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onumadu: 4:51pm On Sep 22, 2024
Lifestone:

You called us cowards, yet we defeated Igbos and stopped the Fulanis from reaching the sea as they planned. Much of cowardness

But the Oba of Lagos is a Muslim.
What da fk are you yappin'?

Show me a traditional ruler in the Eastern coast/sea of the South that is a Muslim.
Bravery is not by mouth. cool
onumadu: 1:55pm On Sep 04, 2024
chiagozien:
Because lies and hatred for Igbos keeps Nigeria together.

QED.

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onumadu: 6:06am On Sep 02, 2024
pansophist:
Try to bring your woman to Canada to live with you, or relocate to be with her, in any case, just be together physically.

The idea that a man can get over dirty sexual addictions without a woman is tough. Just like food cures hunger, a woman that you both love each other will go a long way in helping you stop it.

The reason why you don't see many women doing this stuff is because they control sex. Every woman can get sex. Attractive men don't fall into this either because they have women everywhere.

No fap, semen retention, being born again, or undergoing deliverance won't help you. If it were, you wouldn't be here again after many years of struggles.

If you are having real sex from a woman who desires you, and you empty your balls often, the urge to go spend money on some internet prostitute will be appalling.

The secret also is to be attracted to your woman. She should be your type or the proverbial spec. It would help if you found her attractive, it would help you a lot.

Just as men save women, women make men better. For example, a man marrying a slut has taken away her shame, that's how men save women. And women make men better by giving him love, and in your case, tame their lust and save you from exploitation by other women.

Oga you are as wise as Solomon.
You are also mature. And real wisdom comes from maturity.

Canada and other western societies have the same problem: LONELINESS.
And the fact that this young man is in Canada without a steady woman by his side is the MAIN PROBLEM.
He is in his sexual prime. This is NOT the time to be away from a steady woman. I prefer a wife.

His addiction to escort and onlyfan is partly because no woman is by his side "draining" him steadily, leaving him with no extra sexual energy to spare. Once that part is solved, his addiction will come within his ability to solve permanently.

An aside: Nna when I saw the type of money dis guy dey blow for olosho I was like WTF!

To folks like myself, money is farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr superior to sex.
Give me money any day I don't have sex, and I won't complain. cool

@OP, your problem is location. You are LOCATED AWAY FROM YOUR WOMAN.
Stop wasting money on vanity. Invest that money instead. Try to grow that money so that you can either relocate your woman or go back to her.
You will not remain young for ever.
That money you are wasting now is your lifeblood: the ticket to your ultimate freedom.
A lot of Nigerians would kill for the opportunity you are wasting. Think about that.
Let that thought stop you.

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onumadu: 8:01pm On Aug 30, 2024
If Obi doesn't buy a clue, he should be "primaried" next time by other clued Igbos.
I don't know why he thinks he should talk in all situations.

Our people say that the dog that barks don't bite.
The man in aso rock today didn't bark much during the period preceding the last election, but guess what, he had a HUGE BITE, and the rest is history. undecided

Peter Obi should watch it, because every time he speaks, he appears more effeminate and less serious.
Nigeria is what it is.

A proverb from my Igbo town says that "instead of another person's dog to bite by dog to death, let my dog bite the other person's dog to death and let me pay for that dog!". cool

Peter Obi should go back to his village and re-learn certain "native wisdom".
onumadu: 7:47pm On Aug 30, 2024
Wisfem:
Obi About To Derail All the Respect Igbos had For Him For Condemning A Young Igbo Woman Responding To Violent Attacks Against Her and Her Clan....

