| Senkasa(m): 3:20pm On Apr 13 |
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Hello everyone. I'm in my mid twenties and at the most critical point in my life. I finally found the courage to speak out.. they say a problem shared is a problem half solved.
I started playing bet9ja virtual soccer around 2013/2014.. and I first quit around 2018/2019 then I started again around 2023.
When I resumed again in 2023, my plan was to recover my losses.. but the more I play, the more they chop me. Bet9ja virtual have destroyed my life. I quit my work, sold some properties and spent all the money my friends and siblings sent me to recover my losses in bet9ja but nothing worked. I find it hard to let go of the money bet9ja have taken from me this year alone which is why I keep going back there.
This year alone 4 or 5 friends and family have sent me over 200k and bet9ja have taken it all.. I feel angry honestly.. I'm in a deep pit and I want to stop digging but will I ever forgive myself for the money I lost to bet9ja? A friend promised to give me 100k but gave me 50k first to complete it this week and last night I lost the 50k to virtual soccer.. I need big help.. I'm d y I ng in silence
From January 2025 to april 2025 this year, I have lost 400k to 500k in playing bet9ja virtual soccer. I don't play any other form of gambling except bet9ja virtual soccer. Once a friend or family member send me 40k or 50k, I'll enter bike and rush to town to recoup the ones they chop me last time.. and I'll still end up losing everything. I have lost 40k/50k under a day or two highest (it has happened like thrice this year)
I have sold my properties and lied to my mum because of bet9ja. The only thing I haven't done is to steal or borrow to play bet9ja. I don't drink, womanize, steal or even smoke or do hard Dr u gs.. bet9ja virtual soccer have ruin Ed my life.. where do I start?
The shocking part is that last year while I was still working and secretly playing bet9ja, my mum's pastor told her to tell me to stop playing bet9ja. He said that my luck is not in gambling.. that I should stay clear from anything gambling. I don't know how he knew sef and my mum asked me if I'm still playing it but I denied it sharperly.
I need help to stop bet9ja virtual before it sends me to grabe please. I don't want to tell my mum because she's hypertensive. I don't want to loose her please. I want to be useful to myself please.. I'm the only son.
Is there anything I can do that will restrict me from playing gambling for the rest of my life (spiritually)? Can I take an oath or covenant not to play virtual soccer? I need serious advice please.. not all those stop going to bet house because I don't even anything gambling when I'm broke.. infact I use to write down my goals and plans but once money enter my hand, I'll rush to bet9ja in town (I don't play it in my area) to recoup my previous losses.
I need advice from my senior brothers and sisters in the house please.. the day I stop bet9ja virtual soccer or gambling in general will be the happiest day of my life.. I'll never forget anyday I quit it. Where do I start at this point?🙏🙏
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| Exceed15: 3:22pm On Apr 13 |
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Just QUIT!!!!
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| Firebox123(m): 3:22pm On Apr 13 |
You need therapist or counsellor
Senkasa:
Hello everyone. I'm in my mid twenties and at the most critical point in my life. I finally found the courage to speak out.. they say a problem shared is a problem half solved.
I started playing bet9ja virtual soccer around 2013/2014.. and I first quit around 2018/2019 then I started again around 2023.
When I resumed again in 2023, my plan was to recover my losses.. but the more I play, the more they chop me. Bet9ja virtual have destroyed my life. I quit my work, sold some properties and spent all the money my friends and siblings sent me to recover my losses in bet9ja but nothing worked. I find it hard to let go of the money bet9ja have taken from me this year alone which is why I keep going back there.
This year alone 4 or 5 friends and family have sent me over 200k and bet9ja have taken it all.. I feel angry honestly.. I'm in a deep pit and I want to stop digging but will I ever forgive myself for the money I lost to bet9ja?
From January 2025 to april 2025 this year, I have lost 400k to 500k in playing bet9ja virtual soccer. I don't play any other form of gambling except bet9ja virtual soccer. Once a friend or family member send me 40k or 50k, I'll enter bike and rush to town to recoup the ones they chop me last time.. and I'll still end up losing everything. I have lost 40k/50k under a day or two highest (it has happened like thrice this year)
I have sold my properties and lied to my mum because of bet9ja. The only thing I haven't done is to steal or borrow to play bet9ja.
