NewStats: 3,263,914 , 8,181,873 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 06:33 PM 5q2o3h

koladata:
Yes i sleep around 8pm every day , if you find me awake at 10pm it means i'm doing something very very important and i have to force my self to be awake around this time. But i do wake early so its almost the same thing, most people get around 6hours of sleep every day and wake around 6 or 7am . I do sleep around 8 sometimes 7pm and wake around 1 or 2am. But maximum time you would likely find me awake is 10pm

same thing i do, people always think I am weird so I don't even tell people again, if you call me I will not be available to pick your calls as I already slept off to wake up 1:AM

KayCee92:


What bad habits are these please?

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She doesn't apologise and will never own up whenever she does something wrong
She doesn't show respect

Let not say much

Sporty betting ruins my life, took me from hero to zero among family and friends. I have stop now. I'm gradually recovering from thev damages it has brought into my life.

[She gree u do doggy quote author=ufotty2001 post=135571965]Marrying a religious woman is my biggest regret in life.[/quote]

[I still play but I don't forecast. Anytime I have free 5000 naira I play what others predict. I cannot trouble my brainquote author=hurlar2014 post=135584454]Sporty betting ruins my life, took me from hero to zero among family and friends. I have stop now. I'm gradually recovering from thev damages it has brought into my life. [/quote]

Poverty is a disease , only phone you bought for a lady you are calling her broke, you even bought it in credit,

I keep saying this only senseless girls should date a broke guy, it is your duty to provide for your woman, go and hustle if you are broke .

Some men have taken their wife and the wife family out of poverty , some have built house s for their mother in-law, I know a guy that sent his wife abroad the wife took her mother and almost all her siblings ,

The guy raised his woman and her family out of poverty


Instead of you to go and pray for prosperity so you can be a blessing to your woman and her family you are here talking rubbish.

EndRape2:
Poverty is a disease , only phone you bought for a lady you are calling her broke, you even bought it in credit,

I keep saying this only senseless girls should date a broke guy, it is your duty to provide for your woman, go and hustle if you are broke .

Na men when no get standard dey date hungry gals like you.as a gal,you shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't take care of your needs.relationship is not a job.go and get a job and don't rely on men for survival.

EndRape2:
Some men have taken their wife and the wife family out of poverty , some have built house s for their mother in-law, I know a guy that sent his wife abroad the wife took her mother and almost all her siblings ,

The guy raised his woman and her family out of poverty


Instead of you to go and pray for prosperity so you can be a blessing to your woman and her family you are here talking rubbish.

dey there dey wait for man when go come remove you from generational poverty.You go cry no worry. You get two hands,two legs with a functional brain still dey look for slave when go dey work dey serve you.I blame foolish men making useless gals relevant and entitled.

3kay945:


That is simple na, try pharmacy then.. far away from your hood. Use face cap or dark glasses.

Na your money they need and not to judge you.

Thanks for the advice

3kay945:


Go see a pharmacist at a big pharmacy. If you don't want to go to hospital

Okay, thanks

hartson:
You have to know the exact STD before I tell you what to do.Go run a verifiable test first

Ok sir

lordwoz:
you will speak with doctor na , not with everyone, then he/she will prescribe drugs...hospital is mainly for sick people, so most people there have something worse than you, so don't send anybody, you are not going there to look for girlfriend

Thank you

Thanks for all the advise I don read reach here.

What I'll say on my own part is discover yourself by this I mean, understand what you want out of life, seek out ways to achieve it and never settle for less until you get it: by legal means ooo.

I won't say I have regrets, I've made the best with what I know and so no regrets but learnt lessons. I've always been ionate about competence, growth, development and continuous learning right from my teenage years.

Lastly plan like your life depends on it but more importantly put God even after thorough preparedness. Peace

gentlegenius:


HND or BSC... What difference does it make in today's Nigeria?
Except you are pursuing a career in Teaching/Lecturing, I tell you sincerely that You didn't make any mistake by going for HND, neither are you correcting any mistake by doing BSC.
The world has changed and even our country has got worse... There are many master degree holders with no meaningful job. There are PHD holders working for people that has no certificate.
I am a graduate with HND, after 13 years without a job, I had to go and learn a trade. Now I got a job through the trade I learned, not with my certificate.
Guess what...
The guy that trained me(crane operator), is an (academic) illiterate. But he has worked for two big companies... Presently, he earn close to 900k a month.

My greatest mistake in life is going to higher institution... Without learning a good trade earlier in life.

, [color=#006600][/color] Good afternoon sir & Happy New Month (Happy Sunday) I want to learn Crane Operating, I will be so glad if you can link me with someone who can train me. My life depends on this part… please Boss

I can not cry in Jesus name, besides you have no knowledge of the person talking to you, the poorest person in my family is a richer than the regular chest person to n your family , unfortunately my brother's got married and took their wives abroad, my sister's hot married and even bought good cars for their men.
I just hate it when broke guys that should be hustling to make luf better for their partners are busy talking trash
Your wife is your responsibility go and work to make life better for her, don't be a mediocre.