For a countless time Yoruba Obas and kings has threatened to kill and Throw all the Igbos to the lagoon, Even their politicians has repeatedly Organised hoodlums to kill and burn Igbo properties all over their states, we have seen where there Governors Destroyed and vandalized all igbo own properties and even demolished buildings... No Yoruba politician or even the Elites tried to calm or even condemn the action of the hoodlums wether governor or Traditional ruler... Nothing has been said since Tinubu sponsored hoodlums to prevent Igbos from voting in lagos[ even killing some Igbos on the process , No Yoruba politician condemned that, Obi did not still learn from that...
Obi likes his Igbo political brothers, all play the Yoruba and Fulani slaves, paint your people bad to appease the uncultured and unrestrained Yoruba and Fulani to be in their good books,...No Northerner wether politicians or even low IQ individual will even condemn their own, no Mather what happened , when Deborah was killed, Atiku tried to gain the southern votes by releasing a statement, no more than 1 HR he deleted after recieving calls from other Northern politicians, but look at Obi here condemning an innocent woman for responding to assaults and attack against her and her tribe..
Obi you must read the northern agenda and how they respond to issues if truly Igbos will vote for you again..


Peter Obi is clueless and it should be concerning to all true Igbo.
I don't understand why Obi thinks that he can "love" his way into Nigerian hearts, when the hearts he is trying to win are incapable of love.
Everybody knows that Nigeria is a shark tank, and even current president Tinubu is TOTALLY unapologetic in his handling of Nigerian affairs using only Yoruba people.
I worry that Obi presidency would be worse than Aguiyi Ironi's.
That his cluelessness is why he was EASILY rigged out in the last election, and why he would continue to lose if he doesn't buy a clue.
To be honest, the only Anambra politician of Obi's era that is street smart enough to win Nigeria's president is Dr Chris Ngige.
Ngige has it all: street smart, intelligent, BIG BALLS, cunning, CLEVER, sly, ... understands machiavellianism, etc.
Peter Obi is merely blocking other "Clued" Igbos from winning the presidency.
Yes I said it! cool

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onumadu: 1:43am On Aug 30, 2024
MIKOLOWISKA:
why didn't they get permit first

When Anambra citizens bring international honor and praise for Nigeria, do they first get permit before doing it?
Why didn't Nigeria reject them or disown them, since they didn't get permit to win laurels for Nigeria?
As I write this, Innoson is doing exactly that (winning acclaim for Nigeria ). Allen Onyema is doing the same. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie did the same thing, Chinua Achebe, and MANY MANY MANY other Anambra sons and daughter that achieved things that Nigeria could never in a million years have achieved without them. Why didn't Nigeria reject all their achievements on the basis that they never obtained permit before embarking on their efforts to win laurels for Nigeria?
I have said many times in the religious section that Nigerians use hypocrisy to mask their true evil and wicked tendencies.
This Anambra INTERNATIONAL airport can (and most likely would) become the BEST international airport in Africa if Nigeria sets aside its wickedness for once and realize that the airport will serve ALL Nigerians and not only Anambra citizens.

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onumadu: 7:36am On Aug 28, 2024
StillDtruth:


Ok

Thank God you observed Moses wrote the commandments.

Now did you not see that Moses was like God's secretary and that God dictated The Laws for him to write down? Exodus 34:27

So, The Law is God's Law and not Moses's.

The topic is sex not divorce!

Suffice me to state that you have it mixed up.
Looking at God's mind, in marriage is there divotce? No


Okay, let me answer you probably for the last time.

I never changed or mixed up the topic from sex to divorce: I only used one example (where Jesus gave a different command from the one Moses gave) to make a point.
I was only trying to prove that Jesus (as God incarnate) did this to prove a point. And that point is that laws are made for man and not man for laws.

My point remains that most of you are focused (or obsessive) on sex while normalizing unimaginable levels of evil in your society.
That is why I cited Europe. In Europe women can walk the streets near naked and people would be going about their normal businesses, while in Nigeria men would go crazy with anger, and sometimes even try to harm the women. They even kill some.

But guess where there is PRACTICAL demonstration of Jesus' level love, care and comion? It ain't in Nigeria! Figure that.

Guess where even your religious leaders go for vacation and medical treatment? Yep, same "sex-crazed" Europe.

Guess where all the children of your leaders both political and religious ones go to school? Europe with their sex life!

I surmise that Nigerians use their "chastity" as cover for their wickedness and evil proclivities.

They're just like the Scribes and Pharisees of Jesus' days!