The shocking part is that last year while I was still working and secretly playing bet9ja, my mum's pastor told her to tell me to stop playing bet9ja. He said that my luck is not in gambling.. that I should stay clear from anything gambling. I don't know how he knew sef and my mum asked me if I'm still playing it but I denied it sharperly.
I need help to stop bet9ja virtual before it sends me to grabe please. I don't want to tell my mum because she's hypertensive. I don't want to loose her please. I want to be useful to myself please.
Is there anything I can do that will restrict me from playing gambling for the rest of my life (spiritually)? Can I take an oath or covenant not to play virtual soccer? I need serious advice please.. not all those stop going to bet house because I don't even anything gambling when I'm broke.. infact I use to write down my goals and plans but once money enter my hand, I'll rush to bet9ja in town (I don't play it in my area) to recoup my previous losses.
I need advice from my senior brothers and sisters in the house please 🙏🙏
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| Firebox123(m): 3:23pm On Apr 13 |
Exceed15:
Just QUIT!!!!
read to the end
Don't just type QUIT
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| maclatunji: 3:26pm On Apr 13 |
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I could go the moral/religious route with you but you are not advanced enough for that yet. The gambling industry is designed to do exactly what is happening to you. It is up to you to wake-up and stop funding a losing habit.
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| Exceed15: 3:27pm On Apr 13 |
Firebox123:
read to the end
Don't just type QUIT
Ok continue.
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| Firebox123(m): 3:28pm On Apr 13 |
maclatunji:
I could go the moral/religious route with you but you are not advanced enough for that yet. The gambling industry is designed to do exactly what is happening to you. It is up to you to wake-up and stop funding a losing habit.
Nigerian mentality sha
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| Senkasa(m): 3:29pm On Apr 13 |
Exceed15:
Just QUIT!!!!
Should I forget all my losses and move on?
What can I do to restrict myself from gambling?
I don't have the will power to do so because whenever I my losses I rush back and loose more.. I have never lied to my mum but I have lied to her because of bet9ja virtual.. I have failed my mum and myself..
Can I do any ju JU ju that will make me not to play it again? What if I swear with my life, will it work?
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| Firebox123(m): 3:33pm On Apr 13 |
You need therapist or counsellor
Forget about JuJu brr
Senkasa:
Should I forget all my losses and move on?
What can I do to restrict myself from gambling?
I don't have the will power to do so because whenever I my losses I rush back and loose more.. I have never lied to my mum but I have lied to her because of bet9ja virtual.. I have failed my mum and myself..
Can I do any ju JU ju that will make me not to play it again? What if I swear with my life, will it work?
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| Senkasa(m): 3:35pm On Apr 13 |
maclatunji:
I could go the moral/religious route with you but you are not advanced enough for that yet. The gambling industry is designed to do exactly what is happening to you. It is up to you to wake-up and stop funding a losing habit.
Please help me sir. I'm ready to follow the religious route sir. Desperate times calls for desperate measures I beg you sir. Gambling have taken me five to ten years back sir
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| Senkasa(m): 3:36pm On Apr 13 |
Firebox123:
You need therapist or counsellor
Forget about JuJu brr
Does it work? And how can I get one sir?
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| Firebox123(m): 3:42pm On Apr 13 |
Senkasa:
Does it work? And how can I get one sir?
yes I hope you find one here
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| Ginaz(f): 3:47pm On Apr 13 |
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Don't ever swear any oath or do juju , it won't work and you may not have the power to resist despite swearing by oath. It's very dangerous!!! keep seeking God's mercy and grace . That's the only way to put an end to your problem.
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| AntichristXXX: 3:52pm On Apr 13 |
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Make me your officer.
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| Antwan99: 4:03pm On Apr 13 |
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Brother, no therapy or spiritual cleansing will work.
You said you lack the will power but that is where the problem is. Good thing is you know have identified the problem which is the first step in solving issues. They say, the major problem is to identity the problem.
Everything you see on earth; houses, cars, gadgets... the conception all started from the mind. Until you discipline yourself to take the difficult path between two routes, you'll keep visiting therapists and religious people endlessly but still relapsing continually. And once you relapse on any quitting attempt to a habit, you are likely intense on it than the previous.
Great men are those who do not take the path of least resistance. Take the path of highest resistance once you find a habit problematic to you. Like, to spend money lavishly and to not, which is more easier. Of Course, it is to spend money. Then take the other path which is not to spend lavishly and you are on the path of great men; the path of highest resistance. Discipline your mind to accept this principle as a norm.
