NewStats: 3,263,898 , 8,181,802 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 04:40 PM 4f1g4l

q6w2h

Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid - Health (4) - Nairaland p685h

Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid (24888 Views)

(4)

Go Down)

Kobojunkie: 1:19pm On Jun 04
TenQ:
โžœI quoted a journal of Medical science, they arent my words
stimates. By age 35, that number increases to 60%.[/b] Black women are also two to three times more likely to have recurring fibroids or suffer from complications
https://www.michiganmedicine.org/health-lab/understanding-racial-disparities-women-uterine-fibroids
You didn't quote what it said. Rather, you twisted what it said. undecided
Kobojunkie: 1:24pm On Jun 04
freakyavia:
โžœthere are several issues that occur during such times early menopause is also an issue โžœbut he is raising awareness for fibroid if the message is not for you ignore
Nonsense! Awon "a girl child is a womb and nothing more". ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Early menopause can happen to teenagers, so will you get your baby girl pregnant before she becomes a teenager? ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

To raise awareness, one is expected to do so ethically, not lie to manipulate people into doing what is against their interest. undecided

1 Like

Kobojunkie: 1:26pm On Jun 04
Afonja007:
fibroid is rampant with black women from 22years
So, rather than pursue treatment, we should force black women into having all their children before age 22, abi? angry angry angry

Also, many women who are completely done with childbearing still go on to develop fibroids. Do you pretend then that since such they have had all the kids they wants, they do not require or deserve treatment? Nonsense! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

3 Likes

Kobojunkie: 1:29pm On Jun 04
Schprobs:
โžœโžœ Itโ€™s still doesnโ€™t change the fact Fibroid are common in woman between the ages. Of 30 upwards
โžœGoan fight with the creator
1. Fibroids are common is no reason to scare women with it. Many women can have children even with fibroids, and many more can resume childbearing after the removal of fibroids. They are not a death sentence or an end to childbearing. undecided

Also, many women who are completely done with childbearing still go on to develop fibroids. Do you pretend that since she has had all the kids she wants, she does not deserve treatment? Nonsense! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Fight with whom? So, Oyinbo wey don instead pursue treatment to allow their woman to have continued freedom to focus on their interests are what... fighting this your creator? Nonsense and Eegridient! undecided

TenQ: 1:30pm On Jun 04
Kobojunkie:
You didn't quote what it said. Rather, you twisted what it said. undecided
?
Kobojunkie: 1:31pm On Jun 04
dettolgel:
โžœI am not a medical doctor and I can see the bullshit in his ascertion. Like you rightly pointed out he is far from being a professional.
Infact the delay of child bearing amongst women are common in the west, by his logic the prevalence of fibroid should be higher in the western world.
Thank you! And we all know that ain't even close to being the case at all. undecided undecided

1 Like

Kobojunkie: 1:32pm On Jun 04
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
โžœSo do you agree that fibroid can limit a woman's ability to conceive, cause miscarriage, pre term labour, restrict foetal growth, cause placental abruption, increase risk of post partum hemorrhage, or you are completely bent on being smart by half?
Fibroids can be removed, and many women can resume childbearing right after that. undecided

Also, many women who are completely done with childbearing still go on to develop fibroids. Do you pretend that since she has had all the kids she wants, she does not deserve treatment? Nonsense! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Kobojunkie: 1:33pm On Jun 04
twilliamx:
โžœChild birth reduces the risk
IT DOES NOT!