I would leave it here because it appears as if I'm not being understood.
Abeg no vex.
Peace. cool

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onumadu: 6:16am On Aug 28, 2024
Anambra never embarked on building a LOCAL airport. Anambra built an INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT with the runway and landing facilities to match.
The question is WHY SHOULDN'T ANAMBRA INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT GET THE NECESSARY FEDERAL APPROVAL TO OPERATE?
You can build whatever airport you want in Nigeria, if the federal government refuses to issue permit for international operation, your airport is forced to operate as a local airport.
IF Dangote trucks are forced to operate in Kano alone, could he be called a wasteful business man for investing in those trucks?
All these deceits are not fooling anyone.

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onumadu: 6:02am On Aug 27, 2024
StillDtruth:


I understand why you say this, but do you not see that the bold is a brainwashing statement sold by atheists?

For since Adam people have always done the evil and csused all the problems in the world. Is it not a friend who scammed you? Or is it not a brother who eats the monies you sent for him to build you a house?

Religion is nothing it is people who do things whether good or evil; thus it is people who are the problem of the world who after they have done the evil, they start defending it with everything they can use to cover it.

And the bottomline is that they nevet do what God Commanded, in all subjects of life whether sex or relations with fellowmen or work all of which God commanded us to be holy.

So, i do not restrict it to sex alone but becausr the topic was sex, it then became needfull to restate that The Law is we must be chaste and holy.

Correction! It is not Moses's laws, it is The Laws which God gave Moses to give the world

[b]Don't let your desire overide your knowledge of Truth [/b]for you know Jesus did not cut down The Law, He only pointed out the building blocks of The Law starting with its foundation, then the ground laid on top of the foundation. And common sense tells you the rest of The Laws are the floors and rooms in that building called Law!

Simple: do you not see how atheists always try to look gooder than regular folks? So also do the atheistic countries for they know that they that they are very evil, so they would destroy themselves, as you saw, they have fought more wars and wrought more evils than any other continent.

So this is them trying not to show they are even more evil than regular people, which is why you see they live alone. So don't be deceived by their organization and order, they are just created to cover the deep evil they have and to deceove the world with the "appearance" of good!


Dem neva born atheist wey go fit brainwash me. lol cool

I am not the type that anyone can brainwash because I READ A LOT.
Most of what I say comes from a body of researched knowledge, as well as life experience.
Let's get that out of the way first...

I agree that people created religion and used (still use) it to commit a lot of evil.
Religion is a human construct. Settled. Humans are evil. Even God regretted creating man in Gen 6:5-6.

As for the laws which I said is "mostly Mosaic laws" I stand on that based on what Jesus said about divorce.
Bible said "But Jesus told them, “Moses wrote this commandment for you because of your hardness of heart." (Mark 10:5)

God of course inspired Moses to give those laws, but if the people weren't wicked and hardhearted, God could have given them a different law.
And that is exactly what Jesus did when he rejected free will divorce and limited it to adultery based divorce as well as refused to condemn the woman caught in adultery. After her would-be stoners (those wanting to stone her) had dispersed, Jesus asked her where are your accs? She looked around and said they were no more, and Jesus told her neither would he Jesus condemn her. But told her to go and sin no more. Was Jesus a sinner for doing this? that "I desire mercy and not sacrifice" saying?

Throughout his life and ministry, the only people Jesus condemned were the "church leaders" of the time called the Scribes and Pharisees, because they were just like the ones we have today -HYPOCRITES . He used parables like the good Samaritan to hammer home this point.
Jesus told the Scribes and Pharisees that tax collectors and sinners would enter heaven before them. Think about that.

He talked about the kingdom of God being among them, and said that many of the people present then would not see death before they saw the kingdom of God. Was he lying?

As for the European countries I referenced earlier I am not totally exonerating them, afterall they are part of the same evil human family, BUT they have been able to put into practice most of the teachings of Jesus Christ even without being churchgoers.
They care for the sick and poor. Check!
Their prisons are penitentiaries (where people are taken to go and change their lives for the better), while Nigerian prison are death holes where people go to die. Check!
Most of them have abolished the death penalty, but mere mention of such in Nigeria evokes serious anger among Nigerians. Check!

