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Sometimes I ask myself if I have any favorite child among my children but the answer is always no, I also ask if it's possible to love them equally.

Love is not really deep in my heart I don't even know how to pamper people. I don't fall in love, I just love them as my children. What I can't do for A, I can't do it for B either. Maybe someday one of them will start doing what will make him or her my favourite I can't tell but for now no favouritism.

It's just in my nature, I also don't fall in love, I don't take thing serious, I don't

iamnotillicit:
Who washes a sneaker in a washing machine...

It takes days to dry that way

A dumbo

But normally a man should be able to wash his sneakers by himself.

Marriage is something else, courtship can be deceiving. Most time both parties rushes into marriage ignoring all the red flags hoping marriage will correct them.

When I see couples celebrating 20yrs anniversary I know one of them must be very tolerant. It's not that easy for man and woman from different backgrounds to blend without issues coz everything about the are "words and opposites"

APOPTOSIS:

😂😂😂
Abeg who be that?
Which kind style be that?
Abeg make we help oooo
I no want death again...It's too much.
..naaaa woman?

You dey mind him/her, no matter how hard the country is if one is not lazy, starving to death will be hard but some people prefer to stay idle and be begging.

Chisyy:
I'm tired. I want to end it all. This suffering is too much for me. My baby has not eaten since morning. I don't have money to buy her cereal. What more do I have to live for? I can't do this anymore. Please help me if you can. 81 49 476 831 palmpay Mary Bassey

See format lol, what's stopping you from ending it? It's like you're threatening us with death that is inevitable.

kpankpangolo:
Radio is for security men, cab drivers and bricklayers. I got my security men GoTV so they’ll be enlightened. Since then, I never hear their radio on for anything.

Sometimes good deeds dey bring problem. I see you're the type that wants people around you to be comfortable and happy. Just do it moderately and always consider your own safety first.

I used to be that kind of person but coz of past experience I'm now moderating it.

Your security men really need the radio more than the gotv especially while on duty. Make God dey keep us safe.

Agbegbaorogboye:

If you take your car to Benin to paint you'll see the difference
Ordinarily Nigeria should boast better technical skills than Benin Republic but we simply don't

Our vocational system needs to be properly revamped. It still remains largely informal and disorganised like in the 70s

What I also notice about Nigerians is they don't take their work serious back home. In most of these African countries people prefer patronizing Nigerians than their locals coz they believe Nigerians do a better job.

This is not hearsay, I have witnessed this in like 6 of those countries and Benin, Togo, Ghana and Ivory coast are among them.

Even in education, it also happens, an average student back home will suddenly become best performing student abroad. I know a guy who's just an average student, he's tried jamb several times and couldn't reach cut off mark of any course, this guy went to Ghana and got ission into a university and graduated as best performing student of his set.

Some good guys back home too also turn to criminal abroad all in the name of making it at all cost. Lol.

Agbegbaorogboye:
All this APC socialist idea of throwing money into the air is counterproductive
What technicians and artisans need is access to modern techniques and methods of doing their jobs not stipends
With that, they'll be able to become more productive and even export their skills
Imagine that most mech, carpenters, bricklayers, welders in Nigeria cannot compete favourably with the ones from Benin and Togo in of modern methods of carrying out their crafts
They are only useful to the politicians to cajole them to vote during elections after which they are abandoned to their fate!!

The main reasons some people prefer to give their work to Togo and Benin guys are cheaper services and they won't do your work halfway and start another renegotiation to increase their charges., Prompt and seriousness. Not that their skills are better than the Nigerians'

arantess:

What if na she kpai the man?

Dey play

I laf

YourGFsnatcher:
I can see some people are not happy. Why are some Nigerians so bitter

Imagine, I've never seen this kind of bitterness against one's home land in any part of the world.

How can you be wishing your country evil all the time just bcoz of politics. Can you imagine that most of the people doing that are also the ones giving NigerIa bad image abroad.

Good news in favour of Nigeria make them cry. Good news in favour of other states apart from theirs make them sad.

anungangampu:
Na so, the wife of my bros change completely in our front. Even small issues, the family will escalate it. We didn't know all along they believe Nigeria Court will award them some properties the man acquired after they married traditionally. She was busy gathering evidence o.
It got to a point that it involved Police. They separated and they took the case to welfare.

Dem ask the girl, how much your oga dey send you, she said 40k. Dem ask her 40k no do you ? Wetin Child go need Wey 40k. Na so she started listing all the comfort the child was enjoying before, such as fuel everyday oif light no dey. All the TV and stuff they use to enjoy.
Dem tell am say, Nigeria welfare no be for mama. Na for child only. Eee clear her eyes
Na person wey dey receive 6k everyday plus other money on daily basis. Just pocket money.

Na there I became proud of Nigeria.