You can read this book titled: 'The Power of Self Discipline; No Excuses.' By Brian Tracy. It'll help you a lot.
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| Mcreloaded(m): 4:12pm On Apr 13 |
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Look for a job that's stressful and tiring where by you resume by 8am and and close by 6pm Mondays to Saturdays with prayers also
Believe me when tou close for work tou will be too tired to leave the house as all you will be thinking is to bath,eat and sleep as tou will be too tired to go out .
On Sundays look for how to occupy yourself by going to church, washing your work clothes to use the next week,cook etc.
With serious prayers and meditation every sundays tou just might break the jinx.
Wish you luck on this virtual betting adventure you have embarked on.
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| FalseProphet1(m): 4:13pm On Apr 13 |
maclatunji:
I could go the moral/religious route with you but you are not advanced enough for that yet. The gambling industry is designed to do exactly what is happening to you. It is up to you to wake-up and stop funding a losing habit.
Hey I you. You used to moderate the religion section back then.
Happy new year.
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| Kestolove(m): 4:20pm On Apr 13 |
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Start smoking weed...u will forget bet9
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| Uchenna10(m): 4:27pm On Apr 13 |
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Learn how to drink and carry babes small....that one might take Ur mind off virtual,I was once like u sha..u just need to forget about Ur losses and move on,even in business people loose millions..that's how life is,let go of Ur losses and use any other activity to forget about virtual or betting.
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| FalseProphet1(m): 4:29pm On Apr 13 |
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Continue playing it, one day you will blow.
This I have seen.
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| Letmecum: 5:21pm On Apr 13 |
 you never see anything since you no wan stop just continue untill it finished u. Oga you can't win betnaija it's a scam. No body can help you believe me only you can help yourself if you can decide to stop this shit. Before you will know soon you will be thinking of taking your life if you don't stop now.
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| ARISHEM: 5:53pm On Apr 13 |
Senkasa:
Hello everyone. I'm in my mid twenties and at the most critical point in my life. I finally found the courage to speak out.. they say a problem shared is a problem half solved.
I started playing bet9ja virtual soccer around 2013/2014.. and I first quit around 2018/2019 then I started again around 2023.
When I resumed again in 2023, my plan was to recover my losses.. but the more I play, the more they chop me. Bet9ja virtual have destroyed my life. I quit my work, sold some properties and spent all the money my friends and siblings sent me to recover my losses in bet9ja but nothing worked. I find it hard to let go of the money bet9ja have taken from me this year alone which is why I keep going back there.
This year alone 4 or 5 friends and family have sent me over 200k and bet9ja have taken it all.. I feel angry honestly.. I'm in a deep pit and I want to stop digging but will I ever forgive myself for the money I lost to bet9ja? A friend promised to give me 100k but gave me 50k first to complete it this week and last night I lost the 50k to virtual soccer.. I need big help.. I'm d y I ng in silence
From January 2025 to april 2025 this year, I have lost 400k to 500k in playing bet9ja virtual soccer. I don't play any other form of gambling except bet9ja virtual soccer. Once a friend or family member send me 40k or 50k, I'll enter bike and rush to town to recoup the ones they chop me last time.. and I'll still end up losing everything. I have lost 40k/50k under a day or two highest (it has happened like thrice this year)
I have sold my properties and lied to my mum because of bet9ja. The only thing I haven't done is to steal or borrow to play bet9ja. I don't drink, womanize, steal or even smoke or do hard Dr u gs.. bet9ja virtual soccer have ruin Ed my life.. where do I start?
The shocking part is that last year while I was still working and secretly playing bet9ja, my mum's pastor told her to tell me to stop playing bet9ja. He said that my luck is not in gambling.. that I should stay clear from anything gambling. I don't know how he knew sef and my mum asked me if I'm still playing it but I denied it sharperly.
I need help to stop bet9ja virtual before it sends me to grabe please. I don't want to tell my mum because she's hypertensive. I don't want to loose her please. I want to be useful to myself please.. I'm the only son.
Is there anything I can do that will restrict me from playing gambling for the rest of my life (spiritually)? Can I take an oath or covenant not to play virtual soccer? I need serious advice please.. not all those stop going to bet house because I don't even anything gambling when I'm broke.. infact I use to write down my goals and plans but once money enter my hand, I'll rush to bet9ja in town (I don't play it in my area) to recoup my previous losses.