Not all girls condensing broke guys like you are broke or from a broke home,

I contribute 50 percent financial in my homes.

So go and break the poverty in your generation,so that you can stop crying on social media.
Obi cubuna gave his wife 50 million during her birthday celebration, sponsor her master abroad, sent 3 of her family abroad.

Continue to be useless on Nairaland claiming Alpha male , Davido is the person carrying Chioma his wife , round the worlld


With your 10 naira you are here shouting do not marry a woman from a broke home
Continue

I've never met a lady who earns a decent use the whole poverty thing to bash men. The ones who have a good job or a decent business usually don't talk that way. You are likely a poor lady who needs men's money to take care of her basic needs.... it is damn obvious in your comments.

EndRape2:
Poverty is a disease , only phone you bought for a lady you are calling her broke, you even bought it in credit,

I keep saying this only senseless girls should date a broke guy, it is your duty to provide for your woman, go and hustle if you are broke .

ufotty2001:

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves.

A lot of women share this mindset, it's not a good one but you shouldn't have allowed it lead to a break up

moneyissweet:
Never sell your car even at point of death

Can you explain better?

NEIGHBOUR:
I lost my job while my children were still in the universities and I sold my house in order to fund their education.( Public and Private Universities).
Now a tenant for years and unable to build another one again. Age is also not on my side, but God is still very faithful.

You shouldn’t have done that.

Ganjafama:
Why?

I'm not earning from my lexical skills.

Hahnemann:


A lot of women share this mindset, it's not a good one but you shouldn't have allowed it lead to a break up

e reach to break up with her...Woman when believe her pastor more than her husband na red flag ...such women easily sleep with their pastors. Many things dey sup behind the scene my brother.

I have read through all the posts and no one mentioned depression and the damages it can cause. I consider this the worst mistake or regret of my life.
I experienced a stage of depression early this year that I later researched to be the "self destructive stage". You all may have heard about people cutting themselves to bleed just to feel better. Yeah that's it. But mine was bad.
Long story short, nothing interested me I needed to feel hurt and alive. So I took all of my savings 35m put it in a random trade with hopes to loose. Tried those for three days consecutively and never lost and in the fourth day I went all in again and lost it all.
My eyes opened and I felt the pain but no it didn't end there.
The next thought was "now you have lost it all, there is no need living.. It's better you end it". Suicidal thoughts came strongly. I fought it and till now I just float.

I know many people are not familiar with this stage of depression and most people will say it is village people and stuff. However, you can Google it.
Lastly, if anyone has experienced any thing like this please quote. I will like to hear your story especially how you bounced back.

ufotty2001:

Exactly what am ing through.. I saw a lady and marry her without due diligence

Same here oga...
The family na wack,
She herself wan carry low self esteem injure my life

If you have a car and you a broke. Never you ever sell that car to pay your bills or anything .you can sell any other properties to help yourself but don’t ever sell your car.if you do that then you will see how worthless and useless you will become.

yommysure:





Can you explain better?

Never form the habit of recharging airtime from your bank .
I've learnt my lessons cuz I could spend 5k in a single day.

Now I only buy paper cards

Uteghe:

I'm not earning from my lexical skills.

There's nothing to regret about that.

79733139:
I've never met a lady who earns a decent use the whole poverty thing to bash men. The ones who have a good job or a decent business usually don't talk that way. You are likely a poor lady who needs men's money to take care of her basic needs.... it is damn obvious in your comments.




Lol, my dear by the grace of God , I give God praise , I will feed a nation , since I was I have always taken care of all my needs , and I will constantly , and gladly do it. Not all girls are broke like the type of girls you date ,so shut up.

Go and pray for God to bless you and give you financial breakthrough. So that you will not come to social media disgracing your generation, because you bought phone on credit for a girl


I dislike poverty stricken guys that always try to insult ladies even without spending .

;Dtoo much confusion don dey like dis >: :-

KayCee92:



Omo, advice come plenty. Some say Marry when there is enough funds, others say marry even if the fund isn't enough. We come tire. Which do we follow. Which do we take

ufotty2001:

they can't think by themselves, they believe on their pastors than husband, they always believe that there is something negative that is chasing them, they don't believe on themselves. If you are a man full of ambitions they will destroy it..

Everything you said is 100% correct. Confirmation of my thoughts.

Wow.

Thats great.

I appreciate your response.

hartson:
Don't mind that dude.He should even be thankful he had HND.B.Sc or HND degree is a paper qualification.A business guy I know had HND he got an exemption letter when he was called up for NYSC ventured into buying and selling foodstuffs.Today the guy is counting in millions.