I just dey laf reading this. Lol. In Nigeria if you're rich forget about true love, DNA test is also a must for all your children.

If the woman com marry you and thinking to divorce you and get part of your properties then she still get conscience bcoz na to kpai the man and and get all the properties some women go do.

Nice.

We learn everyday, I used to think pounds and pounds Sterling are the same.

dangermouse:
Some dey go 5 rounds oga. Including me.

We should just learn to stop generalizing personal issues.

You can't do it does not mean others can't.

you no dey last long be that. Imagine going over 30mins to 1hr before cumn.

Better performers can't go 3times in one night, if your first round can reach around 1hr you fit no come before you go voluntarily stop 2nd. unless person wan do marathon to kpai himself.

Omo see better achievement.

This will definitely turn all the indigenes to overnight billionaire.

Spursy:
Nawao.
I swear to God in heaven, I haven't eaten today. Not that I'm lazy but things are extremely hard for me now. The worst is, I don't have hope until month ends. I feel really frustrated cos the pains in my belle are too much

Menial daily job no dey to do abi? No be person dey serve bricklayers? No be person dey clear bush for people or do weed compounds? People dey sell bread and pure water on the road, people dey do help hands for farmers, etc you no get any one of these to do abi? Or you're looking for freebies?

CreativeOrbit:
Your entire argument is a confused mix of denial, condescension, and half-baked logic. You claim not to belong to any political party—yet you parrot APC talking points like a well-oiled propaganda machine. Save us the fake neutrality; your bias is loud and shameless.

You boast that you “know the law more than me,” yet you fail the most basic standard of legal reasoning. Accusations don’t magically land in court on public demand—especially when the system itself is weaponized to protect the powerful and silence victims. The idea that lack of a court case equals lack of truth is laughably simplistic. Maybe stop pretending to be a Senior Advocate of Nigeria and start understanding the actual barriers survivors face in seeking justice.

You're so desperate to discredit a woman’s voice that you ignore context, overlook process, and cling to the tired “no evidence” excuse like a lifeline. If you had even a shred of objectivity, you'd know that evidence isn't always presented in public before legal filings—and certainly not to appease social media gatekeepers like you.

Your agronomist vs. SAN analogy is cute, but let’s be honest: you're neither. You’re just another self-appointed expert yelling from the sidelines, pretending to understand legal nuance while exposing your own ignorance in broad daylight.

If it “sure for you,” stop acting like a glorified echo chamber and wait for the process—because unlike you, some of us deal in facts, not fragile egos and faux expertise.

Lol, all I can see in your write-up na painment. Lol. You better free your mind and stop taking politicians matter this serious. Self denial you said? I've not even entered Nigeria since the formation of APC. Ok let me stop denying it so that you can free your mind with that heavy Budden you're carrying. I'm the national chairman of APC. Lol. Are you happy now.

Whether you like it or not Natasha has no sexual harassment case against Akpabio. If she does do you think she would leave it and be filing contempt case? Lol I can feel your pain , you wish she has evidence but "if e no dey e no fit dey" take heart ok.

I don't use to exchange argument up to this level but make I press your neck small.

CreativeOrbit:
Look, your entire argument is nothing more than emotional gymnastics wrapped in confusion. You think you understand the law just because you heard the word precedent in a Netflix series? Please, step aside. Legal precedent doesn’t mean we should start comparing completely unrelated cases. Reno’s situation is different, Sandra’s is different, and Natasha’s is different. Stop lumping them together like a herbal mixture — it doesn’t work that way.

You’re asking whether I would believe a known liar or a girl with a history of false accusations? My friend, this isn’t street gossip or a backyard drama. This is a formal petition submitted to a public institution. Comparing that to compound rumors shows how flawed your sense of justice truly is.

Now you’re claiming we’re reacting out of political bias? Let me surprise you — I’m more APC than you’ll ever be. While you carry your party hip like a souvenir, I carry integrity. ing APC doesn’t mean I’ll blindly defend disgraceful behavior. If someone within the party is dragging us down, we need to clean house. Otherwise, the opposition will weaponize our silence in 2027. That’s what you fail to understand about real loyalty.

You’ve chosen to be loyal to individuals rather than to the truth — and that’s your undoing. Blind loyalty is what destroys great political parties. You’re not defending the party; you’re enabling rot.

As for your constant ‘show us evidence’ chant — direct that to the men who are hiding behind power and dodging public hearings. If they truly have nothing to hide, let them face the honorably instead of sending errand boys to gaslight Nigerians online.

Regarding your attempt to brand me an Obidient or Atikulator — let me say this clearly: I am APC. But I’m not a zombie. I have the ability to think critically and call out wrongdoing without selling my conscience for crumbs. You, on the other hand, are defending nonsense with more zeal than Atiku’s loudest ers. You’re the one consumed by bitterness — not me.