I need advice from my senior brothers and sisters in the house please.. the day I stop bet9ja virtual soccer or gambling in general will be the happiest day of my life.. I'll never forget anyday I quit it. Where do I start at this point?🙏🙏
Until you agree you have lost your battle to bet Naija and no millions will recover or recoup the amount you ve lost to them they will continue to chop you. The owner of betnaija is a billionaire. He acquired a football club in Europe and also own Remo stars and some multinationals. These wouldn’t have been possible without people like you who thinks you can outwit him.
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| okoIYAyin(m): 6:02pm On Apr 13 |
Senkasa:
Hello everyone. I'm in my mid twenties and at the most critical point in my life. I finally found the courage to speak out.. they say a problem shared is a problem half solved.
I started playing bet9ja virtual soccer around 2013/2014.. and I first quit around 2018/2019 then I started again around 2023.
When I resumed again in 2023, my plan was to recover my losses.. but the more I play, the more they chop me. Bet9ja virtual have destroyed my life. I quit my work, sold some properties and spent all the money my friends and siblings sent me to recover my losses in bet9ja but nothing worked. I find it hard to let go of the money bet9ja have taken from me this year alone which is why I keep going back there.
This year alone 4 or 5 friends and family have sent me over 200k and bet9ja have taken it all.. I feel angry honestly.. I'm in a deep pit and I want to stop digging but will I ever forgive myself for the money I lost to bet9ja? A friend promised to give me 100k but gave me 50k first to complete it this week and last night I lost the 50k to virtual soccer.. I need big help.. I'm d y I ng in silence
From January 2025 to april 2025 this year, I have lost 400k to 500k in playing bet9ja virtual soccer. I don't play any other form of gambling except bet9ja virtual soccer. Once a friend or family member send me 40k or 50k, I'll enter bike and rush to town to recoup the ones they chop me last time.. and I'll still end up losing everything. I have lost 40k/50k under a day or two highest (it has happened like thrice this year)
I have sold my properties and lied to my mum because of bet9ja. The only thing I haven't done is to steal or borrow to play bet9ja. I don't drink, womanize, steal or even smoke or do hard Dr u gs.. bet9ja virtual soccer have ruin Ed my life.. where do I start?
The shocking part is that last year while I was still working and secretly playing bet9ja, my mum's pastor told her to tell me to stop playing bet9ja. He said that my luck is not in gambling.. that I should stay clear from anything gambling. I don't know how he knew sef and my mum asked me if I'm still playing it but I denied it sharperly.
I need help to stop bet9ja virtual before it sends me to grabe please. I don't want to tell my mum because she's hypertensive. I don't want to loose her please. I want to be useful to myself please.. I'm the only son.
Is there anything I can do that will restrict me from playing gambling for the rest of my life (spiritually)? Can I take an oath or covenant not to play virtual soccer? I need serious advice please.. not all those stop going to bet house because I don't even anything gambling when I'm broke.. infact I use to write down my goals and plans but once money enter my hand, I'll rush to bet9ja in town (I don't play it in my area) to recoup my previous losses.
I need advice from my senior brothers and sisters in the house please.. the day I stop bet9ja virtual soccer or gambling in general will be the happiest day of my life.. I'll never forget anyday I quit it. Where do I start at this point?🙏🙏
I used to be like you a few years ago, maybe not as hooked as you are now, but I understand the struggle. I managed to quit on my own by simply making the decision to stop and staying away from it completely. From what I’ve seen, most people succeed in quitting by replacing the time they’d normally spend betting with something more productive. In your case, having an ability partner could really help. If you don’t mind me asking, where are you based?
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| WhiteIverson: 6:03pm On Apr 13 |
Senkasa you that promised 2k for who will recommend VPN and didn't keep to your promise. Send the 2k first before any advice. 
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| okoIYAyin(m): 6:04pm On Apr 13 |
Senkasa:
Please help me sir. I'm ready to follow the religious route sir. Desperate times calls for desperate measures I beg you sir. Gambling have taken me five to ten years back sir
Lol
Do you want to lose more money to fake prophets? Don't let anyone deceive you, there's nothing spiritual about gambling. It's all about mindset!