In fact I use the state of Nigerian prisons to prove the point about how far more wicked/evil our people are in-spite of their "holiness and chastity".
I doubt that the Europeans are interested in deceiving anybody by putting into practice FOR THEMSELVES virtues inspired by Jesus Christ.
They are just living their lives using the template Jesus left behind, and the onus is on you African to bring about heaven instead of working overtime to foist hell on earth all while avoiding sex.
Do you think that if it was Nigerians or Africans that colonized other countries that those colonized countries would ever be independent? EVER?
Think about that honestly.
I rest it here.
onumadu: 6:54pm On Aug 26, 2024
MrCork:


M.O.D...FRONT PAGE!!!

Went to Flavour concert last nite here in london and can u imagine this foooolish man came out wereing backless top, womens shoe & mini sket....and worst of alk, this eeeediot had on braid like women & then ehen he started dancin, he was winding his waste like woman..making all mens priiik standdddup..even my prikk standup by mistake..he definately & this is embarassssing for nigeria. angry


Mr Cork no go kee pesin walahi.

This is by far the funniest post I've read here in MONTHS!
cheesy cheesy grin grin grin

LOLZ @ "even my prikk standup by mistake" cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
I'm rolling on my floor here.
Oga, please check yaself o.
E get why. grin

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onumadu: 2:27pm On Aug 26, 2024
StillDtruth:


Since our argument is going like this i think it appropriate that it is given a thread of its own and discussed here.

No where did i say "God is man" rather it is man who is like God.

We must humanize Him to understand Him and most especially to understand His Commands to us which He expects to obey very well.

So how can we obey them well if we do not first appreciate that He is connected to us and feeling what we feel about the subject? Eg our feelings on joy and sorrow; good things and evil things, love and hatred are the same with His in normal humans.

Seeing He responds like us and to us, we therefore are able to.have a sweet relationship with Him.

Think about it should alien come, do you not first look for things that you human can relate with eg head, eyes, hands, talk and language etc?

If a Chinese just suddenly appears in your ship at sea to start issuing commands, would you move to obey? No.

Why? Because there are many things you need to process which includes that he knows what he is saying on the subject which affects you and your crew.

And God's Ways/thoughts "towards us" are still humanly eg God's Way is give, man's way says to don't give

God's Way says be holy and chaste, man's way says fuqc around


First bolded is a problem and that is why most of the world's problem today was/is caused by religion.
People wake up from their sleep and say that God told them to enforce so so and so law.
I watched a video where one Muslim cleric was taking about how they will inherit 72 virgins in heaven, and the whole thing was so sex-crazed.
He said that even if they fall accidentally they would fall on top of a woman!
And I'm like, so the world killings in the name of God is just about pucci, or to inherit virgins?
See the problem?

Anyway, second bolded s the same "holiness is about sex alone" premise.
Why can't the corollary of holiness be about LOVE (selfless love -AGAGE) than about sex?
See what you did there: "holy and chaste"
Why must you connect/limit holiness to sex alone?

I cited Jesus's life and views on these these, but you are still limited to sex.
BTW,the law was mostly Moses laws. I don't want to go detail because it would take up too much space.
That is why Jesus had to cut it down to two only.

Have you ever wondered why there is more wickedness and killings in a religious Nigeria than say a non/less religious northern Europe?
Anytime I travel between Nigeria and such countries I feel like someone traveling from hell to heaven.
Why can't Nigeria be heaven-like?
I know the answer: Because Nigerians are busy worshiping genital organs in the name of holiness!
onumadu: 4:31am On Aug 26, 2024
StillDtruth:


Did you not hear that we are made to be like God?

So, definitely, we can use humaness to understand God especially as He has even related with us based on our humanity, so, you did not speak well.

Secondly,
Taking is allowed but stealing is not.

