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Former Big Brother Naija housemate Doyin David has addressed the tendency of some men to s3xualise women upon first meeting them, focusing on physical attraction without seeking to understand them as individuals.

During a recent appearance on the dating-focused talk show ‘Thanks For Coming’, hosted by Grand Prince Ita, Doyin stressed that while s3x is important, she is a complete person beyond her physicality.

“Most times when a guy meets a girl, it’s very easy for them to s3xualise her. What’s s3x going to look like with this person, without getting to know the person. S3x is important to me, but I’m a whole human being outside of my vagina,” she said.

Doyin also discussed the challenges of dating in Nigeria, describing it as highly stressful for both genders and noting that she hasn’t gone out on a date for several months due to these difficulties.

“It’s been a minute, to be honest. A couple of months ago. Dating in Nigeria these days is an extreme sport. It’s hectic,” she said.

She added that she remains open to emotional vulnerability and submission but only for a partner who truly earns it.

“I will be submissive for the right man,” Doyin said.

Speaking of her ideal partner, Doyin highlighted the importance of a man who listens actively and adjusts his behavior based on her concerns, viewing these traits as key indicators of a strong relationship.

https://thenationonlineng.net/reality-star-doyin-criticises-men-who-s3xualise-women/

Motivational speaker 🔊🔇 Osan gangan
She talking from experience
Weytinz men do used her eyes c

Her frustration is valid, but she is also very, very foolish. Yes, men reduce women to their physical appearance at first glance, which is understandable since you have to tell them or show them what they’re not seeing—and it ends there. But what she, just like every other woman, often leaves unexamined is that the culture women criticize is also one they help construct.

If you invite 20 celebrities to an event, 10 men and 10 women. The men will come nicely or weirdly dressed. The women will wear expensive clothes that covered everywhere except the places clothes where originally meant to cover, the two decently dressed women will cheer them on and snap them for us at home to see.

We now live in an era where empowerment is often expressed through hypersexualized imagery. While everyone has the right to bodily autonomy, we can’t ignore the contradictions: the same platforms where women demand to be seen as more than their bodies are often the very ones where many self-objectify for attention, monetization, or validation.

Religion teaches that modesty isn’t oppression; it’s intentional dignity. Philosophy reminds us that freedom without restraint collapses into chaos. Academically, we know objectification is a two-way transaction: it requires both the objectifier and the one willingly objectified.

So yes, women are more than their bodies. But ability requires examining how they present themselves to the world as much as how the world perceives them. You can’t wear a costume and be angry that you’re cast in a role. If you want a culture that sees the whole woman, you must help build one that honors her whole image—mind, body, and spirit.

Women sexualize each other, men and themselves more than any man can. She never wise, na why she never find out.

Okay

You love being sexualized though

Nor be vice versa? Them dey call am abi na vice principal sef?

I blame men that believe, agree or take what women say serious.
Reason why i can never watch women podcast.
I rather spend 20 hours watching mickey mouse on repeat than sit down and listen to women.

Why?

Because women themselves DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
I have seen women talk A and in the same day do B.
A babe was giving me head and i checked out her Twitter
Her latest post was shaming men as only wanting s3x and how she hates guys that request for sex on first date.
Imagine reading all her feminist post while i stare at her giving me a sloppy toppy with full saliva.

I really really pity men that take what women say serious.

I think it's both ways.
Women showcase themselves as objects to be sexualized & willing men oblige.

Much like displaying Oranges for sale, & customers pricing.

Good

Make I no talk

they go on podcasts chanting no money no love and when it gets dawn on them they change topic so fast forgetting that d internet never forgets

Women are not forced to dress almost naked. Instagram is filled with girls posting almost naked videos inviting men to sexualize then. Talk to the girls not men.

What would she say about women that put billing

Few days ago one even call me stingy becos I no give am money


Nto ette if she charges u Kwoq biat

This is ridiculous!
No one sexualizes women more than women themselves.
Just look at social media, you’ll see countless girls and women posting provocative content, yet the moment a man responds in a sexual way, they act like victims.

It’s the same as men who attract gold diggers by flaunting wealth and then complain when women expect them to spend. If women openly sexualize themselves, they shouldn’t be surprised or angry when men react accordingly.

Instead of blaming men, their frustration should be directed at other women.
Seriously, who’s the one posting videos shaking their breasts and backsides online? It’s not men!

Na podcast dey cause all dis nonsense talk. If she really serious sey she wan be advocate for women make she start to dey tell her colleagues wey dey post sexual content first, na dat time we go take her seriously.

And About the Ladies that Do starts demanding money Immediately U meet them ...

Stale

Women sexualize themselves not men sexualizing women. Gaslighting men is old school, and men are not playing those games anymore. Some call it red pill, i call it common sense.

What does that even mean

Plenty grammar, untop nacking, women sexualize too, you know how many, I have seen?abegi

I guess it all bows down to understanding between the 2 parties and ways to deal with it, In a way it will benefits the both, but come to think of it isn't the females in bbn or nollywood put sexualization and money at the same level.

Tallesty1:
Her frustration is valid, but she is also very, very foolish. Yes, men reduce women to their physical appearance at first glance, which is understandable since you have to tell them or show them what they’re not seeing—and it ends there. But what she, just like every other woman, often leaves unexamined is that the culture women criticize is also one they help construct.

If you invite 20 celebrities to an event, 10 men and 10 women. The men will come nicely or weirdly dressed. The women will wear expensive clothes that covered everywhere except the places clothes where originally meant to cover, the two decently dressed women will cheer them on and snap them for us at home to see.

We now live in an era where empowerment is often expressed through hypersexualized imagery. While everyone has the right to bodily autonomy, we can’t ignore the contradictions: the same platforms where women demand to be seen as more than their bodies are often the very ones where many self-objectify for attention, monetization, or validation.

Religion teaches that modesty isn’t oppression; it’s intentional dignity. Philosophy reminds us that freedom without restraint collapses into chaos. Academically, we know objectification is a two-way transaction: it requires both the objectifier and the one willingly objectified.

So yes, women are more than their bodies. But ability requires examining how they present themselves to the world as much as how the world perceives them. You can’t wear a costume and be angry that you’re cast in a role. If you want a culture that sees the whole woman, you must help build one that honors her whole image—mind, body, and spirit.

Thank you for this bro, very well said

Women always want to eat their cakes and still have it, they are always the first to sexualize themselves by baring cleavages and bums everywhere for men to see

You dress almost naked on the street but gets angry when men stares! No be juju be that?

Who is sexualise women? Or women see feminine power in seduction.

They dress provocative and still want men to act normal with them. Don't you know you are awakening a lieing trouble

Some of your gender na dem sef dey cause am wey men dey sexualize women

I don't want to say what's on my mind

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Nobody will.sexualize you if to an extent you have not given away.such energy. Many ladiies like hugging clothes to show off the properties, look at themselves 11 times in the mirror..turning round about as many times then come outside and pretent they dont know why ..what is going on? You cannot come to me looking like okonjo iweala or obi ekwesili and what am thinking is sex.


I see many of them this days going to gym with tight pants. I know its to show off some yansh. Na them kit up . But go to gym and see them...them just de one side de press phone.

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So what is she going to say about women sexualizing themselves.. Or its the usual selective outrage / criticism as usual to trend. The wife abi husband of the French president was caught live assaulting the president and i didnt hear pim from any fake feminist. If the reverse was the case, we wouldn't have heard the last of it. Abeg make una carry una hypocrisy and double standard enter fridge..

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All these big brother ppl wey we no dey know