NewStats: 3,264,043 , 8,182,405 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 12:15 PM t2i1r

Kelvin247Gold:


To cut the long story short, let her leave. She's determined to leave. You don't beg a woman to stay in a marriage. She will learn her lesson wherever she goes.

And she will learn it the hard way, wishing she could turn back the hands of time, this is a fact that can never be erased.

She has a man outside given to by her freiends.. do findings you go see say I no lie.

goran3310:



You see, unlike him, I went through the exact same thing he did. Identical. But I endured it all for a long time until the children grew up. And then I finally got divorced. Now, from this point of view, I can responsibly say that the children weren't worth it.

WoW. Please indulge me for a minute and explain what you mean by the children weren't worth it.

Do you mean staying with wifey for the sake of the children wasn't worth it or the children themselves weren't worth having in the first place or worth the stress you had to endure?

No criticism or judgments here, just honest curiosity.

Send her packing next time she mentions it.

Actively move her out.

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Comparing you to other men Guy just link her phone to yours. Evidence go full ground. I bet you will divorce her before daybreak.
Water has ed under your bridge. Sorry to burst your bubbles. How are u sure that kid is yours?

You lavished her with luxuries.
Meaning,,,, she followed you because of your offering and as you're/ were the highest bidder then, not because she loves you.
Now that those luxuries are no longer coming forth.. she wants exit and look for another highest bidder.
This is what happens, when you use money/luxuries to lure/win woman's heart.
They'll stay with you as far as you're providing but what happens when the fortune is no longer there....

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

You better leave that marriage before you go die for nothing. No need for long epistle, file for divorce and make arrangements on how to take care of your child. No dey there dey waste time till you kpai. The red flags are more than can be imagined.

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

All i can say is that you didn't marry your wife. She is not yours if i am to go by the story you shared.

Oga run for ur dear life. She is sent to wreck u. I was in such marriage, rendered me low out from much. Am just recuperating since last year. Her mission to u is completed so she seeks way out.
Next union u will have is to test a lady with low mentality not high. They r real genuine ladies and girls but evil move faster than good. Plz take ur time as am doing now!

Double0h7:
This is the place marriages come to die! Not a single person advised to try to keep the family together. Nobody giving op solutions to correct her behaviour and his enabling behaviour. If op follows all these people, another one bites the dust! So many broken homes. So many single parents and abandoned children.

Hear this today, gone are the days

Any spouse that do anyhow will collect wotowoto

I am not yet married but if I marry a girl and she starts this kind of behavior.. or else if I am a bastdd will she not collect wotowoto… she will go back to the streets.
And yes, as a man, we have our god given privilege… like it or not, a man will always be okay… even at 50, a man will still find a younger and finer woman

Even if he stays unmarried, a man will continue to chop life… go and check single mothers and so called independent women… they act happy and tough in public, they may even have money to go on vacations and take beautiful pictures, but they will always return home lonely and cry bitterly on their beds

Double0h7:




So men are leaders only when it suits them?

Is the ship not his?

Why wouldn't he fix it when his seed is on board the ship?

An honourable captain goes down with his ship!

Fix it ? Who told you the ship have fault? It is the crewman that is causing problems on the ships. The problem is with the crewman not the captain or the ship.

If there's a crewman that is not complying with the orders of the captain and always in opposition and rebellion, the captain will evict the crewman if the crewman refuse to surrender and comply not to even talk of a crew man that is threatening to leave on his/her own accord.

The problem with you women is you are too emotional, you won't tell the truth because you think as if you are the woman in the situation. You want a guy that will keep pandering to your feelings but a guy that say fvck it all and end everything is your nemesis. The odd of the lady getting another man to even marry is very low, she will only become plaything for randy men that will fvck and dump her till she become old and useless, why convince such a lady heading to her own doom lol? At least when her body and toto can't help she will learn how to work and hustle without being a big liability.

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

You enabled her. You were busy spending on her throwing money here and there like the real odogwu, u didn't even take note of core values a woman should possess but you go carry club girl, wetin u expect from a club type of girl....

For the fact your spouse compares you with other men means she has started sampling dicks outside.
Don't allow a woman to give you BP at your tender age.
You are in best position to decide your future.
Best of luck.

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Should I tell you the truth? You can't leave her. Since you didn't do enough home work pre-marriage, you have to do that in the marriage. Do you know the meaning of HUSBAND? Have you heard about this word, "HUSBANDARY" in agriculture? You are a HUSBAND MAN. A TENDER OF A GARDEN. She is your garden. You tend her to become who you want. A desirable vine. It is not an easy task. God instructed Adam to tend and keep the garden but he failed, blaming the woman. You could be the problem if you look closely.

However, you said last year you made about 20M and you can't for it? Are you kidding me? Bro, look inward. I do not know how old your marriage is, but I can sense someone who has not known the marriage acts. Woman will give you trouble if you do not know how to live with her in wisdom according to the Scripture. Look inward first. Something is wrong with your modus operandi.

Lastly, are you born again? Do you have the HOLY SPIRIT. That institution was designed by Him, and it gets messy without Him because even those who knows Him still struggle with it, some even break theirs because of lack of knowledge from either one party or both parties. That is why the code for marriage success is ONENESS. If this is lacking, collapse is inevitable.

So, my conclusion is, look inward-out. Remain blessed!