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| koladata(m): 6:07pm On Apr 13 |
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Just open an that doesn't allow you to withdraw money till a specified time, once you have money , keep it there
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| LIVINGICONREBOR: 9:35pm On Apr 13 |
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You are not a smart lad. This is something already programmed by the bookies and you are wasting money on it. Only you can give yourself some sense and save you right now. One thing is certain you can never ever recoup your losses through that "virtual" route, the money lost is gone forever. Move the 4uck on.🥱
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| Balablue64: 10:22pm On Apr 13 |
Uchenna10:
Learn how to drink and carry babes small....that one might take Ur mind off virtual,I was once like u sha..u just need to forget about Ur losses and move on,even in business people loose millions..that's how life is,let go of Ur losses and use any other activity to forget about virtual or betting.
You are not a good person, you want to add another problem in his life.
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| danvon(m): 11:17pm On Apr 13 |
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Go and buy vitamin b1.
Your problem is fast metabolism.
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| motionarena: 12:24am On Apr 14 |
Senkasa:
Hello everyone. I'm in my mid twenties and at the most critical point in my life. I finally found the courage to speak out.. they say a problem shared is a problem half solved.
I started playing bet9ja virtual soccer around 2013/2014.. and I first quit around 2018/2019 then I started again around 2023.
When I resumed again in 2023, my plan was to recover my losses.. but the more I play, the more they chop me. Bet9ja virtual have destroyed my life. I quit my work, sold some properties and spent all the money my friends and siblings sent me to recover my losses in bet9ja but nothing worked. I find it hard to let go of the money bet9ja have taken from me this year alone which is why I keep going back there.
This year alone 4 or 5 friends and family have sent me over 200k and bet9ja have taken it all.. I feel angry honestly.. I'm in a deep pit and I want to stop digging but will I ever forgive myself for the money I lost to bet9ja? A friend promised to give me 100k but gave me 50k first to complete it this week and last night I lost the 50k to virtual soccer.. I need big help.. I'm d y I ng in silence
From January 2025 to april 2025 this year, I have lost 400k to 500k in playing bet9ja virtual soccer. I don't play any other form of gambling except bet9ja virtual soccer. Once a friend or family member send me 40k or 50k, I'll enter bike and rush to town to recoup the ones they chop me last time.. and I'll still end up losing everything. I have lost 40k/50k under a day or two highest (it has happened like thrice this year)
I have sold my properties and lied to my mum because of bet9ja. The only thing I haven't done is to steal or borrow to play bet9ja. I don't drink, womanize, steal or even smoke or do hard Dr u gs.. bet9ja virtual soccer have ruin Ed my life.. where do I start?
The shocking part is that last year while I was still working and secretly playing bet9ja, my mum's pastor told her to tell me to stop playing bet9ja. He said that my luck is not in gambling.. that I should stay clear from anything gambling. I don't know how he knew sef and my mum asked me if I'm still playing it but I denied it sharperly.
I need help to stop bet9ja virtual before it sends me to grabe please. I don't want to tell my mum because she's hypertensive. I don't want to loose her please. I want to be useful to myself please.. I'm the only son.
Is there anything I can do that will restrict me from playing gambling for the rest of my life (spiritually)? Can I take an oath or covenant not to play virtual soccer? I need serious advice please.. not all those stop going to bet house because I don't even anything gambling when I'm broke.. infact I use to write down my goals and plans but once money enter my hand, I'll rush to bet9ja in town (I don't play it in my area) to recoup my previous losses.
I need advice from my senior brothers and sisters in the house please.. the day I stop bet9ja virtual soccer or gambling in general will be the happiest day of my life.. I'll never forget anyday I quit it. Where do I start at this point?🙏🙏
Mumu dullard like u.
Mosy people I know have abandoned that thing and the betting virtual shops have dwindled
But at you age u still believe u can make millions bia virtual betting
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| AllBlack: 2:53am On Apr 14 |
Senkasa:
Bet9ja virtual have destroyed my life.
They didn't ruin your life, You did it repeatedly to yourself.
The funny thing is that you willingly looked for the money yourself and you went to betshop yourself to give them your money now you come here to SEEK FOR HELP but if you are asked to pay for advice and counselling that will help you break the chain, you will not pay. You will become VERY WISE, sceptical & start doubting and say it is a scam but you never applied the same doubt and WISDOM when it comes to giving 100 times the amount to betshop.
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| ikechukz(m): 7:19am On Apr 14 |
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If virtual soccer isn't working for you, try dog race.
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