Doctors, Pharmacists and other Medical experts in the House, please help me out. I can't seem to understand how my body system is reacting to lack of sex anymore.
I've abstained from sex for exactly four years now. I decided against going into any relationship with any lady since my last encounter with my ex. And I don't patronize hook-up girls because I can't imagine having sex with someone I don't have any atom of feelings for. I Also do not believe in sleeping with random girls, reason I stayed away from sex until I'm ready for marriage. Another major reason is that I don't use condoms during sex, so I've got to be careful with whoever I'm getting down with.
Some nights, I would have wet dreams, get up to the bathroom to wash myself. I don't masturbate. Last night I had a wet dream again as i slept and laid on my stomach(Sleeping posture), in the middle of the night, I noticed my d**k was rubbing the mattress thoroughly and I noticed something discomforting, when I noticed what was about to occur, I tried to quickly jump off the bed, but unfortunately, while in the process of jumping off, I ejaculated profusely & uncontrollably. My semen was very thick as I checked my boxers. I got up and went straight to bath before going back to bed. I was so angry about it.
Today, I'm now feeling pains in my scrotum and it's a bit swollen too. After I finished bathing this afternoon and was trying to dry my body, I noticed semen coming out but looking like pre-cum.
I need some advice on what to do, and how to go about this please.
The bible says we shouldn't indulge in Premarital sex cos it's a sin. You guys preach against Masturbation cos some see it as a devilish act. While others say it can cause erectile dysfunctional issues. So I don't know what to do. I'm just between the rock and the hard ground now.
Is there any Drugs I can take to inhibit the activities of these stubborn semen?
Again, how do Reverend fathers cope without sex throughout their Lives?
I need answers.
You see body odour, e no good at all. Your position or wetin you get no matter at all. Body odour bad sapa
Peter532:
She didn't say it outrightly but for the few days she's been here always asking me if have bath...I mean your a guest in my house, and still you have the efontery to ask me that kind question because I let you into my space.
she did same thing this morning, telling my wife to put water for me to bath...shoi...me that if I want to bath no body will know, just to enter the bathroom..I don't even use hot water....and I normally bath twice before the day ends... except when I'm not going out....na this lady is asking me this kind question as if my body is smelling...or I have body odour in my own house...or na must for me to baff early in the morning when I'm not going out.
if you see the way I shouted for her with all the anger in me this morning not minding she's an older relation .I just can't hold it no more.
The cure for overthinking is making enough money to pay all your bills. When your basics and plans are executed with ease and you still get enough for aza. My guy you no fit think nothing
Galinton:
So one day, I finally thought of processing my thought and guest what? I ended up with a list, list of things I have dreamt of doing, which I love doing but never gave them a short just because my mind is so much consumed with the intrusive thought.
Mine is obeying and trusting my parents 100% while growing up, it cost me opportunities of a lifetime. As the last born, them use me as step make everyone else climb up, come loose guard me.
Moral lesson: do whatever it is your spirit tells you to even if it defies every existing authority
cutecommend:
Hello guys, I will mention two mistakes that cost me alot in life, though I finally overcame them by God's grace....
One of the mistakes was visiting a fake church whose pastor looked "anointed" and profitable. That stuff ruined my life so much, but I recovered again and am wise..
Another mistake was my continued dating of a girl my spirit rejected.. This caused me terrible emotional stuff, but I am pretty fine now by God's grace.
Abeg lend me 15k make I pay TP reach house. I go outside work from my territory, I go dey stranded as the work no play well. When I reach my family house I go pay you back
My company asked a couple of us to resign, services no longer required. I was paid a little above 10M and I will be venturing into lending. Microlending. Please say your prayers for me and wish me well. I will appreciate all you prayers and encouragement too...
Mehn even if she helped you get on your feet, leave her so that she can go help another brother.
Dpsychologist:
I saw this tweet by Erigga and it hit deep.
“I was with him when he was drinking garri.”
But na you buy the garri? 🤨
Let’s unpack this mindset that’s becoming very common in our generation.
