NewStats: 3,264,689 , 8,184,421 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 04:20 AM 6s1n47

dkidd:

What else do U want me to say. Most of U women are envious of men and U start comparing and want same treatments and privileges but we don't try to be like women when they enjoy so many benefits and privileges in society that might even get us killed. So yeah try being a man. The last female who tried it died miserably btw I think she committed suicide but first confessed that men were and are going through a lot. She became depressed and frustrated about life living as a man as she no longer enjoyed the perks and benefits society and simps accords ur gender. She begged to be killed medically cos she couldn't take it anymore. Maybe U too can experience being a man for urself and see if it's sweet or maybe it will help U appreciate us for once like the late Norah Vincent. You can read her up to educate urself 😉

All these unnecessary stories don’t change the fact that men are naturally narcissistic and misogynistic. You all want to suppress women by force and don’t care about our feelings. Everything has to be done your way.

helinues:


But who precisely have they been cheating with? Is it not the same cheater ladies like them

Not at all. Womanizers don’t change. They just want to check every woman off their bucket list. They go after both the good girls and the bad girls.

JAOS:

Its not hypocrisy its fair
women don't have to be rich to date a rich guy but a guy has to be rich to date a poor girl thats the hypocrisy

That’s not necessarily true. We’ve seen cases where women have married poor men and stayed together.

dkidd:

Be a man then

Is that all you can say?

helinues:


Annoyingly, the womanizers are the most jealous and insecure people

They obviously want to have their cake and eat it too.

helinues:
Thought provoking question

Thank you.

SeverusSnape:
It's not a double standard.

So what is it? Triple standard?

JAOS:
That's the way it is and should be

That’s hypocrisy.

Why is it that many men care so much about a woman's body count but don’t seem to hold themselves to the same standard? They want a partner with little to no experience while having a high body count themselves. Isn’t that a clear double standard?

To take plane is scary, ships the same thing, even motor too. This life eh.

SamuraiXXX:


So shame no even catch you say you dey fúck small pikin of 18years!

Someone that should be locked behind bars

Ringstonermasks:
if u think 18 is minor, then u need to go back to Kindergarten to learn books

You should honestly be locked up if you think it’s okay to target a naive 18-year-old girl, someone who should be focused on school, just to take advantage of her. You deserve to be behind bars. I don’t think you realize just how young an 18-year-old really is. And funny enough, it's people like you who are quick to call girls from this generation "whores" and say they're not worthy of a good husband just because they’ve taken control of their own bodies.

Ringstonermasks:
I dey run from one lyk dix sef... she dey on constant love begging... even though she is aware am a married man, maybe na cos i Don shine he kongo...


Big yanch fine small gal widow.

na dat I , there is one Muslim one that was eyeing me months back, than gal should be around 18 sef

na to invite am when I get chance

So you are among those men that like lashing minors Abi

pansophist:
Strong and independent" But when you're with me, you suddenly becomes an orphan. Can't pay for anything and feel entitled on top because you can speak English Lol

Nonsense

You expect me to foot your bill when we are in a relationship? You are not supposed to be called a man then, what you have under you is a peanut!

Everyday is No Bra Day for me!
I don’t wear bra on a normal day, I don’t like it, wearing bra is outdated.

Rubbish. I didn’t bother to finish reading it, it reeks of rubbish

PARADIZEPRIEST:
Best flat in this regime

That’s not even a flat, it is just a room 😭

Lol. I am not releasing him to you, let me enjoy him too!

Sweeetheart:



You insulted someone and still appraise him, is your brain doing on and off?


Nice one to Nigeria best captain

That was not an insult

Thank God for money, Musa would have been very ugly. Anyways, I like am sha, he has a nice personality

Negroid001:


It's a pity with all your baseless writeup you'll still submit to a man. Ranting on nairaland is one thing thing, facing reality is another.

Face your reality, let me face mine. Stop being pained!

BigJoe19:
Lol what works for you. There are several women that are far richer than she is but didn't have to soil their reputation, you are low class I don't expect you to understand the use of a good name. Oprah didn't even have to be a social reject to be a billionaire.

Lol, it's funny how quickly you assume you know someone's story based on a few words online. Not everyone needs to follow Oprah’s path to success there's room for all of us to walk our own unique journeys.

Facidio:
You don't want to settle with a man that lives in a 1 bedroom apartment,... What do you own to ur name apart from your surname?

I know my worth and have standards and the things that I have achieved in my life, I bet you can only dream of.

Negroid001:


At the end of the day.
You'll still settle down in a Man's house and have to be submissive, at least for most of y'all.
The few that don't, they hoe their way to the top. You can take that lonely and frustrating route too.

It’s funny how some of you still think a woman’s only options are either submission or "hoeing" her way to the top. There’s actually a third option: choosing to live life on our own , without being boxed into outdated stereotypes. We’re not in competition with men we’re creating our own lanes. And trust me, it’s far from lonely or frustrating when you know your worth.

Watch the movie Kleptomania by Lateef Adedimeji

Dogalmighty17:
Cheap or not? A friends wife got these in Lafia, Nasarawa state.

Cheap! Try to come to Lagos first and compare.

realsportclub7:

It might sounds like bashing or hate.

But sincerely, those banging look (so called) is only of value when in clothes.

Remove clothe, person go nearly vomit.

But you go knack am with joy if you get opportunity abi?

Before I opened this thread, I knew men would be bashing her and her shape and I was right.

Mistral:


If this strength you imply is based on external resources, it most likely means little to the men around unless they are potential golddiggers. If the strength is internal, then the category of men intimidated are majorly the ones who are hardly compatible with you on an individual level - they don't share your values or goals.

Plus if being opinionated implies being a habitual critic, then of course such women would find it difficult getting along with most men.

Real men who are understanding will understand that a woman with standards isn't a threat but an equal. Being opinionated doesn’t mean being a habitual critic it means having a voice and using it. And if that makes some men uncomfortable, it’s simply a matter of the man’s fragile ego, low self esteem or mismatched expectations, not a fault in the woman herself.

JASONjnr:


You ended up saying nothing.....

There's no such thing as a strong woman or independent woman.

What we have are women with choices.

A women who choses to be submissive to a man and a woman who wants to stand upright and face the challenges of life that comes with extreme depression.

A lady at 30 was with me some months ago and she wasn't enjoying the age movement as she's tired of being single and having all the money and luxury but no man.

You can deceive yourself but you know how challenging it is to do everything without from a man.

It’s funny that you think women who stand tall and face life’s challenges are deceiving themselves. Having choices is a sign of strength, and yes, some women choose independence because they know their worth. We’re not saying life isn’t tough, it is. but relying on a man isn’t the only way to navigate it. And as for your friend at 30, maybe what she’s seeking is deeper than just having a man.

BigJoe19:
Lol bullshit. People that matters are not shaking yansh on TikTok, even the queen of the whoredom women Kim k doesn't.

She doesn’t twerk on TikTok but she got stardom with her sextape
Everyone has their lane. Just because you don't see value in how someone expresses themselves doesn’t mean it’s worthless. Women like Kim K made billions while people laughed at her. So instead of judging, focus on what works for you and let others shine in their own way.