Many women who are completely done with childbearing still go on to develop fibroids. Do you pretend that since she has had all the kids she wants, she does not deserve treatment? Nonsense! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„
Kobojunkie: 1:35pm On Jun 04
dapadawee:
โžœAm a sonographer and what he said is 89% correct. Late marriage is disasters for women
Stop lying! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Fibroids happen in many women, regardless of whether they have had children or not. The answer is not to marry them off early because that will not stop fibroids from eventually growing. Many women who are completely done with childbearing still go on to develop fibroids. Do you pretend that since she has had all the kids she wants, she does not deserve treatment? Nonsense! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

The solution is to have treatment available so they can continue living their livesโ€” and having kids if they desireโ€” if and when fibroids show up. undecided

Omoawoke(m): 1:42pm On Jun 04
Kobojunkie:
Abeg, Get lost! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Who gave this one his certificate and made him a doctor abeg! All these quarks calling themselves doctors and experts. undecided

After you are done grabbing him, beating him and bitting himโ€ฆ
Next is to sue Nature and ask why it favors men over women in the wait game

But nevertheless, we know the wait game favor men, but itโ€™s not something to be throwing in the faces of women. I really feel women should not be dragged or shamed for not marrying early, it doesnโ€™t just make sense
Tallesty1(m): 2:14pm On Jun 04
Samantha125:
Increases which risk? Because I know some women who started having issues with fibroids as early as their late teens and early 20s...๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™€๏ธ

That doctor doesn't know what he's talking about.
Man A: Car accidents claim roughly 1.20 million lives every year.

Man B: Thatโ€™s not true, my uncleโ€™s been in two accidents and heโ€™s still alive. ๐Ÿ˜‚


Please don't be a Man B dear Samantha.

2 Likes

Kobojunkie: 2:16pm On Jun 04
TenQ:
โžœ?
There is no either...or... relationship that exists between having fibroids and having children, since women who are done with childbearing could still develop fibroids in their later years. Also, when fibroids become an obstruction to pregnancy, they can be removed, with many women safely able to resume childbearing afterwards. undecided

Tallesty1(m): 2:28pm On Jun 04
IamMobisola:

Some of you talk out of sheer ignorance.

There are lots of ladies below 25years of age with fibroids. Go talk to a doctor you know and let them educate you properly.

If a lady in her 20s goes into marriage without being financially stable herself, you same lots will abuse such ladies saying they are gold diggers and liabilities.

Such ignorance
The average height of a Nigerian man is 171 cm. I am a little above 190 cmโ€”does that mean Iโ€™m not Nigerian?


The number of Nigerians who do not understand the rules of exceptions and nuance is really disturbing.

Fact: Women in their teens and early 20s can have fibroid.

Fact: Fibroid is common amongst women in their mid-30s upwards.

Fact: Delayed in childbearing increases the risk of fibroids.

Fact: Child bearing reduces the risk.

Be smart and acknowledgment that several truths can coexist.

2 Likes 1 Share

Samantha125(f): 2:31pm On Jun 04
I don't get you...๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™€๏ธ
Tallesty1:
Man A: Car accidents claim roughly 1.20 million lives every year.

Man B: Thatโ€™s not true, my uncleโ€™s been in two accidents and heโ€™s still alive. ๐Ÿ˜‚


Please don't be a Man B dear Samantha.
Tallesty1(m): 2:39pm On Jun 04
Samantha125:
I don't get you...๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™€๏ธ
Accidents claim millions of lives every yearโ€”yet millions survive them.

In the same way, knowing women in their 20s with fibroids doesn't negate the medical reality that delayed childbearing increases the risk of fibroids.

1 Like

freakyavia: 2:55pm On Jun 04
Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Awon, a girl child is a womb and nothing more. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Early menopause can happen to teenagers, so will you get your baby girl pregnant before she becomes a teenager? ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

To raise awareness, one is expected to do so ethically, not lie to manipulate people into doing what is against their interest. undecided

toor suit yourself the Yoruba are born with an insert need to curse when things are not going their way so am not surprised by you approach
tanigororo: 3:27pm On Jun 04
pocohantas:
Nigerian men and confusion. The same people insulting women for entering marriages with N5000. The same people complaining that they are being married for poverty alleviation.

I don't pity many of you when you end up with the wrong women. It is what you deserve.
Wives that use you to time.
I love what you posted up their, but you are getting it all wrong.
Who do you think is on the loosing end?
Samantha125(f): 3:39pm On Jun 04
I still stand by my words by saying any woman can have fibroids at any age... You'll be shocked by the number of young women in their 20s facing the same issue.

