NewStats: 3,263,711 , 8,181,125 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 01:18 PM 443p42

Everyday247:
Anytime they bring up any issue, you always have a neighbour who has experienced it. 🤭

How big is your neighbourhood?

How many neighbours do you have?

Her neighbourhood is as big as her imagination

If this is true then it should be rolled out over the country sharp sharp no ipob, boko haram, herdsmen, atemokun

ItisWell22:


He had mentioned that he got that image off the net, as there’s a fine of 200k and 150 strokes of cane, for whoever takes pictures.

So even this little write-up is too hard to read and comprehend, or are you already glucose-depleted this time of the day?

Sorry oh…

Still yet na lie

I don't marital violence but there is no community anywhere that they flog for the couple for marital issues, except in cases like stealing or rape.

He should have mentioned the community or the state.

How can they beat a man like that,that is humiliation,emasculation, disgraceful, undermining his authority!

JobAndVacancies:
northern cross river right

Right.

Mtcheeew. Super story. The man picture after the flogging or I don't believe it

Kokodeni:
Send her on an errands to the market to cook something special that will surely keep her in the market for a while
Then I order a bus that can move my basic personal effects like clothes documents credentials and other paper works. And that would be the last time she sets her eyes on me.

A man should never beat a woman talk less of his wife but certain things will never happen to me and remain the same... Never.....

You'd be doing the woman a favor

QuinQ:




You don't even care that it has produced massive positive results.
All you keep yapping is your extremely corrupt, ineffective judicial system

ok

QuinQ:
Wow! I like this your community. This should be adopted nation-wide. Some men (a small minority) beat their wives constantly. A woman should NOT live in fear and walk on egg shells in her own home!

I know this is front page straight.

First To Comment (clap, clap, clap)

It is like you always fail comprehension age in school, because I didn't see how you answer the question by stating the numbers of things to do that can put the feud to an end and let love abound. I tell you most solemnly, that man will never love that woman from the bottom of his heart again, even if he can let her stay with him.

QuinQ:
Wow! I like this your community. This should be adopted nation-wide. Some men (a small minority) beat their wives constantly. A woman should NOT live in fear and walk on egg shells in her own home!

I know this is front page straight.

First To Comment (clap, clap, clap)

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So what about the woman that nags at her husband not submissive..does not respect the husband and even slap the husband...so what should be done to such a woman or wife ?

It's a savage law meant for barbarians and savages and not for civilized people of this age. GOSH!!! Are you serious dude, the fact that you and others are defending it makes it even worse. How are you even in our society?

Civilized people get prosecuted when they break the law and are given fair hearing - whether in customary court or any where. That's what advanced, civilized, fully evolved and sophisticated humans do, not dehumanize and brutalize one another like wild animals!

MadamExcellency:


These are not landlords and tenants. They are kinsmen and siblings. It's a bloodline and the lines are drawn you shouldn't cross. Don't try to break the law. It's a customary law and it ends in customary courts. They win, you lose.

QuinQ:


Cross River, CR, CR writen all over the place. Can't you read?

You could have pointed that out without showing your bad manners.

I simply read the post, scrolled back up and replied.

sweetkev:
Seun, has it gotten this bad that once someone mentioned Tinubu name under comment section, your mods banned the person from commenting on nairaland for few hours even if the person never insulted anyone. I hope you are aware of this Seun ?

I experienced it last week I was banned for about 5 hours before the ban was lift. We are not safe again on this forum

ErebeOcoco:

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.

As long as you sleep and wake in that same village, there is zero➡️nothing that you can do.

After dem treat your looseGarding you seff will wear cloth and carry cane for the next person. A Zombie cycle.

bestman09:
I also wonder how husbands whose wives used policemen to arrest and locked in the past live with their wives.
Your laws are good, however, hope you have laws to deal with women whose tongues are weapon of destruction against their husbands!

Best thing to do is to let go of a toxic woman calmly and never act in haste with her.

Toxic women don't deserve a second chance,I am a calm man and my wife can't try rubbish with me because she knows I am unpredictable in actions but not violent.

Mr seun, pls how can one close their on nairaland? I just want to close this permanently and all information deleted. Am fed up of these forum and want to leave thanks!

QuinQ:


"Disrespecting" is different from constantly beating someone. Some men, their top joy in life is beating their wives

You didn’t read what OP write then.

“Threat” only attracts whipping for the husband. So it follows that disrespect should attract the same whipping for the wife.

Maintain the same energy .

QuinQ:


Voila!
That's why the law is there to protect people like Ukraine - why Putin has been indicted as a war criminal and is subject to arrest

Like they indicted America over Iraq or Libya... the law can only come thru for the consequences... not b4 it... so y put ur life at risk ?? I can't challenge a police officer with a gun, even if I'm 100% right and he's 100% wrong .... women should never challenge men no matter what... best they report first...and not later

Funny

ErebeOcoco:
Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home.

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.


File photo used for illustration

is this not overdo? This is far worse than Sharia law! Infact, it's total madness!

cr7lomo:


Like they indicted America over Iraq or Libya... the law can only come thru for the consequences... not b4 it... so y put ur life at risk ?? I can't challenge a police officer with a gun, even if I'm 100% right and he's 100% wrong .... women should never challenge men no matter what... best they report first...and not later

No international court indicted "America".
You know some men don't need any challenge at all. Their main joy in life is beating their wives

Re u playing? What a joke. Hahahaha.... Next story please....

Gabrielshow24:
is this not overdo? This is far worse than Sharia law! Infact, it's total madness!

Belleful:
Re u playing? What a joke. Hahahaha.... Next story please....

Because you're NOT a battered wife constantly beaten by her husband

OctavianAC:


It is like you always fail comprehension age in school, because I didn't see how you answer the question by stating the numbers of things to do that can put the feud to an end and let love abound. I tell you most solemnly, that man will never love that woman from the bottom of his heart again, even if he can let her stay with him.

I have no idea what you're talking about.
The woman doesn't need thst type of "love"

Harddiskng:


You didn’t read what OP write then.

“Threat” only attracts whipping for the husband. So it follows that disrespect should attract the same whipping for the wife.

Maintain the same energy .

You know full well nobody will be flogging anybody for "threat". these rules were made and enforced by men. I bet you this man had repeatedly beaten his wife and only received warnings

danietohbadt:


You could have pointed that out without showing your bad manners.

I simply read the post, scrolled back up and replied.

It is NOT bad manners to say someone didn't read when infact they didn't (as you've just itted)

ufotunang:
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So what about the woman that nags at her husband not submissive..does not respect the husband and even slap the husband...so what should be done to such a woman or wife ?

You didn't read where the OP said "Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer."
But you can be sure nobody is punishing any man or woman for threats or insults.
these rules were made and enforced by men. I bet you this man had repeatedly beaten his wife and only received warnings

ErebeOcoco:
Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home.

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.


File photo used for illustration

I will first arrest everyone in the community. They have no right to abuse the man

2 wrongs doesn't make a right

QuinQ:


No international court indicted "America".
You know some men don't need any challenge at all. Their main joy in life is beating their wives

90 % of domestic violence on women are originated by women ... they Start the wahala till it gets out of hand... women are more violent than men, that why 80% of lesbian marriages end in divorce and Domestic violence.... while 20% of Gay marriages end up on in divorce and domestic violence...50% of heterosexual marriages end up in divorce ... now play logic into the matter