So yes, go ahead and rest your case — because it holds no weight. Your entire argument is riddled with double standards. Goodbye.

Lol don't say you're more APC than me coz I'm not even a member of any political party and the last time I voted in Nigeria was 2003.
I know the law more than you and I'm telling you that , you can't just accuse someone without any evidence and expect those of us that still have our brain intact to swallow and believe it .she has no evidence that's why she can't file such case in the court yet you guy are still acting as if her accusation is backed by concrete evidence.

You're free to believe her coz we don't think or reason in the same direction. It's just like an agronomist arguing with a SAN about legal matters. Court cases are not judged based on public opinions of by emotions. If e sure for her make she file sexual harassment case against him simple.

CreativeOrbit:
Your entire take reeks of bias and selective outrage. First, don’t pretend to care about evidence when your argument is built on hearsay and emotional favoritism. You claim Natasha’s allegations have no proof, yet somehow Sandra's "half-truths" are valid just because Natasha initially denied knowing her? That's a weak stretch at best — people deny associations all the time, especially when dealing with manipulators. That doesn't make Sandra right; it just makes your logic lazy.

And let’s talk about this nonsense of her "meeting her match" — if by match you mean someone who spews contradictory stories laced with personal vendettas, congratulations. You’re celebrating chaos, not justice.

As for your jab at people "ing anything against their perceived enemies" — that’s exactly what you’re doing now, blindly cheering Sandra on just because it fits your grudge. Hypocrisy much?

Dragging Reno into this is desperate. Every case should be judged individually, not based on your warped hypotheticals. You’re not fighting for truth; you’re fighting for a narrative that suits your petty bias. Try harder.

Even in the court of law every case is not judged individually. Precedence are always set. So Reno own is one of the precedence Natasha has set, Yaya Bello own is one of them, etc.

If a girl in your street known to be falsely accusing guys of rap* accuse your friend of raping her, will you believe her?

If a friend of yours who always lie of sleeping with every girl around tells you he had slept with your gf will you believe him and sack your gf?

Someone accused another person of sexual harassment without evidence and you guys started calling for his head. If he were to be your preferred presidential candidate would you have done the same thing?

I'm not being biased here even if it were to be in the Court, she would be asked to produce evidence else no case. At least Sandra provided some evidence and still claiming of having more in stock. So tell your Natasha to provide even just one evidence.

Is either you're an obidient or Atikulator. So I can't convince you to change the bitterness towards APC it's better I rest my case. I will only advise you not to be judging case base on party affiliation. Bye.

Gbadugbakun:
Last year jamb said they've stopped announcing the names and profiles of the highest candidate. This was probably because the candidate with the highest wasn't from the south west.

Now we have a candidate from the south west they've gone back to announcing the highest scoring candidate.

This country is pathetic.

Why are you pained? Where in the news you read that it's jamb that announced him? The highest scorer is from your tribe or not from your tribe add nothing to your value. So I see no reason for this outburst.

Smile. If you're a thief and another thief stole your belongings I no fit pity you.

If blackmailer is blackmailed. It's a joyful thing.

There is a saying that, if you find joy in tarnishing people's image by the time you stop doing that your own image will be brutally damaged.

Natasha allegations is not real and have no evidence. There are some truths in Sandra's coz Natasha first deny knowing or having any conversation with her and that lie was busted.

As someone with functioning brain I Know Sandra will surely sugarcoat and add flavour to her allegations but what I'm happy about is that Natasha meets her match.

For those of you who always anything that's against your perceived enemies, keep it up you'll reap the fruit someday.

Taking Reno own as an example if it were recently she accused Reno, you guys would her and claimed Reno evidence was fabricated, that he really did it and started calling him names.

helinues:
Good

Anyone still claiming Nigeria is owning IMF should pay the amount on Nigeria's behalf

I like this comment.

It's normal to hate your leaders but it's kolomental to hate your country to the extent of wishing it evils, evils and evils all the time.

To the extent that you don't like to hear any good news about it haba!

To the extent of wishing it collapse all bcoz your party or preferred candidate is not in power.

I won't even stop my enemy from becoming Nigerian president. I will wholeheartedly his government as long as he's doing well.

If you can't be loyal to your godfather don't even accept to be a godson.

See the case of Bello and Ododo. Despite his knowledge that Bello embezzled a lot of money he stood by him and even shielded him from EFCC. I don't that though but that's loyalty in display.

Average Nigerian doesn't like to bow for another man, doesn't like to have master, doesn't really like to be doing yes sir for another man except when doing eye service.

You had no political weight or influence, you didn't even have the money to spend but someone singlehandedly picked you, bought form and campaigned for you, without you spending your little savings.

What were you expecting? Or you thought he was a father Christmas? Didn't you know he wanted to continue ruling through you? And why didn't you reject the good offer at the very beginning?

