NewStats: 3,263,924 , 8,181,903 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 07:20 PM 1g3d6y

I have on several occasion seen topics about men complaining about their wives refusing them of sex or using sex as a weapon or bargaining tool.

Your wife will continue to use this against you to have her way, to make you say sorry to her after she has wronged you. She will use this to gain more power at home and control you...well, only if you allow her to.

Never ever beg your wife for sex! Men stop this nonsense.

What you will do is reverse psychology. Whenever you initiate sex and she turns her back, act like you don't give a hoot and turn your back, then go to sleep, you will not die. Act like you don't care if she gives you or not. And the next morning, don't act like you are pained, act like the normal you, like nothing happened. Dont deny her of her needs. Just move on with your life. If she continues doing this, don't stop acting the same way. This will give her different impressions and she will begin to wonder why you no longer care.

1. She will think you are now seeing another woman: Well, on this one, you can just be like me, have side chicks. These are one of the many benefits of side chicks. Have steady sidechick(s) who is ready to give it to you anytime you call. This makes it easier for you to leave your wife alone when she begins her drama. And dont let her catch you cheating. Dont let her have any clue.

And if you dont want to have a side chick because of your personal beliefs, lack of funds or whatever, just try to control yourself or masturbate behind her back, dont let her catch you.

Now this will make her lose her mind and try adjust herself so that "Another woman wont come and steal her husband away". She will become FBI, CIA, EFCC, Verydarkman etc on your case. You will give her serious work to do. Since she doesnt want to give you your rights, she too will not know peace.

2. She will think you now find her less attractive: By this thoughts, she will always want to confirm your thoughts about her. She is eager to quench her curiosity. She will be the one initiating sex just to confirm if you still find her attractive...sometimes, when she initiates it, turn her down too.


3. She will think she can no longer bargain with sex and then give up: By this time you have won. She will now see that using sex as a weapon to fight and control you no longer works and then she will succumb and even respect you more

NOTE: After achieving these 3 feats, she still won't give up, she will try to test you once in a while, and everytime she does it, ignore her again, every single time.

This will always reset her brain.

Don't be a SIMP to your wife, dont let her control or manipulate you with sex. Use your brain

CAVEAT: Sometimes women won't give in to sexual advances from their husbands, not because they are trying to manipulate you or trying to be wicked, but because they might be tired due to house chores, children wahala, their usual mood swings etc and in this case you need to be more understanding....But in all, pretending like you don't give a shi1t works everytime, for every situation.

Do you not real eyes that the same wives you are blocking are right here reading this?

I am a married man, if my wife starts denying me sex or weaponising it.

Na to find one small girl wey I go Dey empty my balls into steady n still b that good man at home.

We go just Dey look ourselves for house n life goes smoothly, na she go beg me last last

Reality3080:
I am a married man, if my wife starts denying me sex or weaponising it.

Na to find one small girl wey I go Dey empty my balls into steady n still b that good man at home.

We go just Dey look ourselves for house n life goes smoothly, na she go beg me last last

You get the drill.

Reality3080:
➜I am a married man, if my wife starts denying me sex or weaponising it. Na to find one small girl wey I go Dey empty my balls into steady n still b that good man at home. We go just Dey look ourselves for house n life goes smoothly, na she go beg me last last

So, your solution is to tacitly adopt an open marriage contract as opposed to your former contract, abi? I hope you will not come back here to wail that your wife has taken to cheating on you with other men since open marriage means even the woman can have her lights screwed on outside too.

Has it ever occured to you that the reason your wife denies you sex is because she finds you physically unappealing? You can't have 2 packs, dry chest, and a big belly, and still be disturbing for sex. . There is no way you will have a great body like the attached picture and your woman won't crave sex. Just work on yourself and stop being a cry baby.

We4all:
Has it ever occured to you that the reason your wife denies you sex is because she finds you physically unappealing? You can't have 2 packs, dry chest, and a big belly, and still be disturbing for sex. . There is no way you will have a great body like the attached picture and your woman won't crave sex. Just work on yourself and stop being a cry baby.