If you can differentiate these 2 then you ought to appreciate that God created sex to be enjoyed under certain conditions exactly how He created all the goods in the world we enjoyed.

But, having that liberty, does it mean we can take anything we wanted simply because it was available and can be taken? No.

That is the same thing God did with sex which is why.the proper marriage approved by God is one where both partners are virgins and wedded by their parents; and having fulfillled all these, the married couple can fucq unlimited.

Even here, there is still Law binding them to fuqc only themselves.

So you see God has given us many good things but they are all under and Conditions called Law!


Firstly I don't think you have read or meditated in the details of the biblical s of what ( I didn't say "who" ) God is.
Firstly God is NOT man. He even called his name "I AM THAT I AM".

Human brain cannot contain or wrap itself around the details of God.
Solomon the acclaimed wisest king said of God in the Bible that the whole of heavens and heaven of heavens cannot contain God; he then wondered how his temple in Jerusalem could contain God.

My point (and the often thing that annoys me about people humanizing God) is that man should stop trying to mold God in human natural ways and methods. In the same Bible God himself said that his ways are NOT our ways. Why should people continue to drag God down to the vane and fleeting nature?
Sex is a VANE and FLEETING thing that the MOST HIGH strictly views as part of the mortal man's thing.
I personally believe that marriage is a purely human construct. Man designed and enforce it (and there are many types of it in different parts of the world - all of them accepted by God).

When God deals with humans, he does so using values that humans imposed upon themselves.
That is why it was possible for God to speak to and direct the kings of Israel of old as well as the kings of Persia and Babylon.
HE OWNS ALL OF THEM, and directs all of them!

God had to incarnate through a virgin because man worships sex and virginity. But do you know that Jews still don't believe in the virgin birth of Jesus Christ? MAN IS SEX-CRAZED AND OBSESSED WITH THE VAGI-NA. And that annoys elevated souls like myself.
Until man TRANSCENDS that vanity called sex or "focus-on-sex", man will remain like other lower animals.

Have you watched a group of monkeys mating in the wild. Go and watch it, and see that while one male is mating, the other males are busy trying to pull it down (out of the ape-like jealousy you find in humans).

God had to incarnate as Jesus Christ to try to show man that the laws are made for man and not man for the laws.
That is partly why he forgave sins, but the scribes and pharisees wondered how he could forgive sins.
Also part of why he saved the woman caught in adultery (because he knew that all the people there gathered to stone the woman committed far greater sins than her). He was almost stoned by supposed zealots when he challenged them to go and find out the meaning of "I desire mercy and not sacrifice"
And so many other things he did, and when he was done he told his disciples that greater things could they do if only they believed.
But guess what, man is still worshiping useless woman orifice and setting bondage for themselves that tie them to this realm rather than allow them to transcend this earthly realm.

Look, I can write a book on this (and will try to find the time to write that book).
onumadu: 12:11am On Aug 25, 2024
Yep I don answer am. cool
onumadu: 11:40pm On Aug 24, 2024
Oga dis ya story get as e be o.

I doubt its authenticity...

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onumadu: 8:00pm On Aug 24, 2024
Funny topic.
Atheists say that man created God in his own image, and they have a point because people keep trying to humanize God.
You MAN worship and idolize sex, and now want God to do the same.
How can the same God that created sex in all of it's details (including the orgasm you are in awe of) suddenly turn around to brand it the worst sin?
Isn't it better and easier for God to have simply destroyed his whole creation to prevent sex?

I keep saying it that some king in the past after having sex determined that sex is too sweet and too powerful and therefore needs strong regulation. And that is how "God" started to view sex as sin.

The only true God is one that exists waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy above human obsessions with sex.
onumadu: 2:56pm On Aug 24, 2024
FarSide:

She's not interested anything

And that, my friends, is the MAIN issue.
How do you mold a woman into "your kind of woman" if she is SET AS CONCRETE?
onumadu: 2:49pm On Aug 24, 2024
doggedfighter:
Aren't you enjoying her virginity and the way she calls you her Lord and answers you sir ?

