I for now whr i for dey by now.
School na scam
We have millions of graduates sunce 2003 and yet no work
I thank God for bet9ja oo


Make una stop this school-na-scam narrative joor.

There are people that have made great impacts with a similar degree.

Our stories no fit be the same, na to just pray to God for guidance and .

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Sirchiboy: 10:36am On Dec 26, 2024
Factcheck0001:
y?

Can u tell me what it looks like to b 40?
Let me know d experience n feeling even if it's brief
The gains, d losses, d regrets, the disappointment
Y no kids?
How old are you

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Sonofgod1990(m): 10:37am On Dec 26, 2024
Factcheck0001:
sorry about that nigga

I feel for u but at d same time u present it as if na u no want d girl
Yeah I been no want d girl. Which I have been given her red light from d beginning but love no gree her see road. She be dey think say she go fit use belle hold me down but no way. D love she had for me was 100% and my own to her no even reach 20%. Only that she never too expose and d puna still dey tight

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josh123(m): 10:38am On Dec 26, 2024
Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed
being an introvert isn't bad... Just learn an online skill, create value and you will swim in money.... So many to learn

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temisartana: 10:38am On Dec 26, 2024
Losing millions of naira on ponzi schemes

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uuzba(m): 10:40am On Dec 26, 2024
Factcheck0001:
y?

Can u tell me what it looks like to b 40?
Let me know d experience n feeling even if it's brief
The gains, d losses, d regrets, the disappointment
Y no kids?
The feeling of being 40.
You can't run fast again.
In your mind, you're still thinking you are Ronaldo or Usain Bolt. But in real life,
You can't run. Even if you try it,
back pain, waist pain will follow, Daily.
Even without doing anything, body pains

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biaframaster200: 10:40am On Dec 26, 2024
Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

I made a mistake by voting for Peter Obi.

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Dera25(m): 10:41am On Dec 26, 2024
Marrying the mother of my two kids, I regret ever setting my eye on her
Even in my next world I will never forgive her

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ravensckar(m): 10:41am On Dec 26, 2024
I think my only regret would be listening to all those "Entrepreneurship Bullshit". Two years ago, I was doing fantastically well with my salary job. My life was simple and I had my future figured out.

Fast forward to when I entered the "Business World", everything has become a "mad race" ever since. I now have to work twice as hard, I practically don't have time for anything again. I've lost many social connections, some great friends and even my inner peace. Yes, I'm making money but at the expense of what? angry angry

My worries and fear of the future keep increasing every day. The uncertainty of life now freaks me out. I barely relax any longer. I'm constantly planning five steps ahead now. I wish I can go back to that my "simple life". cry cry

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biaframaster200: 10:42am On Dec 26, 2024
Olarewaju89:
Married a wrong woman cry

Still hunting me till now cry

Is the woman still available? I would like to experience marrying the wrong woman.

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Safeday: 10:44am On Dec 26, 2024
virginboy1:
1. Buying my virgin girlfriend BS of waiting for her till our wedding night, last last another sharp guy popped the cherry...She still blamed me instead... grin.. (women and ability ehnnn)
2. Playing Virtual bets... omo ... I see shege promax.
3. Trusting pastor... shocked, now if you tell me say you be pastor... na extra extra eyes i go use dey look you.
4. Selling my 2 plots of land... cry


For number one
Did you later marry her?


That shii can hurt so bad tho

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Elzazzi: 10:45am On Dec 26, 2024
Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

Being an introvert is good. But there are times one needs to step out.

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uuzba(m): 10:45am On Dec 26, 2024
motionarena:
Going to school in naija to waste time and money

Parents please do not allow your children pursue a career in Nigeria

Send dem to study abroad or push dem towards a business oriented line
Unfortunately, students follow each other blindly.
You're supposed to have your connections in an industry, First, before writing jamb and going to school. So that once you finish, you go straight there to work.
But people will be reading course because their friend is reading course. Then they finish and have no idea where to work.

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NSK4U(m): 10:45am On Dec 26, 2024
Not being able to provide the kind of comfort I have always dreamed of for my parents.

Choosing school over business after my high school

Still living in Nigeria is another biggest regret of my age

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Sirchiboy: 10:45am On Dec 26, 2024
josh123:
being an introvert isn't bad... Just learn an online skill, create value and you will swim in money.... So many to learn
Learn cyber security but not making money.
Spend 300k to learn it in ph.
Not useful in Nigeria

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Sirchiboy: 10:47am On Dec 26, 2024
NSK4U:
Not being able to provide the kind of comfort I have always dreamed of for my parents.