Ouch!!! That was a bellow-the-belt hit, abeg! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

We4all:
Has it ever occured to you that the reason your wife denies you sex is because she finds you physically unappealing? You can't have 2 packs, dry chest, and a big belly, and still be disturbing for sex. . There is no way you will have a great body like the attached picture and your woman won't crave sex. Just work on yourself and stop being a cry baby.

If she doesn't find you appealing then let her indicate so that you can divorce and try marriage again. Men did not come to this world to be at the mercy of one woman who may be amoebic but still craves for 6-pack husband.
Sometimes I wish I was in the generation 100 years before now. Would have had 4 wives by now and ladies out there wishing to the train.

kingthreat:
➜If she doesn't find you appealing then let her indicate so that you can divorce and try marriage again. Men did not come to this world to be at the mercy of one woman who may be amoebic but still craves for 6-pack husband.
Sometimes I wish I was in the generation 100 years before now. Would have had 4 wives by now and ladies out there wishing to the train.

The man could do pretty much the same if he is not happy with being denied sex by his wife.

Kobojunkie:
The man could do pretty much the same if he is not happy with being denied sex by his wife.

Troll, yes the man can. You didn't have to comment the obvious.

kingthreat:
➜Troll, yes the man can. You didn't have to comment the obvious.

I had to mention it since you conveniently left that out. So, you it that your comment was moot then.🙄🙄🙄🙄

Honestly speaking once my wife start denying me sex for no reason, the marriage is over. I no see reason why I will be doing my duty as a husband by providing nd nd i still have to beg for sex, i can never do that.

zuby4real10:
Honestly speaking once my wife start denying me sex for no reason, the marriage is over. I no see reason why I will be doing my duty as a husband by providing nd nd i still have to beg for sex, i can never do that.

A married woman won't deny her husband sex without reason. Know why she's not interested and make amends .

We4all:
Has it ever occured to you that the reason your wife denies you sex is because she finds you physically unappealing? You can't have 2 packs, dry chest, and a big belly, and still be disturbing for sex. . There is no way you will have a great body like the attached picture and your woman won't crave sex. Just work on yourself and stop being a cry baby.

It always annoying seeing kids with zero knowledge about marriage talking about it.

Oyindidi:
A married woman won't deny her husband sex without reason. Know why she's not interested and make amends .

Lol.........only fools fall such in marriage.

Women only have to weapon in marriage.

Deny you sex and stop cooking.

Never beg her anytime she use this two things against you...Never ever.

What many men don't understand is, women in marriage are quite different to when they were single. If your wife don't give you sex as expected, try to find out what might cause her action.

Majority of them are often stressed out due to house chores, works and children monitoring. Many time the only thing their body needed is rest, and while sex might seem to be relaxation thing for single women ( due to scarcity), it is not for married ones because they are already used to it. Before you criticise or blame your wife, try to combine your work stress with house chores and children monitoring and see how you will feel when you have an opportunity to rest.

As a married man, you need to be considerate and help them at home where it necessary. If you want them to always ready to have sex, try to make them happy, not only by giving them money but by helping them at home (especially working class ones).

Besides, every woman weaponize sex( single or married), it left for you to know how to outsmart them to have your way.

Just buy an intimacy gadget and pleasure yourself in her presence... She'll get jealous of the intimacy gadget, case closed...😑😑😑

We4all:
Has it ever occured to you that the reason your wife denies you sex is because she finds you physically unappealing? You can't have 2 packs, dry chest, and a big belly, and still be disturbing for sex. . There is no way you will have a great body like the attached picture and your woman won't crave sex. Just work on yourself and stop being a cry baby.

see this one

I can bet u ain't married, if u are married u will know the looks will not matter again the person will become ordinary

Y do men cheat on beauty queens?

