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Nicked this off Twitter and it makes perfect sense. Defines everything about the Nigerian man too.

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Small pikin dey worry dis one! There's been youngins who started out good in life only to have misfortune befall them when they have family and babies to feed.

Age 24-29 is foundation + bragging rights + chasing hot girls. When you have your own family, then is when you know what responsibility is.


EDIT. FTC! So this is what it feels like being on front page.

, making money is not the problem........sustaining and consolidating on success is the real game. Remain focused!

Trust me the most difficult age for a man is when he becomes a family man... Mehn he can't even buy good things for himself anymore.. That's if he is living on an average salary... School fees, clothing's for kids, house rent... Food stuff...

That's in a well planned society which has a better focused and well exposed preseident unlike.buhari

Here the most difficult age for a man is between 17-69

lestat:
That's in a well planned society which has a better focused and we'll exposed preseident unlike.buhari

Here the most difficult age for a man is between 17-69

Issa goal

I think this applies to both gender. This is when we learn marriage is not the final bus stop as they made us believe when we were younger. Responsibilities set in.
But society gives more pressure to the male folks.

Reason why we shouldn't wait until we see our mates making it before we start hustling. Time waits for no man.

God bless the nigga

I am going through every thing he stated now because I am in that age bracket.

I am sometimes totally confused about my own future.

Every decision I take now seems to be very important for my life

I am trying to discover myself In This cruel world of ours

This is very true, I started hustling at 24 I have some money to my name, but I am not happy, I want it all like Pablo, I want to be super rich beyond my wildest dreams. So help me God

This applies to ladies too. This is the age most come to realize that life isn't fixed, you have to struggle to become what you want. This is the age most ladies get to understand the facts of life. And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of woman existence fades away. Reality is no one wants a liability .You have to struggle for your future.

Some are lucky to know this before getting to this age though.

hmmm i'm a living testimony but it's too late to fail....amen!

hmmmm


you're right though but personally my difficult age was between 18-21 cos i was so influenced by peer groups to do a lotta bad things



i believe my most difficult age yet would be in my early 30s to infinity cos thats when i intend to get married and as of now i have no clue on how to be a father or family man

?? true bro but some people are already experiencing some of these from childhood

This life!!!!!!

makydebbie:
I think this applies to both gender. This is when we learn marriage is not the final bus stop as they made us believe when we were younger. Responsibilities sets in.
But society gives more pressure to the male folks.

Reason why we shouldn't wait until we see our mates making it before we start hustling. Time waits for no man.

Responsibilities set in.

Cutehector:
Trust me the most difficult age for a man is when he becomes a family man... Mehn he can't even buy good things for himself anymore.. That's if he is living on an average salary... School fees, clothing's for kids, house rent... Food stuff...

Are you married?

RuthDaniels:
This applies to ladies too. This is the age most come to realize that life isn't fixed, you have to struggle to become what you want. This is the age most ladies get to understand the facts of life. [s]And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of woman existence fades away. [/s]Reality is no one wants a liability .You have to struggle for your future.

Some are lucky to know this before getting to this age though.

And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of woman existence fade away.

GrammarNazi1:

And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of woman existence fade away.

Do I give you my Nairaland ?

GrammarNazi1:

[s]And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of woman existence fade away.[/s]

And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of a woman's existence, fades away.

zicoraads:

[s]And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of a woman's existence, fades away.[/s]

And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of a woman's existence fade away.

zicoraads:

Are you married?

yes

Mehn this guy is pained..



I can feel his pain too

Baba in this country that we in, we've been tru a lot .

Humiliation ain't got nothing on us

"Worst period to try dating" as in he couldn't have said it better, anybody you date will just be you practically frustrating that person's life. Though depends on the partner though but its rare.

GrammarNazi1:

And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of a woman's existence fade away.

it is either you die a grammar Nazi or you live long to see yourself make a mistake.

Playing the role during dry spells.

So on point...I can relate.

And I kept scrolling and the posts went on like forever!

GrammarNazi1:

And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of a woman's existence fade away.

And all the painted pictures of marriage being the sole purpose of a woman's existence, FADES away!!!!
FADES!!!!!!!
Enwe