Ok you want to prove you're smart? Didn't you know the other party is smarter?

Mr fubara you're the actual cause of your problem.

chypotenti:
Omoh!! This babe fine....

Where this exaggeration comes from? Na una dey make all these girls turn olosho.
If she reads your comment now she go think say she's really beautiful from there olosho don start lol.

ozo13:
hahahaha woman never blackmail you before and I pray u don't experience such.
It will destabilize you because you will try explaining yourself and no one will likely believe your own side of the story.
All you can do is to pray harder for the time to come fast for the blackmailer to be exposed.
Eno funny ooo

That's what makes it worse, majority will side with the woman, the man go explain tire but no one will believe him and that's very bad, this had led some people into suicide.

Abeg make una let me us hear word. Teachers are the laziest government workers in Nigeria. They give too much excuse for their laziness.

During my high school days, my maths teacher was a Cocoa merchant, he came to school whenever he wished.

My Geography teacher was into Timber cutting. She hardly came to school, many of them were into other businesses and prioritized those businesses over teaching,

My English teacher was always scared to mark me wrong in tests or classwork. Imagine if I chosed A he would mark it correct and his own correct answer might be B. So he would also mark those that chosed B as correct. He was afraid of me disgracing him coz he knew I would prove how and why my own answer was the correct one 😂.

The only serious teacher we had them was a newly employed graduate that was teaching us Biology and Chemistry,I heard he too later started timber business 2yrs after we graduated from the school.

Our physics teacher used to do direct copy of Okeke textbook into his note without changing anything, including the examples.

Economics teachers always gave her lesson note to the girls with good handwriting to write for us and she wouldn't even come to explain the topics later. What helped me then was having most of the textbooks and bcoz of all their ways I stopped coming to school. Coz it's like wasting of time.

I studied with my textbooks at home and only went to right tests and exams.

Except in mathematics I always scored the highest marks in both tests and exams. That's why till today maths is not my friend. Coz I always find it difficult to study it independently and it's the only C grade I used to have.

Sorry for my long story. Ghana educational system is not all that better coz I've seen teachers doing same thing my teachers were doing then but if they're preparing for WASSCE OR BECE, omo it's like preparing for war. JHS3 students preparing for BECE hardly have time for other things some will get home by 7pm-8pm.

Before the exams Ghanaian teacher will rush them and covered the syllabus.

During my time I saw many questions that were not covered in my textbooks.

DuBLINGreenb:
Why is Sandra Duru so insistent on this issue.
Is Akpabio her husband or brother or what? Has she been paid? Is Natasha her enemy? There’s something not right about this.
Rarely do you see women pick sides with men it’s usually women ing women in issues like these so what’s going on madam Duru

Your comment shows "painment"

Why was Natasha so insistent on the issue and now she's hibernating after been busted.

Nothing like freedom.

You see that freedom you're enjoying now, please cherish and maintain it.

You'll really know the value when you lost it.

What I'm trying to tell you is to stay away from crime, it may look profitable today but the end is always filled with regret. "Had I known"

Manage what you get and work harder legitimately to get more.

SmartPolician:
State houses of assembly have become incredibly useless. We need to reform this country and shut them down completely.

The House of Reps should checkmate what governors do while the senate checkmates what the president does. That will save states a lot of money paid to legislators who add no value to their states.

So that president can easily impeach Governors?

Same thing is happening to me and nothing I can do to stop GTBank from draining my at the moment coz I don't have any means of transferring the remaining balance. Tried online, they're requesting for token. And everything started after my SIM got disconnected last two weeks.

Didn't even know she's been arrested. Such cases don't really lead to jail in Nigeria.

If you launder or steal huge money you won't be jailed but if you're a poor person just insult a popular rich man or celebrity and by this time tomorrow you're already in jail.

Rootprof:
1- Was saraki the running mate of his party when he ed APC ? The answer is NO.

2- Oga okowa do you really know what it means to be selected as president running mate of the last concluded election ?

To some extent PDP trusted you that's why you were chosen to run as VP for the party, but In less than 2 years you break the trust by ing the opposition party. Olo faa now

Just as if you ed APC for the interest of the people, people know it's cos of your personal interest.

All will be well.
Transfer window is opened.

Politics is all about interest either person/selfish interest or interest of the general masses.

Peter Obi was also vice presidential candidate of PDP but most of you guys refused to reference that.
To most of you, your favorite politicians are saint and can never be wrong, they can decamp to any party whenever they wish.

PantShifter:


Can you please quote the section of the law which makes it an offense?

Before I quote the section, first ask Daddy freeze.
Is penal code not part of Nigerian law? Even in states using criminal code if you're cut sleeping with another man's wife you can be charged with an offense, offense plenty wetin people think.