Sharpsharp00123:
see this one

I can bet u ain't married, if u are married u will know the looks will not matter again the person will become ordinary

Y do men cheat on beauty queens?

Sharpsharp00123:
see this one

I can bet u ain't married, if u are married u will know the looks will not matter again the person will become ordinary

Y do men cheat on beauty queens?

I wonder why you dey answer person wey never get Responsibilities.

If you want to know if ignoring her whenever she want to use sex as weapon has worked,,,
Rant for her and if you see her crying or very sobber, then its worked.
She cried because she don't have anything left in her arsenal.
Women believe their body worth everything.
Even if you're working your ass out trying to make ends meet for the family, those low class wife's think giving you sex is a big thank you or a compensation for your dedication to the family.


The way Nigeria is now, a mother will call her girl child that her friend is around (A grown married man oo) just because of the worsening economy. Sex is now cheaper than ever..
Only fear of hereafter can restrain a man. Because as a married man and still fornicate, abeg when are you going to stop.

yemmit90:
What many men don't understand is, women in marriage are quite different to when they were single. If your wife don't give you sex as expected, try to find out what might cause her action.

Majority of them are often stressed out due to house chores, works and children monitoring. Many time the only thing their body needed is rest, and while sex might seem to be relaxation thing for single women ( due to scarcity), it is not for married ones because they are already used to it. Before you criticise or blame your wife, try to combine your work stress with house chores and children monitoring and see how you will feel when you have an opportunity to rest.

As a married man, you need to be considerate and help them at home where it necessary. If you want them to always ready to have sex, try to make them happy, not only by giving them money but by helping them at home (especially working class ones).

Besides, every woman weaponize sex( single or married), it left for you to know how to outsmart them to have your way.

No sir, stop defending something dt is wrong. you are speaking for the woman dt she is most times tired dt is why she is nt available for sex.

A gfrnd cn deny her bfrnd sex and it may be justifiable because wateva benefit weda sex or money both of dem get Frm each oda is transactional.

But we wrongly view sex in marriage too lightly.sex in marriage is a duty. A major duty and responsibility in marriage as been said in the Bible.
You holding brief for the woman dt huz chores most tyms makes her tired is nt a strong reason at all.

It is the way the woman responds dt mata's nt the tiredness. "sweetheart, I am very tired. Pls give me 30mins let me rest for a while. I wil you in bed later" is a polite way of expressing ur tiredness. if a woman abruptly cuts the man short with the "I am very tired for sex" and nt follow it up with certainty of doin the sex later den the woman is wrecking her marriage gradually.

Let me ask, you as the husband dt you wake up probably as early as 5am to prepare for wrk and likely come bk late in the evening, you do this every single day bk to bk for say an average of 26days in a month in btw with traffic stress on the road , don't you get drained and exhausted. Have you stop providing? Absolutely NO

But still, you dnt use dt as an excuse to provide for that woman. pay huz rent, pay school fees, NEPA bill, clothing, medication for the wife and kids so dt everybody wil be satisfied and nt grumble.

You see, most men wil do the unimaginable and make sacrifices for the wife even in that their state of tiredness and keep doin it.

sex in marriage is nt just a casual sex. It is a major responsibility dt is difficult to evade. The only condition I see it been avoided is when either party is seriously down health wise.

It is a woman dt doesn't see sex as duty in marriage dt wil keep using tiredness as excuse. the woman shud include and accommodate sex time when Eva she is needed by the man.

When the woman is denying the man sex,we shouldn't be listing out reasons why she is denying the man sex, we shud see how we cn include the sex even in dt state of tiredness. Moreover, how many minutes be the sex?

gerizzim:


No sir, stop defending something dt is wrong. you are speaking for the woman dt she is most times tired dt is why she is nt available for sex.

A gfrnd cn deny her bfrnd sex and it may be justifiable because wateva benefit weda sex or money both of dem get Frm each oda is transactional.

But we wrongly view sex in marriage too lightly.sex in marriage is a duty. A major duty and responsibility in marriage as been said in the Bible.
You holding brief for the woman dt huz chores most tyms makes her tired is nt a strong reason at all.