You dis babe you wicked o. cheesy cheesy cheesy

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onumadu: 12:12am On Aug 24, 2024
For you to even be considering marriage to this type of a woman speaks more about your warped and weak mentality
I hope you are not one of these men that worship women who claim to be religious and not into other men (AKA virgin hunters who worship puccy). undecided
I sense that is why you are taking a boatload of nonsense from this woman. undecided
Better run for your dear life while you still can.

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onumadu: 11:58pm On Aug 23, 2024
Forming hard to get never made sense to me, but then again, I am not a woman.lol
One thing I know for sure though is that opportunities to meet and engage a responsible man are limited, and not one to do shakara over.
All it takes is you the woman being a responsible woman first.
Being a responsible woman makes it easier to focus on important qualities in people generally, and not be swayed by inanities.
Once you are such a woman, you can EASILY identify husband material and play along confidently after he even hints at first move.
You can also stop time wasters and shut the door firmly against them no matter how hard they try!
Some women have gone on to marry men they even slept with on first date, while some women have dated men for years without them proposing, and even them marrying someone else. Yep, it happens!
So, work on yourself first and be an excellent judge of men's character.
That is more important.
So that when a real husband material shows up, you won't lose him -at all.
I hope this helps someone.

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onumadu: 6:04pm On Aug 22, 2024
Nigerians should MASSIVELY UNFOLLOW RENO for hating and trolling Peter Obi whose only "crime" is to be Igbo and wanting to serve as Nigeria's president.
If Nigerians were really patriotic and truly believe in the unity of Nigeria, this should be their first action.

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onumadu: 5:59pm On Aug 22, 2024
PoliticalChinex:


I am from Anambra and have beeen seeing such news too. But is not Anambra people that are wicked. But mostly Anambra women based in Anambra

Me too. cry
The type of wickedness that we are seeing in our women these days is shocking and demoralizing.
Maybe they've always been this wicked o, but social media is now allowing it to come out in full view.
Particularly the ones at home. Somehow they are getting more wicked as time goes on.
Maybe its time we Anambra men looked inwards to find out why our women are becoming Jezebels on our watch.
Problem is that most Anambra men only see the fault in other women and not in their own.
Eziokwu na adi inu na nti.
This nurse should be scapegoated and used as example by giving her a STIFF punishment (something like a serious jail term).
This evil must end in Anambra!

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onumadu: 1:57pm On Aug 22, 2024
The girl said something important, and I would rather focus on it.
She said that all the men that are currently patronizing those girls will in the future start looking for "wife material".
She then said that all of those men MUST marry someone with such past whether they like it or not.
she said 95% of girls out there, which leaves us with just 5% (according to her street statistics ) grin
You see why I attack virgin hunters here?
Today those men would be spoiling the women by patronizing their deviance and tomorrow they start looking for virgins to marry. I dey laff.
If men in society don't patronize these women in their devious craft, would they continue? My smart guess is NO!
So, before you look for virgin tomorrow to marry, make sure that you NEVER EVER engaged in any hook-up or thunder will visit you. angry

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onumadu: 4:30am On Aug 22, 2024
Kingzjayzee:
John-Paul Ugwu, a self-proclaimed Nigerian polygamist, has claimed that he has taken a new wife.

Ugwu, who made the announcement in a Facebook post, said[b] his aim is to marry 21 wives.[/b]

"Who dey zuzu? Women are so "yanfunyafu" that i will keep marrying more. 21 is my target. I have just married another wife today."

"Congrats to me. My name is now High Chief Azu Anuka 1 na Enugu State. Polygamy has come to stay," he wrote.

"Polygamy- My village people are trooping in and out since early this morning to confirm the good news about the arrival of my new wife"

"Bl00dy monogamous people won't rest today. My men atubago down from every part of the country to witness my polygamous marriage today. There is katakata in the land of monogamy."