🧠 The “Loyalty” Women Talk About Today is Not Real
Many women love to say they were there when you had nothing.
But truth is, a lot of them were just witnesses, not builders.
They didn’t help.
They didn’t invest.
They didn’t even believe in you—they were just hoping for a return on their emotional “time.”
It’s all about positioning themselves for the future harvest without ever planting seeds.
📌 Presence ≠ Participation
There’s a clear difference between being present and being useful.
Ask yourself:
Did she contribute to your hustle?
Did she with money, ideas, motivation?
Or did she just sit there… waiting?
Too many women want to claim royalty status for just hanging around during your broke phase.
💭 Real Loyalty is Silent
The girl who actually bought the garri isn’t the one tweeting.
She’s the one you when you finally blow—because she didn’t make noise, she made impact.
Loyalty is:
Showing up consistently.
Investing (not just emotionally, but tangibly).
Praying, planning, building with you.
But most of what you see now is emotional blackmail masked as .
⚠️ Men, Stop Rewarding ive Loyalty
Your success is not community property.
If she didn’t grind with you, she shouldn’t reap with you.
Let’s break it down clearly:
If What She Did is to make you feel Encouraged, ed, sacrificed then sje deserves Respect & loyalty
If What She Did is Invested in your dream then What She Deserves is Return on value
But if she Complained, watched, tolerated you then she deserves Nothing but silence 😐
💬 Final Thoughts
Let this sink in:
🧾 Presence without contribution is just observation.
And observers don’t get trophies.
So next time a woman says, “I was with you when you were drinking garri”, calmly ask:
“Did you buy am for me?”
Because sitting on the sideline doesn't make you a teammate.
What do y’all think?
Have you experienced this?
Drop your thoughts and share with someone who needs this reminder. 🧠🔥
Truth is, money wey person work for legitimately, no matter how e big reach, them no dey spend am anyhow. Unless maybe you be musician or footballer. All these eastern billionaires wey dey popular online, wey dey like throw money for air. I don't believe them and their source
Angel of death.
I blame Nigerians wey dey comot go do voting for these politicians Dem. If na my kind of people dey, walai even if I collect your money, that election day I dey my house dey catch cruise make Dem do wetin Dem like. Because Las Las even when you vote, dem go still do wetin dem wan do
CommonSense1967:
Globally? Exaggeration experts.
When they construct an ordinary toilet, they will exaggerate it to another level.
When someone from another region construct a real world class mega project, they will claim that it's wasteful, over budget, not needed now or simply what the govt should be doing anyway.
The level of hypocrisy is simply astonishing.
Guy you no get money, go and hustle some more. No sweetness whatsoever in marriage. Las Las you go give your wife Belle come dey use the kids as your greatest achievement & blessings while you dey suffer low-key
I will be brief.
I love this lady and I believe she loves me too because she is my dream woman.
we plan to get married by early next year, but the problem here is that my mom want me to hold on with the wedding because she feels I'm not buoyant enough for marriage.
My finance promise to though.
By this year December, I should have saved 1.5M from my pocket and I believe family and friends will as my total budget for the wedding is 2M.
Although I didn't tell her about my savings yet.
I don't want to enter a marriage without my parents . Just few months left to new year and I'm so confused right now.
I would assume this is an old structure undergoing a makeover and the contractor believes knocking down the existing stairs will weaken the the structural integrity of the building and so prefers this design that looks like attempt to retain structural stability.
It’s also possible that the under stairs will get knocked down later.
So this photograph can’t make for an informed opinion.
Your measuring lens sharp. Very good analysis. I think say person no go talk true. Those ones for up dey jealous say him dey even press the back for their front
TheWebbers:
Jesu!, na my spec be this girl o. In fact, na everybody spec.
He get some girls wey be say she fit everybody spec. Na this kind girl.
Thick o, slim o, average height o, you like yansh o, you no like yansh o, short o, tall o. She just dey within everybody spec
Ofekongsk: 11:16pm On Jun 04