It is the way the woman responds dt mata's nt the tiredness. "sweetheart, I am very tired. Pls give me 30mins let me rest for a while. I wil you in bed later" is a polite way of expressing ur tiredness. if a woman abruptly cuts the man short with the "I am very tired for sex" and nt follow it up with certainty of doin the sex later den the woman is wrecking her marriage gradually.

Let me ask, you as the husband dt you wake up probably as early as 5am to prepare for wrk and likely come bk late in the evening, you do this every single day bk to bk for say an average of 26days in a month in btw with traffic stress on the road , don't you get drained and exhausted. Have you stop providing? Absolutely NO

But still, you dnt use dt as an excuse to provide for that woman. pay huz rent, pay school fees, NEPA bill, clothing, medication for the wife and kids so dt everybody wil be satisfied and nt grumble.

You see, most men wil do the unimaginable and make sacrifices for the wife even in that their state of tiredness and keep doin it.

sex in marriage is nt just a casual sex. It is a major responsibility dt is difficult to evade. The only condition I see it been avoided is when either party is seriously down health wise.

It is a woman dt doesn't see sex as duty in marriage dt wil keep using tiredness as excuse. the woman shud include and accommodate sex time when Eva she is needed by the man.

When the woman is denying the man sex,we shouldn't be listing out reasons why she is denying the man sex, we shud see how we cn include the sex even in dt state of tiredness. Moreover, how many minutes be the sex?

Perhaps you should read my post again, no one says that a woman should deny her husband sex, I was only pointing out the reasons why majority of married women may not respond to their husbands intimate calls all the time.

Besides, your insinuation is only applicable to "jobless or sit at home wives". Majority of women these days are working tirelessly too like men, yet, they will still go home and face this rigorous house chores with little or no help from their husbands who probably believes it is their sole responsibility do so.

I was once like you but later knows better through experience. So, if you want to know why she don't feel like having sex sometimes, try to combine your works stress, house chores and children monitoring for few days and come back here to counter my argument.

yemmit90:


Perhaps you should read my post again, no one says that a woman should deny her husband sex, I was only pointing out the reasons why majority of married women may not respond to their husbands intimate calls all the time.

Besides, your insinuation is only applicable to "jobless or sit at home wives". Majority of women these days are working tirelessly too like men, yet, they will still go home and face this rigorous house chores with little or no help from their husbands who probably believes it is their sole responsibility do so.

I was once like you but later knows better through experience. So, if you want to know why she don't feel like having sex sometimes, try to combine your works stress, house chores and children monitoring for few days and come back here to counter my argument.

FuckYeyeMods:
If you want to know if ignoring her whenever she want to use sex as weapon has worked,,,
Rant for her and if you see her crying or very sobber, then its worked.
She cried because she don't have anything left in her arsenal.
Women believe their body worth everything.
Even if you're working your ass out trying to make ends meet for the family, those low class wife's think giving you sex is a big thank you or a compensation for your dedication to the family.


The way Nigeria is now, a mother will call her girl child that her friend is around (A grown married man oo) just because of the worsening economy. Sex is now cheaper than ever..
Only fear of hereafter can restrain a man. Because as a married man and still fornicate, abeg when are you going to stop.

Deep

FuckYeyeMods:
If you want to know if ignoring her whenever she want to use sex as weapon has worked,,,
Rant for her and if you see her crying or very sobber, then its worked.
She cried because she don't have anything left in her arsenal.
Women believe their body worth everything.
Even if you're working your ass out trying to make ends meet for the family, those low class wife's think giving you sex is a big thank you or a compensation for your dedication to the family.


The way Nigeria is now, a mother will call her girl child that her friend is around (A grown married man oo) just because of the worsening economy. Sex is now cheaper than ever..
Only fear of hereafter can restrain a man. Because as a married person and still fornicate, abeg when are you going to stop.