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.tori.ng/amp/279364/i-will-keep-marrying-more-21-is-my-target-self-pro.html

High Chief I dey greet o.
Nothing do you biko. cool
Though I would advise you keep the number odd; something like 3, 5, 7, 9, 11 ... etc
E get why.
One day I come dey check dis thing and it suddenly dawned on me that monogamy (ie one man, one wife) is dangerously skewed against men.
Women are farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr more powerful (in fact TOO POWERFUL) to be trusted not to abuse their natural power.
I figure that they should be married in such a way that dilutes those powers, or their powers are checked by co-wives (ie another woman in the marriage).
Only a woman knows how to check or contain another woman's power.
So, on a day that one wife/woman may decide to finally deal with her husband, another wife may save the man.
Two women HARDLY agree as long as they are sharing same man, and that is where polygamy saves men.
The only argument I've made fairly to myself about monogamy is that it is better to master one thing than trying to master two or more.
That's all.
That's how monogamously married men like us rationalize it.
Ewepu ya eh? ... undecided grin cheesy cheesy cool

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onumadu: 9:13pm On Aug 21, 2024
One reason I like this man is because HE IS A STRONG INTELLECTUAL.
The man just LOVES knowledge, and this is in a region that treats western education with deep suspicion and ignominy.
How marvelous it would have been for Nigeria to have a president like that instead of Buhari and his later day incarnation replacement.

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onumadu: 1:52am On Aug 20, 2024
One thing is missing conspicuously from your list.

What is missing?
GOOD FOOD. (home meal well made)
Good food is what signals to a married man that he is "home", and that "home" can be anywhere if the wife is slacking in that department.
Most married men are responsible (which is why they married in the first place).
Understand this first.
Such men hate eating outside.
After he's had a great MEAL you prepared, he would be available for other things (including your seductions) .
Most married men are captured by other women outside using just food.
After eating there, other things become possible.
This is why most responsible men HARDLY eat outside, particularly foods cooked by women who they suspect is eying them.
Take this advice and thank me later. cool

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onumadu: 1:37am On Aug 20, 2024
A women crosses a line when she says that she did her husband a favour by having their child.
Such woman has no business being married and should not be touched with a ten feet pole.

OP sorry o.
E be like say you don enter one chance. cry
onumadu: 1:31am On Aug 20, 2024
@OP, I don't know how young you are, but you sound young.
One advice I can give you for free is that seducing women is NOT an achievement.
At all.
Instead of learning how to seduce women, use that your brain to discover how to add value to society and probably make money in return.
Don't waste your time on pure vanity.
Adopt and implement my advice and thank me later.

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onumadu: 1:10am On Aug 20, 2024
NO, thank you.

Question: What is 500% of nothing?
Answer: Nothing.

I rather have 2% of 5, than have 500% of nothing.

My happiness is that even the most "Lagos headed Igbo" have started to change their delusions.
One of them who owns significant investments in Lagos is today an ardent advocate of moving to the east.
He spends most of his time these days in the east.

After Aba is done under Alex Otti, we are likely to have an opportunity to build real IT and tech hubs in the east.

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onumadu: 9:00pm On Aug 19, 2024
See real progress and achievement, while our professor is busy speaking grammar in Anambra.
Let me see who will vote for the nutty professor in next election.
Ikpe malu eziokwu aka azu di ya.
onumadu: 8:51pm On Aug 19, 2024
Just imagine!

Dis life sef eh..

Flavour is the only REAL musician of his class in Nigeria. Quote me.

He MAKES MUSIC (as in compose, sing, dance and all of them LIVE on stage).

Others mime all the time. Flavour sings in his own voice.

And he is SUPERBLY CONFIDENT in his music compositions. From slow moving music to fastest paced ones.

And HE CAN DANCE ALL music/choreography from Nigerian to Congo to Tanzanian, etc.

Remove tech gadgets and 90% of Nigerian "artists" would stop being musicians.
But you see Flavour? The man would be making hit musics even with just drums, guitars and pianos.

The man has no equal in Nigeria.

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onumadu: 4:00am On Aug 19, 2024
wow, you try o.
That means you can survive with 60K/month in this naija. shocked
That's an achievement.
But since the money no be ya own, my hand no dey inside o. grin

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