Choosing school over business after my high school
Which line of business you would have pursued to become one of Nigeria's wealthiest young people?
23Ju: 10:47am On Dec 26, 2024
For me to defile the temple of God which is my body.

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richiemcgold: 10:47am On Dec 26, 2024
iCauseTrouble:
Is it still possible for you to go to law school?

Yes, but I doubt if I'll ever have time for it again.

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Justiceleague1: 10:48am On Dec 26, 2024
richiemcgold:


Haaaaa! It is a multimillion naira investment o. Machineries are very expensive. For instance, a foreign used kord offset machine is currently over N10million and we have 2 sets in my press. Price of printing papers too are well above the roof. You should be looking at a budget of 5million+ to set up a small scale commercial printing press.
Please how then do people make money from this?
SeaTrade(m): 10:48am On Dec 26, 2024
Find someone you love while you're young and build with her,it's very difficult to love someone after building alone for a long time.The scars and lessons you got on your way up will make you very weary of your feelings ,too mechanical.

When you start changing status,pull your woman up with you.You don't wanna be up there and she's still almost where you met her,all attraction you had for her will fade.

You don't need friends,you need brothers.That loyal motherfucker that'd fight first and ask questions later.Even if it's just one person.

Avoid showoff or largesse of any kind cos the people untop will get scared you're growing to fast and will wanna stiffle this growth if they can.
Be modest and calculative.

Trust no one with your innate issues or successes,this is meant for your partner alone.
That so called mentor might be jealous of you so shut it and tell this to either parents or wife cos they've got a lot to lose if they Bleep up with information that'd get you down or killed.

your family if you've got bank,especially your aging parents.
It's a great feeling to see the day you give back to the people who sacrificed a lot to form you into a refined human,
Definitely better than giving those who don't rate you cos you're trying yo impress.

Take good care of yourself and always look good and clean,it helps your confidence.

Avoid loud and gutter women,especially if you've built something too good to lose!!!
It's usually better to mingle with your social class at all times,so y'all can always meet halfway.
All that "person na person" talk na pure cap.

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lereinter(m): 10:50am On Dec 26, 2024
Not being a born again fervent Christian early in my youth

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Olarewaju89: 10:51am On Dec 26, 2024
biaframaster200:


Is the woman still available? I would like to experience marrying the wrong woman.

Yes, she is. But we have a child together and she is just 3 years old.

The divorce decision came from her parents.

Bro, it a long story and it really hunt me because of my beloved daughter.

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richiemcgold: 10:51am On Dec 26, 2024
Justiceleague1:

Please how then do people make money from this?

Printing is a big money making investment bro and it is always on demand. Just take a look around you at wherever you are right now. I'm sure you can see different kinds of papers everywhere. And probably they are not plain papers, things are printed on them, aren't they? Even the biscuits sachets have something printed on them. Campaign posters of politicians and polical parties alone can get you a multimillion naira contract.

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Justiceleague1: 10:51am On Dec 26, 2024
josh123:
being an introvert isn't bad... Just learn an online skill, create value and you will swim in money.... So many to learn
Please give examples, thanks

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Elzazzi: 10:52am On Dec 26, 2024
Sonofgod1990:
Using my life savings to carry holosho and using the remaining money to drink alcohol. I couldn't believe my self spending about 10 million on useless drinks and prostitutes

That's why it is said that any man who can control his third leg will go far in life.

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lereinter(m): 10:52am On Dec 26, 2024
motionarena:
Going to school in naija to waste time and money

Parents please do not allow your children pursue a career in Nigeria

Send dem to study abroad or push dem towards a business oriented line

Hmmmm

Some facts here
jayce232: 10:52am On Dec 26, 2024
Sisqoman:
I had sex with a bad luck punna
How true is this?
I have seen a lot of men saying things started going bad for them after sleeping with some lady.
Elzazzi: 10:52am On Dec 26, 2024
BigDawsNet:
Hmmm

I dint get the opportunity to lash enough in my 20s
Wasn’t willing to take risks in life
I dint mingle much with friends
I wish I got the opportunity to japa as early as 20

Having too much friends isn't good.

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FAT17(f): 10:53am On Dec 26, 2024
My regret is not getting married when I had the opportunity though I was very young then I tot marriage will stop me from enjoying and exploring life.... this guy really loved me and spoilt me with a lot of gift and money and he never disturbed me for sex in fact have always been the one demanding for sex when I need it.....we even did introduction b4 I scattered everything which made him travelled out am still in pain ooooo because all the guys have been meeting are for sex and money no real love talk less of marriage.

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