And fibroids don't necessarily prevent women from procreating, with the right medical care, they'd still be able to have as many children as they want... I personally know someone who's been battling fibroids since her early 20s, but was still able to have two healthy kids.
Tallesty1:
Accidents claim millions of lives every yearโ€”yet millions survive them.

In the same way, knowing women in their 20s with fibroids doesn't negate the medical reality that delayed childbearing increases the risk of fibroids.

1 Like

Tallesty1(m): 3:46pm On Jun 04
Samantha125:
I still stand by my words by saying any woman can have fibroids at any age... You'll be shocked by the number of young women in their 20s facing the same issue.

And fibroids don't necessarily prevent women from procreating, with the right medical care, they'd still be able to have as many children as they want... I personally know someone who's been battling fibroids since her early 20s, but was still able to have two healthy kids.
Omo ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚
dapadawee: 3:50pm On Jun 04
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Fibroids happen in many women, regardless of whether they have had children or not. The answer is not to marry them off early because that will not stop fibroids from eventually growing. Many women who are completely done with childbearing still go on to develop fibroids. Do you pretend that since she has had all the kids she wants, she does not deserve treatment? Nonsense! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

The solution is to have treatment available so they can continue living their livesโ€” and having kids if they desireโ€” if and when fibroids show up. undecided
You want to belong but lack the initiation knowledg.
No treatment for fibroids only surgical procedure can remove fibroids, that's your number one blunder.
Let me educate you. Even after removing fibroids through surgical procedure the chance of growing back is very high.
Lastly the chance of you having growing fibroids after delivering all your children is very low.

My response to your nonsense.
We are not stopping fibroids because all women have fibroid we are saying to avoid story that you will later regret it is better to marry and give birth early so that fibroid will not take over your entire uterus

2 Likes

Kobojunkie: 4:00pm On Jun 04
dapadawee:
โžœYou want to belong but lack the initiation knowledge. No treatment for fibroids only surgical procedure can remove fibroids, that's your number one blunder. Let me educate you. Even after removing fibroids through surgical procedure the chance of growing back is very high.
โžœ Lastly the chance of you having growing fibroids after delivering all your children is very low.
โžœ My response to your nonsense.We are not stopping fibroids because all women have fibroid we are saying to avoid story that you will later regret it is better to marry and give birth early so that fibroid will not take over your entire uterus
1. Look up the meaning of the word "treatment" next time before posting what amounts to mental farts.

2. Also, try to state the facts, not twist them.
Yes, having children (childbearing) is associated with a lower risk of developing uterine fibroids. This is because pregnancy and the postpartum period can cause fibroids to shrink or even disappear. Researchers from the National Institutes of Health found that in one study, 36% of fibroids identified before pregnancy were no longer detectable after delivery.

3. Nonsense! . ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„
Uterine fibroids are a significant public health concern in Nigeria, with a higher prevalence among Black women compared to Caucasians. Studies have shown that the incidence of fibroids in Nigeria can range from 17.9% to 26%, significantly higher than in Europe and the United States, where it's reported to be 5-11%.
Following your assertions, shouldn't it follow that women in Nigeria would suffer fibroids less than those in the West, where late marriages are considered the norm? ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„
Wisfem: 4:15pm On Jun 04
Kobojunkie:
Research the topic of fibroids to learn why I consider him a quark for trying to use it to guilt women into doing that which is clearly against their own interest. ๐Ÿค”



And this is clearly misleading, did he rape the woman, did he make any form of sexual Advancement? A doctor is giving you lectures and you are talking about quark, What do you know about the idiopathic state of leimyomas? So tell me your argument, what are the risk factors for fibroids or leiomyomas? This Awkward phobia of Doctor trying to scam, you can believe Herbalist but you can't believe scientifically advanced trained personnels??
Faposky95: 4:16pm On Jun 04
Kobojunkie:
Abeg, Get lost! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Who gave this one his certificate and made him a doctor abeg! All these quarks calling themselves doctors and experts. undecided

The viper like quote....
Once it's about the other sex.... that's what we get.....?

