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I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Reading...

Bro,the bitter truth is that your wife has left you emotionally....

Things dey happen o

Some of the people that knows me will say, that one he's too proud, if na me, I go don kick her out since wotowoto.

Wakatumbit:

This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

.guy....na their way be that for you...
.they always over estimate their worth in a relationship, believing they are doing you a favour by being with you.....

All I see is......she's just playing with leverage that she doesn't even know how little she has

Her case even funny.....Person wey nor fit pay bills dey threaten who dey feed her with divorce!!

Oga....get lawyer make he serve her document ....sign am..give am make she sign

One of the two will happen..
1)Dem nor born am well make she sign am..... Na cry she go cry....come add victim game

2) pride will make her sign..and u may meet in court....u don free be that

Baba...no let any body rob u of ur peace ooo
be selfish and ruthless about your peace of mind

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

What job do you do?

You used money to convince a woman to marry you, what are you expecting?

advanceDNA:


.guy....na their way be that for you...
.they always over estimate their worth in a relationship, believing they are doing you a favour by being with you.....

All I see is......she's just playing with leverage that she doesn't even know how much she has

Her case even funny.....Person wey nor fit pay bills dey threaten who dey feed her with divorce!!

Oga....get lawyer make he draft you divorce document ....sign am..give am make she sign

One of the two will happen..
1)Dem nor born am well make she sign am..... Na cry she go cry....come add victim game

2) pride will make her sign...u don free be that

Baba...no let any body rob u of ur peace ooo
be selfish and ruthless about your peace of mind

Advance, you sure say you go enter heaven this Sunday so?
To be honest, it is the ego for me.
These modern ladies have so so so much ego.
You will see a stark broke lady claiming she has taste, how biko?
How can you be broke yet have high taste and wild mouth? Just make it make sense to me.
The kind shege wey dey wait for her outside ehn, all the men deceiving her will all chop and clean mouth and dump her.
It's cheaper sleeping with a married woman since the financial burden is mostly not on you - house rent, kids sch fees, clothes etc
That is why one of the best sex you will have is school sex because the financial burden is not on you, rather her parent. So mostly you people bang like rabbits and when she is going, you can give her peanut but sex after school? Na there wahala go dey start

Just do yourself a favor, when next you make 20m keep 10m aside for yourself. The biggest mistake we do is to try to impress people with money.. if you can't gain your respect without money you need to check yourself. As for your wife, it's either she have a lifestyle before you marry her and you are trying to meet up( reason a rich man pikin marry themselves) or you are still giving an impression all his well.

Yo be sincere with you... The woman has left you emotionally.... You are the only one in this relationship....

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

She constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

Scan her phone 🚩🚩🚩

You deserve better.
Her eyes will open to reality on the street. She will end up as one of these bitter feminist who are ed around.

Don't even allow her to manipulate you whatsoever. Get a lawyer and start the divorce process. Don't make her start the process before you so she doesn't feel any special leverage.

For the main time, send her to her father's house and ask for your bride price.

She will learn the hard way

Once a woman start comparing you with another man, she's lost respect for you.

If a woman has lost respect for you, your whatever-ship is sitting on a ticking time bomb.

If she still got a lil good conscience, she'll just pack out without you knowing BUT if she's lost, you might lose your life along the line.

Some body might be sleeping in your bed

The truth is ,your wife was attracted to you cause of the money.
Men no de pursue woman with money.

You married her with money, never marry a lady because you have money. Your story is very similar to mine. She also started with the threat. One day I woke up and the love just died then and there. Found out she was already cheating with some rich dude. Your case is like that of a man training a dog, feeding it, caring for it and in return always biting you. The best bet is for you to discard that your lady. Nothing in the world can change her mind. If you truly want peace of mind you know what to do.

Is she still in your house?If yes,stop attending to her needs..Treat her like a stranger and focus the love on your child..Don’t kill yourself for a woman..

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

you be mumu ........

Chief, you are not alone in this issue. A lot of husbands are going through the exact same thing.

Stay at home wives who feel entitled and unappreciative. Who always boast that they are loyal and their contribution to the marriage are the kids. Who glamorize their spinster years as the golden era and say they believe they would be better off if they didn't marry their current husband.

Ultimately, you should put yourself first and give yourself peace. Do what you can for the family and leave the rest. Don't expect gratitude. The people they would slander you to know better so don't worry as long as you know you're doing you own bit.

Learn to enjoy your life with or without family as this is your golden age.

emmaodet:



Advance, you sure say you go enter heaven this Sunday so?

Baba.....no vex oo..I nor wan go hell fire oooo

The thing be say I don't have any tolerance for bullsh!t.... How person wey suppose be my team player, my number one fan, dey threaten me everyday with divorce, dey rob me of my peace......na w!tchcraft be that naaa!!

Maybe she has tasted another dïk outside

You have got one job when you are ready for marriage: Be the right person and find the right person that fits in.

Sonnobax15:

Bro,the bitter truth is that your wife has left you emotionally....

Like since 1944, I don't know why men are so dull, they can't read words and behavior, even the Bible said "out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh".
A woman that loves you will never ever ever threaten you with divorce or leaving if things go bad.
If you once dated a girl wey really love you, you go know all these things.

Bro I hope you dey use hakimi policy kick her out cause very soon she will start cheating that is if not already

Negroid001:
You used money to convince a woman to marry you, what are you expecting?

Hmm.

Starz825:
You have got one job when you are ready for marriage: Be the right person and find the right person that fits in.

If only it were that simple, ie, knowing that person is the 'right' one from the beginning.

Thank God I no get this kain problem.


Baba modupe 🙏🏾🙏🏾