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Sonnobax15:

Bro,the bitter truth is that your wife has left you emotionally....

He didn't marry a wife rather a hustler

Relationship wei Dem use money buy no dy last.... Believe me the foundation of your relationship was already faulty .... I believe you saw the red flags but you ignored.... To be honest it's a list course already .. just let her be, cos im already certain she is seeing someone else... God be with you and your kids

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

she's only playing games with u

If u want her to stop playing games with u just call her family one day n b dead serious about it n tell them to return bride price.

She go too shock, then u can arrange one lawyer to call her and tell her about divorce proceedings


Bro do this n she go humble humble

ediko5:
@ Wakatumbit

With due respect you're the cause of your wife disrespect to you from you narration.

Please I would like to know how it's an offence for a man to take care of his woman when he has the money......i mean....I just want to how the things he did for his wife translated to being wrong and the cause of her bad behavior

His wife is ungrateful, unkind and wicked to him not because of his love and care for her..but because his wife is a horrible human being...

.are financially okay guys supposed to starve their woman of money, not open business for their wife like op did.... Cos I'm not sure I get what u are blaming him for..

She should start working.

You were the highest spender at the time she was single, hence she agreed to marry you. Now you're low, she can't stay.
All that money buying hair and going on vacation should've been invested wisely first.

Let her go please, most of dem usually think outside marriage is better than bn in marriage......She will just be flying from one bed to another.

I am sure after 5 months she will start regretting.

I was just advicing some one about marrying an 18 years.


Hello sir, how well did you know the woman you call your wife before you married her.

I am seeing a marriage that was built on no proper character foundation.

Character doesnt hide sir, I am guessing you ignored a lot of flaw? When did you marry and how soon did you have a kid. Alot of questions I will meed to find out to see if I can advice you. you have a child. You cant make "self" - "ish" decision. You have someone esle and not for once you mentioned that kid in this write up. That shows what you are thinking of ! Come on man!


If you are looking for people who will tell you to let her go, then avoid this post. If its validation you need. I give you none. You are a married man,

Becareful of people who you take advices from, many speak from a place of regrets and deep pains not understanding and wisdom!

sir, whether your marriage fails or goes through, you are the head and you are responsible for it.

Una matter long, that woman left you long ago spiritually and emotionally, you are the one forcing the whole thing

Its could be disturbing, the fact is that, you have just one life. don't manage your life at the expense of any marriage. plan your life, invest in your today, so tomorrow can feed you at old age. 90% of women are entering marriages these day, just to use the man as their sure plug to live a better life, besides what you see as love is not what they see as love but just material gain and to overcome social pressures and vices.

Avoid marriage, wedding and relationship by all means

Depression is real

Allow her to go
She belongs to the streets
She is hungry of numerous preeqs on the street.

advanceDNA:

Please I would like to know how it's an offence for a man to take care of his woman when he has the money......i mean....I just want to how the things he did for his wife translated to being wrong and the cause of her bad behavior

His wife is ungrateful, unkind and wicked to him not because of his love and care for her..but because his wife is a horrible human being...

.are financially okay guys supposed to starve their woman of money, not open business for their wife like op did.... Cos I'm not sure I get what u are blaming him for..

Lolz, this man you like initiating argument without pondering on what the writer wrote. Same way you argued about what you didn't know about divorce.

I never said his love to the woman is bad, I never said he shouldn't take care of the lady during courtship.

From his narration, you will know that the lady was a street girl and the street blood still flow very well in her.

The red flags were there, for instance when he met her, she wasn't doing or willing to do anything but he felt he could use his money to please her.

A lady friend of mine wrote on her status 'Goodluck to the men that think they can use their level 8 salary to marry a lady that was maintained by 3 sugar daddies and 2 Yahoo boys'

You don't suddenly domesticate a wild animal that have been in the wild for so many years because you think you have money to take care of her. There are ladies that aren't worthy of marriage and men should get that into their brain.

Meanwhile,any man that a woman uses breakup or divorce to threaten is a weak man - they are men she can't try such rubbish with.