Hell awaits those who know but act dumb.
Ask this doc
Faposky95: 4:18pm On Jun 04
Omoawoke:


After you are done grabbing him, beating him and bitting himโ€ฆ
Next is to sue Nature and ask why it favors men over women in the wait game

But nevertheless, we know the wait game favor men, but itโ€™s not something to be throwing in the faces of women. I really feel women should not be dragged or shamed for not marrying early, it doesnโ€™t just make sense

You're a guy ain't ya.....
Started cool, then went SIMP mode
Here, take a like......give it back...?!
As long as it's a coin situation.... it's either this or that
Keep to the script....we also know
descarado: 4:19pm On Jun 04
Allthingswork:
.๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคญ Your last sentence, though. Hilarious punchline.
But yeah, naija women have really ensured in the hands of their men oh. Not all the men but majority. Hehe. Yet both can't even live and feel satisfied without the other.
SMH. Hypocritical lots the men and women are!
Thank God I don't even need kids and I'm an antinatalist by choice. My wife can adopt anytime, even when she's 50 years old as long as we can afford it (I won't be poor, anyways). Women are really trying ooh. It's not easy to bear the judgements they get everyday, all around the world.
Jehovah.
How did you become antinatalist.
Is it by religion, trauma, background or self discovery?
If you don't mind telling me.
I'm excited to learn something new.
Wisfem: 4:19pm On Jun 04
Tallesty1:
Nature doesn't give a shit about anyone's interest.

Delayed childbearing doesn't cause fibroid but it increases the risk so?


Who is interested about interest or determination, Woman who do not reproduce early have twice more risks to develop leiomyomas than those with previous childbirth or pregnancies
dapadawee: 4:39pm On Jun 04
Kobojunkie:
1. Look up the meaning of the word "treatment" next time before posting what amounts to mental farts.

2. Also, try to state the facts, not twist them.

3. Nonsense! . ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„
Following your assertions, shouldn't it follow that women in Nigeria would suffer fibroids less than those in the West, where late marriages are considered the norm? ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Copy and paste.
West have advance health research.
And west don't see delay in child bearing as witchcraft or barrenness.
West have many options to child bearing.
West have advance medical technology
Kobojunkie: 4:44pm On Jun 04
dapadawee:
โžœCopy and paste. West have advance health research. And west don't see delay in child bearing as witchcraft or barrenness. West have many options to child bearing. West have advance medical technology
. What an utterly pathetic response!๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„
1Sharon(f): 4:44pm On Jun 04
dapadawee:

You want to belong but lack the initiation knowledg.
No treatment for fibroids only surgical procedure can remove fibroids, that's your number one blunder.
Let me educate you. Even after removing fibroids through surgical procedure the chance of growing back is very high.
Lastly the chance of you having growing fibroids after delivering all your children is very low.

My response to your nonsense.
We are not stopping fibroids because all women have fibroid we are saying to avoid story that you will later regret it is better to marry and give birth early so that fibroid will not take over your entire uterus

Are surgical procedures not a form of treatment? Or whatโ€™s your point? Fear mongering?

Thereโ€™s a link between hair relaxers and other hair products in black women and fibroids.

Not once have I heard of a white woman having fibroids. And western countries have a lower birth rate than Africa.

Now is it due to delayed childbirth or is the Doctor just trying to be disingenuous?

1 Like

1Sharon(f): 4:53pm On Jun 04
Tallesty1:
He's from Uganda

Him being Ugandan changes nothing. Most of you share his sentiment.

2 Likes

Reply)

Aso Rock Clinic DOES NOT Have Paracetamol Or Cotton Wool - TheCable

(Go Up)

Sections: How To . 57
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or s on Nairaland.