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Don't start what you cannot finish.

You started out treating her like a princess now you want to switch up on her. Do you know anything about women?

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Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Simple

Omoawoke:
Two people are bound to suffer in this life

Simps and Feminsits

Op, I don’t pity you at all!

You went after an unambitious girl that is materialistic and you felt you can always make enough to take care of all the bills at home

Now reality has sent in, all her fine girl is empty….

Na you wan marry social girl and prom queen…

Well said man
Simps will not learn.
Stop trying to domesticate a wild animal and stop turning public property to a personal property.

What belongs to the community should be kept for the community. Not every lady deserves marriage

If I am you, I will look for her trouble this evening and tempt her to say she want to leave, then I will help her pack her bag immediately. I will make sure she doesn't return. Also, are you sure you are not the one causing her serious trouble? If not, brother, let her go tonight.

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Omoawoke:


Omoh, bad wives dey this life oo


Now all the girls single will be crying on top someone neck to marry them

I have so many girls on my neck, crying and doing the nicest things just to get a ring from me…. So na like this most of them end up…
You will see them with pretty faces and sexy shapes, but na wickedness dey their mind…

Be careful o
Those fake and desparate ones are the ones forming good girls before your eyes.

These ladies are very funny. The believe there are 2 set of men - the ones they flex and jump around with and the ones the will settle down with and the latter are considered the weak men

I don’t want to go into blames but i think you didn’t observe her properly before settling for her. This feelings of wanting to leave has been there throughout your dating period you probably didn’t just pay attention but thats aside.

Sir once a woman wants out nothing you do will make her stay relax your nerves the truth is you even make enough to let a good and responsible woman that will contribute to your success stay with you.


Thank your God she requested for it please do everything in your power for her to go else you won’t be happy in that marriage no matter how much you make.[/b][i][/i]

OZIOGU1:
Una dey try ooo, una sabi take rubbish, so person wey no dey pay bills dey threaten person wey dey pay bills? Nawa

Boss he shock you?? God forbid bad thing, Omo…some men Dey tolerate sha.

Unmarried men please take note.

One of the most important decision you will ever make in this life is the woman you chose to marry.

That decision should not be taken with baby gloves.

Vetting,cross-checking,observation amongst other metric is a must. Don't go and marry because society is putting pressure on you to marry. The same society won't rescue you when problem arise.

In this Era across the globe, most men are coming to the realization that marriage is not even beneficial to a man.

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

please and please if you'll hear leave that marriage immediately and never look back,, don't even try settling the issues, build your reasons on her threats n stand by it,

Blitzking:

Not really just curious that a job that gives 20million naira should be able to still deliver except its not a job that gave the money but a one time hit

I seconded
It's probably a one time hit... Na that thing wey u dey think I dey think too 😆😁

lymelyte:
Unmarried men please take note.

One of the most important decision you will ever make in this life is the woman you chose to marry.

That decision should not be taken with a kid Glove.

Vetting,cross-checking,observation is a must. Don't go and marry because society is putting pressure on you to marry. The same society won't rescue you when problem arise.

In this Era across the globe, most men are coming to the realization that marriage is not even beneficial to a man.

Thank you for this
Recently i was doing a survey on how most men begin to dry up after marriage and the woman will be shinning with the kids while the provider is continually on the decline.

It's better to end it in peace than in pieces
Men should be more careful with women this days, heard similar story too and I know so many are battling the same thing out there ..
Don't try to fight her no matter what but be watchful and take good care of yourself

No over thinking about it
like some has said ask her very well if she is still interested in leaving get a lawyer then and do the needful live na 1 no photocopy or carry over in life

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

you don use gf do wife. She doesn't love you please let her dig her own grave

Do away with her before her family accuse u of wanting to use her for money ritual.


This is the problem I'm currently facing

She's JOBLESS, common pepper, salt etc are all being provided by me.

She ruined the businesses (3) I set up for her

Now they are threatening me not to ask after the children. I'm not allowed to speak with them. I have gone to their family house in IBADAN 5 times and I was not allowed to c the children.

To make the matter worst, THEY ACCUSED ME OF MONEY RITUAL. I RECORDED the call conversation.

They accused of using love potion. Pls, who use love potion to ATTRACT a low life? Is she a Minister's daughter? Why will I use love potion to ATTRACT POVERTY to myself?

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

U married a baddie slay queen. God help u

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

You're the only one left in that marriage;your so-called wife has left long time ago! The ball is in your court if you still want to remain there!

Good luck!

Anyone who do not appreciate his/her spouse but always compare with others are time bomb! Beware and apply caution.

Broken home is not good at all though! Especially for the kid(s)

advanceDNA:


.guy....na their way be that for you...
.they always over estimate their worth in a relationship, believing they are doing you a favour by being with you.....

All I see is......she's just playing with leverage that she doesn't even know how little she has

Her case even funny.....Person wey nor fit pay bills dey threaten who dey feed her with divorce!!

Oga....get lawyer make he serve her document ....sign am..give am make she sign

One of the two will happen..
1)Dem nor born am well make she sign am..... Na cry she go cry....come add victim game

2) pride will make her sign..and u may meet in court....u don free be that

Baba...no let any body rob u of ur peace ooo
be selfish and ruthless about your peace of mind

that lady will never sign divorce document. She's only baiting him to get more money for her golden lifestyle.