The truth be say she don tire since , her eye don dey outside like Italawa , better she don tell u.. it's now left for u to tell ur self and free her....u have nothing to lose

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

My friend,every marriage is like that.

Women are fond of using these words repeatedy.

Marriage is patience

Marriage is not by force

Una dey try ooo, una sabi take rubbish, so person wey no dey pay bills dey threaten person wey dey pay bills? Nawa

You married a liability. She's being deceived by bad friends. Many of her type who took such decisions always live to regret it. They think the grass is greener on the other side not knowing a bird at hand is better than two in the bush. Let her go and taste things for herself . You have been set free.

Once your wife starts comparing you with other guys Check very well she is seeing another guy already. Her friends has mislead her.

Advice: Let her go so you can live long.

Two people are bound to suffer in this life

Simps and Feminsits

Op, I don’t pity you at all!

You went after an unambitious girl that is materialistic and you felt you can always make enough to take care of all the bills at home

Now reality has sent in, all her fine girl is empty….

Na you wan marry social girl and prom queen…

If you can't hypnotize her...then hang in there till you hit the rocks.
Just love yourself and keep going.
This life is war.
Humana are so unpredictable

.

Take that decision and stick by it no matter the pressure from your people. You deserve the best because you are one of the best

I know her type. .Divorce her ,I go dash u money 4 champagne. .thank God say na only one child.
Without peace a man no go dey happy , healthy and productive. .life is full of ups and downs. You'll bounce back. .

I love the fact that you are not a simp. The future is brighter. A beautiful sexy and better woman coming your way.

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Can you imagine, a woman that is jobless is threatening you to leave the marriage and you are scared..


From your write up, you are a good man and you have done alot yo make her happy..

Please let her go, train your kid and luckily you can even make 100m this year, this time you will know how to spend it, because you don't have a leach that will help you spend it..

OKOATA:
You married her with money, never marry a lady because you have money. Your story is very similar to mine. She also started with the threat. One day I woke up and the love just died then and there. Found out she was already cheating with some rich dude. Your case is like that of a man training a dog, feeding it, caring for it and in return always biting you. The best bet is for you to discard that your lady. Nothing in the world can change her mind. If you truly want peace of mind you know what to do.

Omoh, bad wives dey this life oo


Now all the girls single will be crying on top someone neck to marry them

I have so many girls on my neck, crying and doing the nicest things just to get a ring from me…. So na like this most of them end up…
You will see them with pretty faces and sexy shapes, but na wickedness dey their mind…

GoodSpirit:



They are watching movies thinking what they do in movies is what happens in real life... divorce proceedings take years to accomplish

It takes years wen one partner is frustrating the process, .......if the two not frustrating it, it comes out less than a year.


Meanwhile, the partners would have even discarded before the divorce finalist.

Toyin Aimaku and her first husband(Adeniyi )case.

Hmm..... some women and wahala. For those of you telling him to face the child and take care of the child, are you sure he is truly the father of that child? From the way his wife is behaving and talking, it is possible he needs to run a DNA test on that child to be sure, the child is his o. I don't trust that woman because it is possible that the child belongs to another man. As for OP, receive strength for this trying phase of your life, God will give you wisdom on what to do and how to go about it.

What did you do to her.
We need to hear her own side of the story before we can make a judgement.

PantShifter:
Maybe she has tasted another dïk outside

There’s no maybe there… op wife is definitely tasting another DIK

Nicoddemus:


How did you even tolerate her to have grown wings up to this extent. Allow that stupid woman to go for now her brains will reset after some time. Maybe you can take her back with stringent rules

Gbammmm, you’ve said it all.

Omoawoke:


Omoh, bad wives dey this life oo


Now all the girls single will be crying on top someone neck to marry them

I have so many girls on my neck, crying and doing the nicest things just to get a ring from me…. So na like this most of them end up…
You will see them with pretty faces and sexy shapes, but na wickedness dey their mind…

It still doesn't stop you to get their real character if you want,.....as you said, pretty face and sexy shape, the two won't allow you to focus on character and attitude.

What you won't do as husband, don't start it as boyfriend.